Topic: Well..........
MsCarmen's photo
Sun 11/16/08 12:39 PM


Thanks everyone for the congrats and support. I know I'm definitely going to need it!

I am scared about telling my family and the father to be, but I know once I get that over with, I won't have to deal with that issue anymore.

The biggest thing that is scaring me the most though is having this baby at 37 (I'll be 38 when it's born). I've heard a lot of negative things about having a child after 35. So if anyone knows of information about this, or any good sites to go on please let me know.

I can say one good thing about this though....



MY BOOBS ARE HUGE! surprised surprised surprised


I can't even see my feet any more! tongue2


My mother had me when she was 42 years old.

My sister-in-law had her son (my nephew) when she was 45.

My uncle was born to my grandmother when she was 41.

Besides me, all are healthy happy and stable people....

2 out of 3 ain't bad.

You will be a wonderful mother, many many blessings.

If you have a girl will you name it Lily???


Thanks Lily, that helped a lot flowerforyou

And as far as the name goes, I have no clue. Haven't even thought about that yet, lol.

MsCarmen's photo
Sun 11/16/08 12:40 PM


I plan on telling him today. He had to work last night, and is sleeping now so I can't do it until this evening.

And as far as him seeing this thread, there's a slim chance that's going to happen cause he deleted his profile.


You have a big support system here. Know that everyone here will be sending you their best. I have to work tonight, but, I will be sending prayers your way.



Thank you and don't work to hard flowerforyou

adirtygirl's photo
Sun 11/16/08 12:41 PM



Thanks everyone for the congrats and support. I know I'm definitely going to need it!

I am scared about telling my family and the father to be, but I know once I get that over with, I won't have to deal with that issue anymore.

The biggest thing that is scaring me the most though is having this baby at 37 (I'll be 38 when it's born). I've heard a lot of negative things about having a child after 35. So if anyone knows of information about this, or any good sites to go on please let me know.

I can say one good thing about this though....



MY BOOBS ARE HUGE! surprised surprised surprised


I can't even see my feet any more! tongue2


My mother had me when she was 42 years old.

My sister-in-law had her son (my nephew) when she was 45.

My uncle was born to my grandmother when she was 41.

Besides me, all are healthy happy and stable people....

2 out of 3 ain't bad.

You will be a wonderful mother, many many blessings.

If you have a girl will you name it Lily???


Thanks Lily, that helped a lot flowerforyou

And as far as the name goes, I have no clue. Haven't even thought about that yet, lol.:wink: :wink:




no Lily.... she promised me she would name the baby "adirtygirl' but i will settle for Michelle as well

MsCarmen's photo
Sun 11/16/08 12:41 PM

if i can ask how far along are you?????


According to the chart, I am 5 weeks and the baby is due July 13, 2009.

It's gonna suck being pregnant during the summer! tears

beauty314's photo
Sun 11/16/08 12:53 PM
a good tan toughens up the skin
pregnant in the summer is a blast:banana:

MsCarmen's photo
Sun 11/16/08 01:31 PM

a good tan toughens up the skin
pregnant in the summer is a blast:banana:


I have to disagree. I was pregnant during the summer with my daughter, I was miserable! tears

adirtygirl's photo
Sun 11/16/08 01:33 PM


if i can ask how far along are you?????


According to the chart, I am 5 weeks and the baby is due July 13, 2009.

It's gonna suck being pregnant during the summer! tears


i was with both my kids...not fun but all worth it in the end

MsCarmen's photo
Sun 11/16/08 01:35 PM



if i can ask how far along are you?????


According to the chart, I am 5 weeks and the baby is due July 13, 2009.

It's gonna suck being pregnant during the summer! tears


i was with both my kids...not fun but all worth it in the end


I agree :wink:

Mr_Music's photo
Sun 11/16/08 01:54 PM

MsCarmen's photo
Sun 11/16/08 01:58 PM




awww that's so cute!

MsCarmen's photo
Sun 11/16/08 04:04 PM
thanks heather, alisha, Kim, Buffry, and Want2Be, I appreciate it!flowerforyou

Etrain's photo
Sun 11/16/08 04:05 PM
Got milk???:banana: :banana: :banana:

MsCarmen's photo
Sun 11/16/08 04:06 PM

Got milk???:banana: :banana: :banana:
bigsmile

awolf1010's photo
Sun 11/16/08 04:11 PM
congrats!!!!!!

its pretty amazing!!!!
enjoy every step along the way!!!!





~~~~hell I didnt even know you could do it online!!!!~~~~

MsCarmen's photo
Sun 11/16/08 04:13 PM

congrats!!!!!!

its pretty amazing!!!!
enjoy every step along the way!!!!





~~~~hell I didnt even know you could do it online!!!!~~~~


Thanks hun. flowerforyou


I didn't either, I guess I forgot to update my protection and the little booger got thru!bigsmile

artcat's photo
Sun 11/16/08 04:16 PM
Congrats and don't worry about going through the summer, you're only going through half of it anyway ~ maybe it won't get that hot yet! :wink: flowerforyou

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 11/16/08 04:17 PM
(((Carmen))) Wow! Well, I had my girls when I was 35 and 36 (or was it 37?). Close enought. Don't worry about it. You'll be fine. flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

MsCarmen's photo
Sun 11/16/08 04:19 PM

Congrats and don't worry about going through the summer, you're only going through half of it anyway ~ maybe it won't get that hot yet! :wink: flowerforyou


I hope not and thanks flowerforyou

MsCarmen's photo
Sun 11/16/08 04:21 PM

(((Carmen))) Wow! Well, I had my girls when I was 35 and 36 (or was it 37?). Close enought. Don't worry about it. You'll be fine. flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou


((((Ruth)))) I know shocker right? shocked I'm glad you told me that. Actually talking to people who have had a child at my age without any problems sure makes me feel a lot better!

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 11/16/08 04:24 PM


(((Carmen))) Wow! Well, I had my girls when I was 35 and 36 (or was it 37?). Close enought. Don't worry about it. You'll be fine. flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou


((((Ruth)))) I know shocker right? shocked I'm glad you told me that. Actually talking to people who have had a child at my age without any problems sure makes me feel a lot better!


Well, I had two of em and they are beautiful, healthy, obnoxious little girls. :wink:

I think I am a better mother this time around. The maturity seems to help and you stress less about things.