tell him hes "a nice guy", he should get the clue....

As the OP is out shopping to the Story of O, I'll try to respond. He is nice, but that isn't the issue. He could be nice and still fit her criteria. He isn't disinhibited, adventurous, or sadistic enough.

I think my bfriend is too enamored of me.

So, how to break up with a guy's been on your side, thinks he's doing everything RIGHT.

I think my bfriend is too enamored of me. He may've gone blind. It may not work out though we are amiable and i semi-respect his manhood. Goodness oozes from every pore and angle of our relationship ..

I need to be disciplined, spanked, kindly told all the things i'm doing wrong right down to the way my heels hit the ground, the way i breathe or my inflection. I would also appreciate greatly if he more sternly regulated my meals.

Instead he is kind and forgiving, supportive and available and doing too much waiting.. waiting around to see what I am doing, what I am saying, how I am responding.

I need unpredictability, yearning, ego, disapproval, and when he gives way I must tremble in relief and fear of unknowing and then, only then will I be able to appreciate some kind of assurance.

Now, I can't really teach him those things, can I. It's going to take an authentic partial sadist egomaniac with a firm place in the world.

So, how to break up with a guy's been on your side, thinks he's doing everything RIGHT.

No JT..... umm... a guy who will put it in hers without asking pretty please....

No JT..... umm... a guy who will put it in hers without asking pretty please....