How'd she get your number?

She text messaged me from his phone!

Ohhhhhhh, not good! RUN!!!

...I found out today he had NO idea what happened.
He claims to have been picking up his son when she must have gone through his phone...

Sad to say, the "seed" that woman planted in my mind has grown over night so I don't know whether or not to trust him.

I decided to sever all ties with him. I wished him well.

...I REALLY hope this B! TCH didn't keep my number. I don't look forward to the harrassment.

Makes ya wonder if there's not more to the story eh? I mean really, who allows their ex to just happen to go through their phone when picking up the kiddo? Seems a bit odd. I'm sorry to had to cut ties, but that's exactly what I would have done also. I don't know about you, but I'm way to old to play games. Hugs to you today!

I think your "aquaintance" is using you to get back at his ex...why else would she have your number???

Sumpin' fishy there eh? Ick.

He comes across as one of those "kind hearted guys"...He would go to her place and place his keys and cell phone on the counter while he got his kid ready...

She didn't have my number. She contacted me through his cell while he was getting the baby ready.

I dunno. He is gone now

It's a shame isn't it? Maybe he'll fix it somehow....but I don't think I could trust him. Sorry that happened to you.

I feel the same way!

I know things like this happen. I know there are several people that have ex's that could be considered "loose cannons"...
The thought of involving myself (friend or more) with someone that has such baggage is intimidating.
People like her shred families and friendships apart.

Too bad he has a kid with her.
I'm sure he doesn't regret his son but I am possitive he regrets HER.

I like your new pic!

THank you

Hmmmmm.... my opinion.

Well I agree it is definately a whole lot of high school drama going on!

First of all, I wouldn't be friends with the guy anymore, he wasn't telling the whole truth somewhere or is seeking attention he isn't getting from home.

If he is still married, that is a complete no no!
If he is separated, obviously not separated enough. Either way if you were under the assumption that he was single, he lied and that is a really really big no no!

Second, personally I wouldn't have dignified her with a response. I would have went to him, asked him why this person was doing this.... and if I got the slightest intution that he was lying or skirting around the question. I would have dropped him like a bad habit.

Obviously he isn't a good friend, if he neglected to share information.


But know that you aren't alone, there has been a lot of texting from wifes and gf's going on lately. Guys being busted for parading around as being single when they are not. It does suck when you considered someone a friend and they lied. I guess its all a part of being online.

One big warning sign is if they are hot for you and online for a while.... disappear for a while... come back and start like nothing has changed.

Ok... you asked and I gave my opinion... I hope it made sense.

ya girlie!

Thank you ma'am

Anytime sweets, I hope my perspective helped.

i think you made a smart move, ultimately, he is responsible for the outcome of the situation, had he had more respect for you, he would at minimum locked his cell phone, at maximum memorized your phone number, he didn't manage the situation well

roco

So out of all this, your question is...

"How did I get him horny!!??!?!!!"


seriously?

shouldn't your question be...

"why the hell did he lie to me about not having a wife!?"

Honestly, I think you did a wise thing by cutting the ties with him. I think something is kind of fishy myself. I kind of think that IF he doesn't have something still going on with his babies mama, that would be really shocking!!
I know when my "ex" picks up my boys...he doesn't even come in my house. IF he even thought about picking up my cell phone and checking out my numbers on there, I would be really upset. That is an invasion of my privacy and he is showing NO respect for me!!
I think you really had no choice but to kick his butt to the curb! In the long run, I think you saved yourself some heartache!! You sure don't need a psycho texting you all the time!! Good Luck