Topic: How are a-holes better than nice guys?
Tromette's photo
Thu 11/13/08 11:26 AM
When guys are cocky, it makes me want to punch them in the throat and instantly drops their attractive level by at least four points.


Also, when nice guys whine about being nice and how girls only like bad boys, it makes me want to punch them in the throat and instantly drops their attractive level by at least four points.

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Thu 11/13/08 11:29 AM

I don't know if I would use the word asshole per se. Women just happen to like men who have some jerkish qualities to them. There's a fine line I think.

But any woman who says she wants a nice guy is just setting every "nice guy" up for failure. Most of them won't appreciate anything from the nice guys, because they become bored with them. It's all a game, unfortunately.


exactly!!

WarElephant's photo
Thu 11/13/08 11:29 AM

9. They don't whine about being nice guys.


Haha, this is hands down the best reason by far.

PacificStar48's photo
Thu 11/13/08 11:29 AM
There are rare instances where a 19 year old guy is responsible and loving husband and father but the reality is it is often that they finish growing up while they father yet another child so that overwhelms and even younger and less prepared wife who has to work to help support the family and do the majority of household work. That men stick around for twenty years usually is for the desire to raise their own kids and not because they continue to have a loving and motivateing relationship. A relationship that is cold and whatever for twenty years has two selfish stubborn people who punish themselves for not correcting the mess.

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Thu 11/13/08 11:30 AM

I don't know if I would use the word asshole per se. Women just happen to like men who have some jerkish qualities to them. There's a fine line I think.

But any woman who says she wants a nice guy is just setting every "nice guy" up for failure. Most of them won't appreciate anything from the nice guys, because they become bored with them. It's all a game, unfortunately.


For those guys who say they're assholes or nice guys, I think it is a game.

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Thu 11/13/08 11:30 AM

When guys are cocky, it makes me want to punch them in the throat and instantly drops their attractive level by at least four points.


Also, when nice guys whine about being nice and how girls only like bad boys, it makes me want to punch them in the throat and instantly drops their attractive level by at least four points.


Yes, exactly. Being cocky or whiny automatically makes a man less attractive.

RKISIT's photo
Thu 11/13/08 11:31 AM


I don't know if I would use the word asshole per se. Women just happen to like men who have some jerkish qualities to them. There's a fine line I think.

But any woman who says she wants a nice guy is just setting every "nice guy" up for failure. Most of them won't appreciate anything from the nice guys, because they become bored with them. It's all a game, unfortunately.


For those guys who say they're assholes or nice guys, I think it is a game.
pitchfork wanna playpitchfork

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Thu 11/13/08 11:32 AM
I'm a nice assholedevil :angel:

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Thu 11/13/08 11:33 AM



I don't know if I would use the word asshole per se. Women just happen to like men who have some jerkish qualities to them. There's a fine line I think.

But any woman who says she wants a nice guy is just setting every "nice guy" up for failure. Most of them won't appreciate anything from the nice guys, because they become bored with them. It's all a game, unfortunately.


For those guys who say they're assholes or nice guys, I think it is a game.
pitchfork wanna playpitchfork


:tongue:

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 11/13/08 11:34 AM
Why can't a guy just be a jerk??laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Thu 11/13/08 11:34 AM

Assholes may not keep a job but occassionally they make a woman think they are more important than the job. Nice guys will go to work when you are in labor and expect you to call them less than and hour before birth or maybe at home after work.


yeah and those are the woman supporting the guy most of the time and while she is working supporting him he is having sex with someone else behind her back.It's all BS woman want so many different things. If a guy works too much he's no good. If he doesn't work enough he's no good. Men are suppose to work and support the family Dumb woman don't appreciate this and make the guy choose "what's more important?" me or your job.Freiking insecure BS.

WarElephant's photo
Thu 11/13/08 11:37 AM


I don't know if I would use the word asshole per se. Women just happen to like men who have some jerkish qualities to them. There's a fine line I think.

But any woman who says she wants a nice guy is just setting every "nice guy" up for failure. Most of them won't appreciate anything from the nice guys, because they become bored with them. It's all a game, unfortunately.


For those guys who say they're assholes or nice guys, I think it is a game.


I dunno, I've been an asshole ever since the day I was born. It's not a game to me. I just happen to have a low tolerance for BS, and that ceases to change, whether I'm getting attention from women or not.

msmyka's photo
Thu 11/13/08 11:37 AM
I actually like nice guys, well nice to me anyway. Don't care much if he is nice to the rest of you tongue2

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Thu 11/13/08 11:38 AM


Assholes may not keep a job but occassionally they make a woman think they are more important than the job. Nice guys will go to work when you are in labor and expect you to call them less than and hour before birth or maybe at home after work.


heh. I don't think those are nice guys. Perhaps the self proclaimed nice guys, but not really nice guys.

Self Proclaimed or even old fashioned doublestandard society standard Nice guy is only a lable and not my valuation of that person. I agree neather the assholes or the nice guys I have described are good bets as mates.

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Thu 11/13/08 11:42 AM

There are rare instances where a 19 year old guy is responsible and loving husband and father but the reality is it is often that they finish growing up while they father yet another child so that overwhelms and even younger and less prepared wife who has to work to help support the family and do the majority of household work. That men stick around for twenty years usually is for the desire to raise their own kids and not because they continue to have a loving and motivateing relationship. A relationship that is cold and whatever for twenty years has two selfish stubborn people who punish themselves for not correcting the mess.


I agree with some of that.I personally tried to fix the relationship numerous times and was shot down. It was damned if I did and damned if I didn't. I was willing to work on any problem except for the cheating BS.That I didn't want to deal with.

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Thu 11/13/08 11:47 AM



I don't know if I would use the word asshole per se. Women just happen to like men who have some jerkish qualities to them. There's a fine line I think.

But any woman who says she wants a nice guy is just setting every "nice guy" up for failure. Most of them won't appreciate anything from the nice guys, because they become bored with them. It's all a game, unfortunately.


For those guys who say they're assholes or nice guys, I think it is a game.


I dunno, I've been an asshole ever since the day I was born. It's not a game to me. I just happen to have a low tolerance for BS, and that ceases to change, whether I'm getting attention from women or not.


Eh, I have a low tolerance for BS and don't consider myself an asshole :smile:.

Marley's photo
Thu 11/13/08 11:47 AM
Better equipped.

PacificStar48's photo
Thu 11/13/08 11:51 AM


Assholes may not keep a job but occassionally they make a woman think they are more important than the job. Nice guys will go to work when you are in labor and expect you to call them less than and hour before birth or maybe at home after work.


yeah and those are the woman supporting the guy most of the time and while she is working supporting him he is having sex with someone else behind her back.It's all BS woman want so many different things. If a guy works too much he's no good. If he doesn't work enough he's no good. Men are suppose to work and support the family Dumb woman don't appreciate this and make the guy choose "what's more important?" me or your job.Freiking insecure BS.

Why is it "f---ing insecure BS" because a woman expect her spouse to prioritize family over a job and be present in extreamly significant family times? Expects a grown man to meet the majority of his own needs and share in the responsibility of the needs of children. Expect a lover and not a stud service. If a guy is cheating behind her back and you know it why don't you tell her? Yeeessshhh!

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Thu 11/13/08 11:56 AM
Ive decided in my mind that even the azzzzzzholes think they are nice and the nice guys are azzzholes once in awhile!!!noway


lilith401's photo
Thu 11/13/08 12:01 PM
The next asshole I go out with, I'm putting something in there.

I swear....