Topic: current boyfriend state of affair
7z3r05's photo
Fri 11/14/08 09:40 AM
way to not have any real pictures or any real information in your profile.


lilith401's photo
Fri 11/14/08 09:41 AM

way to not have any real pictures or any real information in your profile.




Well, it's not hard to figure out why, is it?

7z3r05's photo
Fri 11/14/08 09:42 AM
lol. i suppose. what an odd situation.

sweetfireice's photo
Fri 11/14/08 09:43 AM


way to not have any real pictures or any real information in your profile.




Well, it's not hard to figure out why, is it?


I get to be a little more honest in the forums

lilith401's photo
Fri 11/14/08 09:43 AM

lol. i suppose. what an odd situation.


No, I mean her profession....

7z3r05's photo
Fri 11/14/08 09:44 AM
ahhh... an athletic small town attorney.

sweetfireice's photo
Fri 11/14/08 09:45 AM

lol. i suppose. what an odd situation.


I've had something of an interesting life. The pain only stopped around 35.

sweetfireice's photo
Fri 11/14/08 09:48 AM

The Story of O, by Pauline Reage (not real name I don't think), is a classic. Originally in french, it was translated in the early 60's (I think). It is about supplication and subjugation, written in literal, sexually graphic and S&M terms. However.... the real meaning of the book, IMO, is the willingness to love, the wanting to love, a strong lovingly control man who is sexually passionaet and devoted. It is literature, to me.

I will admit you have to read it more than once to get past the sex, which is hardcore graphic.... but once you get the message, it is heartwrenching. Literature, true literature.

It's also not long, a three to four hour read.


Sounds fitting. I will place a copy in his attache where there are normally science and newsweek articles.

sweetfireice's photo
Fri 11/14/08 09:51 AM

ahhh... an athletic small town attorney.


One or two know me here. In a way, it's all for fun, but I never lie here. That's actually the point.

lilith401's photo
Fri 11/14/08 09:52 AM
Please read it yourself, first...

...and I'd love to hear what you thought of it. I read it in college, and kept a copy ever since.

KCFriend's photo
Fri 11/14/08 09:56 AM

Try reading between the lines here, folks. She is trying to be as honest as she can. It's not so hard. Her feelings are clear.

She has expectations and he's being, simply put, a wussy.


Damn, you sure call it like it is!!

sweetfireice's photo
Fri 11/14/08 09:58 AM

Please read it yourself, first...

...and I'd love to hear what you thought of it. I read it in college, and kept a copy ever since.


I'm going to pick it up. I shall report. Geez, I could've done better on my profile, but I think I just got lucky around here today.

lilith401's photo
Fri 11/14/08 10:01 AM


Try reading between the lines here, folks. She is trying to be as honest as she can. It's not so hard. Her feelings are clear.

She has expectations and he's being, simply put, a wussy.


Damn, you sure call it like it is!!


Yes, I do. I'm well criticized for it, thanks. laugh For me? It's the golden rule. I read the OP, and I thought, wow she is one honest cookie. She deserves my sincerity. My profile says I'm forthcoming and I am. This poor lady is about to lose a relationship....

sweetfireice's photo
Fri 11/14/08 10:04 AM



Try reading between the lines here, folks. She is trying to be as honest as she can. It's not so hard. Her feelings are clear.

She has expectations and he's being, simply put, a wussy.


Damn, you sure call it like it is!!


Yes, I do. I'm well criticized for it, thanks. laugh For me? It's the golden rule. I read the OP, and I thought, wow she is one honest cookie. She deserves my sincerity. My profile says I'm forthcoming and I am. This poor lady is about to lose a relationship....


I love you ((((lilith))) for being you. It is a luxury to be honest in my book.

lilith401's photo
Fri 11/14/08 10:06 AM
Right back at ya, sweet. Sent you a request so we can keep in touch.

KCFriend's photo
Fri 11/14/08 10:09 AM




Try reading between the lines here, folks. She is trying to be as honest as she can. It's not so hard. Her feelings are clear.

She has expectations and he's being, simply put, a wussy.


Damn, you sure call it like it is!!


Yes, I do. I'm well criticized for it, thanks. laugh For me? It's the golden rule. I read the OP, and I thought, wow she is one honest cookie. She deserves my sincerity. My profile says I'm forthcoming and I am. This poor lady is about to lose a relationship....




I love you ((((lilith))) for being you. It is a luxury to be honest in my book.



I wasn't disagreeing with Lilith, just does the man realize he is thought of as a wus? I would hate to think that the saying, "Nice Guys Finish Last" is a fact. Have you told him to man up?

sweetfireice's photo
Fri 11/14/08 10:10 AM

Right back at ya, sweet. Sent you a request so we can keep in touch.


OK! I'm off to the bookstore. It is a casual lazy friday and I needed some direction since papa smurf is too lenient with me.
:wink:

I have little hope for him, lil, but its a fun idea you have. I can't resist. Really, it's great.


no photo
Fri 11/14/08 10:13 AM
tell him hes "a nice guy", he should get the clue....

sweetfireice's photo
Fri 11/14/08 10:14 AM





Try reading between the lines here, folks. She is trying to be as honest as she can. It's not so hard. Her feelings are clear.

She has expectations and he's being, simply put, a wussy.


Damn, you sure call it like it is!!


Yes, I do. I'm well criticized for it, thanks. laugh For me? It's the golden rule. I read the OP, and I thought, wow she is one honest cookie. She deserves my sincerity. My profile says I'm forthcoming and I am. This poor lady is about to lose a relationship....




I love you ((((lilith))) for being you. It is a luxury to be honest in my book.



I wasn't disagreeing with Lilith, just does the man realize he is thought of as a wus? I would hate to think that the saying, "Nice Guys Finish Last" is a fact. Have you told him to man up?



I'm hearing you KCfriend. The man cannot read my mind and intelligence and age apparently cannot be qualifying factors for him to inherently know or understand my peculiarities even though he knows my life's story, so with lilith's help, I will give him a little help.. hopefully without losing what I need from the relationship.

lilith401's photo
Fri 11/14/08 10:14 AM

tell him hes "a nice guy", he should get the clue....


As the OP is out shopping to the Story of O, I'll try to respond. He is nice, but that isn't the issue. He could be nice and still fit her criteria. He isn't disinhibited, adventurous, or sadistic enough.