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 Your husband went to a strip club and got a couch dance.Is that cheating?
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nope but I won't have a husband that would do that or at least make a habit of it.
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its not cheating if i get to go with him. otherwise we have a big problem.
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define: "couch dance"
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i don't think so at all
whether it be that he went alone, with buddies, or with me |
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Edited by
Pink_lady
on
Wed 11/05/08 12:41 PM
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Your husband went to a strip club and got a couch dance.Is that cheating?
No, it isnt cheating, but imo, its infringing on the exclusivity of the relationship, by involving a third party to become sexually excited. |
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No.
But why would he pay for a dancer to dance for the couch? |
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if you're with him and have given the ok i'd say no
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"I've looked on a lot of women with lust. I've committed adultery in my heart many times."
-former President Jimmy Carter |
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Ladies, I hate to break this to all of you. I also thought there was not a thing wrong with a lap, or couch dance. My late husband was a photographer and after his passing, I of course had to go through all of his possesions. I have hundreds and hundreds, seriously, photos of that's
not all that they do. I swear this is the honest to God's truth. So if you're not with them, a lot more goes on than you think. Trust all you want but...........it does happen!!! |
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not all men do more with the dancers
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I totally agree becca. BUT some do, and say they
don't.. |
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i agree. i'm so sorry you found out the way you did.
i guess my theory is that jealousy gets a woman (or man for that matter) nowhere except either alone or dumped. if he's going to cheat he's going to cheat whether you know or not. if the woman is more open about things he's not so apt to do so because he's got an open minded 'kool chick' at home. |
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You are so right. And I've never had a problem with a man I'm with, going to strip clubs or bars.
I think when its done frequently, that's when you have to consider what is really going on. I know a lot of men are truthful and honest, until they prove otherwise, I'd still never have a problem with it. 
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Isn't that like the lady watching soaps? You know, looking at hot guys all day? I'm jealous.
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I don't see any harm in anyone looking at another. I just see the hurt when there is touching and whatever else they choose to do.
And I don't think its cheating if a man goes to a strip club, but when they pay for a lap dance and that's what they get on a couch. Yes, that is cheating. |
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I don't see any harm in anyone looking at another. I just see the hurt when there is touching and whatever else they choose to do. And I don't think its cheating if a man goes to a strip club, but when they pay for a lap dance and that's what they get on a couch. Yes, that is cheating. i think looking IS hurtful. it might not be classified as cheating, but if i'm out with my guy and he is ogling other women, i'm quite upset and hurt. as far as him going out with his buddies to a strip club, i've found that most men behave FAR better in those-type joints than do the women! most just sit there and drink their beer. |
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Your husband went to a strip club and got a couch dance.Is that cheating?
If I have a husband, I've got lots more important things to start worrying about. |
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Your husband went to a strip club and got a couch dance.Is that cheating?
If I have a husband, I've got lots more important things to start worrying about. 
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i wouldnt mind at all... because i know who hes coming home to.
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