It's too tough to read what a woman's mind is saying, so it's easier for them to read what a woman's tits are saying instead.

It's too tough to read what a woman's mind is saying, so it's easier for them to read what a woman's tits are saying instead.

Can't be that hard to figure out what a woman is saying if you're actually reading what they type .

It seems to me that men feel it is perfectly all right to express their excitement about a woman in ways that would send them running for the hills if a woman said the same thing. Example of things men have said to me are as follows:

Did you read my profile, cause you are the exact women I have been looking for!

You are perfect for me, i want to make this happen.

Will you marry me?

I will drop whatever I am doing to meet you, just tell me the time and the place.

Yes, i know that this is playful banter. But my question is why are men allowed and feel comfortable doing this while women saying the same thing would be seen as desperate or just plain crazy?

It seems to me that men feel it is perfectly all right to express their excitement about a woman in ways that would send them running for the hills if a woman said the same thing. Example of things men have said to me are as follows:

Did you read my profile, cause you are the exact women I have been looking for!

You are perfect for me, i want to make this happen.

Will you marry me?

I will drop whatever I am doing to meet you, just tell me the time and the place.

Yes, i know that this is playful banter. But my question is why are men allowed and feel comfortable doing this while women saying the same thing would be seen as desperate or just plain crazy?

It used to be so much easier during the cavemen days. You just find a woman you like then boink her on the head with your club. Grab her by the hair of her head and drag her back to your cave. Modern technology who needs it?

You can't grab a woman by the hair these days, though....it might come off!

Let's be realistic: physical attraction is naturally pretty high up on the initial attraction scale. Despite the people who insist that "it's inside what counts, not the appearance", a person always goes first for what attracts them by eye. Let's face facts. Nobody wants to be with a bow-wow. However, looks are subjective. What one person may think looks hideous, another may find attractive.

The next step is determining whether or not that person is "out of your league". Again, there are folks who will just say to go for it. That isn't always possible. I know for a fact that there are a lot of uber-gorgeous women out there with incredible personalities, but they're still single due to the fact that guys find them to be unapproachable, generally due to the lady's beauty. Most men would feel as though that woman already has a million guys knocking down her door, and she can have her pick of the litter, yet in reality, she's alone. One cancels out the other.

Attitude and finances also play a huge role, whether anyone agrees with me or not. If someone is "well-connected", or is financially well-off, or both, a person who does NOT have those attributes will most times not even engage in conversation with the other because of "not being in the same class".

A person who is into all the latest fashions or attends all the hoity-toity social gatherings, compared to a person who enjoys wearing a t-shirt and jeans and enjoying a beer on the deck with a few friends, or working on their own car in the garage....how often does that go over well?

Mutual compatibility is key. From there, one can determine if further steps can or should be taken. You have to kind of look into your own personal crystal ball a little bit.

It used to be so much easier during the cavemen days. You just find a woman you like then boink her on the head with your club. Grab her by the hair of her head and drag her back to your cave. Modern technology who needs it?

Some guy yesterday asked me why I responded when I wasn't interested. I told him I pretty much respond to everyone in some way, even if I'm not interested. He said it only gives a guy hope and makes them think someone is interested, because most don't bother. My thing is if they'd actually read the response, they can tell right away if I'm not interested. So yes, I guess that's true that most don't even bother to read what you write.

NOW I understand my problem. I READ the responses and deduce that they aren't interested. Next time I'll just take a response as "Hey, let's get it on!" regardless of the content. I think this is going to work out much better for me.

You mean there are guys out there who actually read?

It seems to me that men feel it is perfectly all right to express their excitement about a woman in ways that would send them running for the hills if a woman said the same thing. Example of things men have said to me are as follows:

Did you read my profile, cause you are the exact women I have been looking for!

You are perfect for me, i want to make this happen.

Will you marry me?

I will drop whatever I am doing to meet you, just tell me the time and the place.

Yes, i know that this is playful banter. But my question is why are men allowed and feel comfortable doing this while women saying the same thing would be seen as desperate or just plain crazy?

It seems to me that men feel it is perfectly all right to express their excitement about a woman in ways that would send them running for the hills if a woman said the same thing. Example of things men have said to me are as follows:

Did you read my profile, cause you are the exact women I have been looking for!

You are perfect for me, i want to make this happen.

Will you marry me?

I will drop whatever I am doing to meet you, just tell me the time and the place.

Yes, i know that this is playful banter. But my question is why are men allowed and feel comfortable doing this while women saying the same thing would be seen as desperate or just plain crazy?