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let me know what you think of me, so i can a)feel good about myself b)feel bad about myself Women don't usually care about looks, at least not as much as the way you carry yourself across the floor, so-to-speak. Women can sense it when you feel good about yourself and it changes the way they look at you. But if you walk with insecurity? They sense that too. That is so true about us women, but it also holds true for guys as well. 
If I told you that you were unattractive, you'd say "She's right, poor me." And if I told you that you were attractive, you'd probably think, "She's just saying it to be nice, she really doesn't think that." With either answer, I'm not going to be right. When you are going through a hard breakup like you are going through, it's very hard to get out of that, "Woe is me" way of thinking. Especially, because you weren't given any definitive answers as to why she broke up with you. But just remember, she went to somebody else to look for answers in fixing your relationship problems. And even if you were partially to blame for some of the problems, (cause let's face it, none of us are perfect), she still should have had enough respect for you to discuss it with you and not someone else. |
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Edited by
OneMoreTimeAround
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Wed 11/12/08 04:49 AM
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Maybe this has yet to happen for you, but have you not ever met someone that at first glance, maybe you didn't find SO attractive or maybe you meet someone and you think they're "drop dead gorgeous", but once you got to know the person, their looks would change???? There's nothing wrong with the way you LOOK, but what YOU are will always make a difference in how one perceives you, even in the way you look.
I'm sorry for what you're going through, give it time. Do something for YOU, starting with reducing the negative in your life. |
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let me know what you think of me, so i can a)feel good about myself b)feel bad about myself Women don't usually care about looks, at least not as much as the way you carry yourself across the floor, so-to-speak. Women can sense it when you feel good about yourself and it changes the way they look at you. But if you walk with insecurity? They sense that too. That is so true about us women, but it also holds true for guys as well.
If I told you that you were unattractive, you'd say "She's right, poor me." And if I told you that you were attractive, you'd probably think, "She's just saying it to be nice, she really doesn't think that." With either answer, I'm not going to be right. When you are going through a hard breakup like you are going through, it's very hard to get out of that, "Woe is me" way of thinking. Especially, because you weren't given any definitive answers as to why she broke up with you. But just remember, she went to somebody else to look for answers in fixing your relationship problems. And even if you were partially to blame for some of the problems, (cause let's face it, none of us are perfect), she still should have had enough respect for you to discuss it with you and not someone else. That is very helpfull thank you very much |
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not a good discussion topic dude.
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I think you have all the elements to be very desireable and with a little time you will find your social life improveing. You are a good looking guy, nice hair, creative, sensitive, and hopefully will shake off the blues. Realize You are in a tough age frame for most guys right now. If you are lonely concentrate on developeing some friends and doing fun things then the romance will take care of itself because people are always attracted to fun people. Sign up for school and see what fun things they offer between classes. Great time of year to pick up some extra bucks working holiday jobs for great Spring break.
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