Topic: Do you realize....
A64WOODY's photo
Mon 11/17/08 09:43 AM






Christmas to me has a very different meaning to me in the last say 10 years. I do not like it anymore, soley because of the way my x treated me during the holidays. It is the spirit of giving, right? Wrong! With her it is the receiving that is important. If I got her something that was from my heart, she would say something like "That wasn't on my list!! I don't want it!!" You know what I say about X-mas now? BAH! HUMBUG!


Yeah, that's right. Let someone else dictate how you feel about something and live in the past.
But Lil, I am starting a new life now! It excites me!!! I want the spirit back in me and it will come! This is just how I have felt.


Read your post and your reply. See the contradiction? Maybe you simply have no idea the trend in your posts. You are a very bitter person...
okie dokie.I do seem to contradict myself and I may be bitter. That is my issue to deal with, but who is to say that I am not ready to return to the way I was before?


I do agree with Lilith in the sense that you need to stop allowing this woman's selfish actions to dictate how you interpret the spirit of the holidays henceforth. You can blame absolutely no one else for that other than yourself. Not even her.

My suggestion for what its worth would be for you to spend the upcoming holidays with some new people if at all possible. Just try to wipe the slate clean and start over.
You are right. It is up to me. My intentions are to get a REAL tree this year and start again!

Mr_Music's photo
Mon 11/17/08 09:43 AM
I'm wondering how much of it is really just a sort of marketo-inertia, an inherent part of the ubiquitous WinterMegaSpend-A-Thon it's all turned into....

There's so little of the original pagan solstice-themed accoutrements left anymore -- nobody hardly even goes to PaganMart these days....


Deep. indifferent

lilith401's photo
Mon 11/17/08 09:44 AM
I like that so many Christmas songs have my name in them, and I got lots of chotzky gifts....

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Mon 11/17/08 09:45 AM

I'm wondering how much of it is really just a sort of marketo-inertia, an inherent part of the ubiquitous WinterMegaSpend-A-Thon it's all turned into....

There's so little of the original pagan solstice-themed accoutrements left anymore -- nobody hardly even goes to PaganMart these days....


Deep. indifferent


Nah, just having a bad day!

shades

lilith401's photo
Mon 11/17/08 09:47 AM
Lexy, I'm going to have your love child and name her Naveah....laugh :laughing:





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I crack myself up.....:laughing:

A64WOODY's photo
Mon 11/17/08 09:48 AM

Woody~ I'm not saying anything. I am simply making an observation, and one that is over months of posting. If you choose to let it go, then do it. Unless you are apathetic, you can't. It is your choice. And right now, I'm saying I've observed you have very very very strong feelings for your ex.
Good feelings or bad? I know that I was not really accepting the fact it is over, But I now know it is. It is not easy ,as you know, but I am the only one who can do anything about it. I am learning how to live on my own after an entire life of living with others. I do have choices and I am now excersizing my rights. To stand up for myself and not be pushed or guided to another's way of thinking. I guess I did not realize that I have been posting in such a way.

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Mon 11/17/08 09:50 AM

Lexy, I'm going to have your love child and name her Naveah....laugh :laughing:





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I crack myself up.....:laughing:


That's heavenly....

flowers flowers flowers


lilith401's photo
Mon 11/17/08 09:51 AM
If it's a boy I will name him Nomed....laugh

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Mon 11/17/08 09:57 AM

If it's a boy I will name him Nomed....laugh


He would pretty much have to be -- seeing as how I'm less likely to instigate a pregnancy than I am to walk to the moon on a big yellow rope....!

shades


lilith401's photo
Mon 11/17/08 10:05 AM


If it's a boy I will name him Nomed....laugh


He would pretty much have to be -- seeing as how I'm less likely to instigate a pregnancy than I am to walk to the moon on a big yellow rope....!

shades




You are wicked funny.....

Krimsa's photo
Mon 11/17/08 10:36 AM


"Elvis' Christmas Album" turned 51 years old this year?

The movie "White Christmas" celebrates birthday #54.

The movie "It's A Wonderful Life" turns 62.

The original movie of "Miracle On 34th Street" turns 61.

The story of "How The Grinch Stole Christmas" turns 51, and the animated TV special turns 42.

"A Charlie Brown Christmas" reaches birthday number 43.



Any ideas as to why these classics are still so popular today?
:wink:


I'm wondering how much of it is really just a sort of marketo-inertia, an inherent part of the ubiquitous WinterMegaSpend-A-Thon it's all turned into....

There's so little of the original pagan solstice-themed accoutrements left anymore -- nobody hardly even goes to PaganMart these days....






laugh laugh PaganMart!

Actually the Pagans have the right idea and understand what the theme of the origional holiday was all about. A lot of raucous merriment, excessive eating, and unbridled drunken love making and naked wild dance around the bonfire. Well maybe not naked dance in the dead of winter but a lot of heathen Yule craziness.

Good times. happy

lilith401's photo
Mon 11/17/08 10:38 AM
Fireplace count for winter? Then you can dance naked....

Krimsa's photo
Mon 11/17/08 11:04 AM

Fireplace count for winter? Then you can dance naked....


Brilliant! happy Problem solved! Im going to ask that everyone surrender their clothing at the door for my Yule celebration.

buttons's photo
Mon 11/17/08 11:07 AM
ohhhh I love that move "Miracle on 34th Street" I think it is my all time favorite..

buttons's photo
Mon 11/17/08 11:07 AM
ohhhh I love that move "Miracle on 34th Street" I think it is my all time favorite..

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 11/17/08 11:08 AM

"Elvis' Christmas Album" turned 51 years old this year?

The movie "White Christmas" celebrates birthday #54.

The movie "It's A Wonderful Life" turns 62.

The original movie of "Miracle On 34th Street" turns 61.

The story of "How The Grinch Stole Christmas" turns 51, and the animated TV special turns 42.

"A Charlie Brown Christmas" reaches birthday number 43.



Any ideas as to why these classics are still so popular today?
:wink:


:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

buttons's photo
Mon 11/17/08 11:10 AM
Yikes double post and bootedlaugh

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Mon 11/17/08 11:11 AM


Fireplace count for winter? Then you can dance naked....


Brilliant! happy Problem solved! Im going to ask that everyone surrender their clothing at the door for my Yule celebration.

Count me inlove

Krimsa's photo
Mon 11/17/08 11:12 AM



Fireplace count for winter? Then you can dance naked....


Brilliant! happy Problem solved! Im going to ask that everyone surrender their clothing at the door for my Yule celebration.

Count me inlove


Yeah we need a Catholic boy sacrificial lamb so I will get your invite out tomorrow.

:wink:

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 11/17/08 11:14 AM

ohhhh I love that move "Miracle on 34th Street" I think it is my all time favorite..
:banana: I like that movie too:banana: