Topic: Define Nice Guy...
oldhippie1952's photo
Wed 08/03/11 09:50 AM

alot of the "nice" guys seem to think they finish last..dont quite
understand that..noway


We DO get passed over as being "boring." Some of us have had very exciting lives without getting involved negatively with the law. And still more adventures to come...

oldhippie1952's photo
Wed 08/03/11 09:55 AM

You people fail to realize there is no "nice" or "bad" guy. It is all relative to the observer, but generally "nice" guys are pansies.smokin


We're pansies??? So since I went through fiery hell and faced death without backing down (Vietnam) I'm a pansy? What does that make a "bad" guy who wasn't there, below the muck I scrapped off my pansy combat boots?

See, you got me started now. RRRRrrrrRRRRRRrrrrrrr

Niceladyrealy's photo
Wed 08/03/11 10:54 AM
A niceguy will never be rude to you,in action or words.he will support your goals,and try his besto understand you,and make you happy. Im looking for a nice guy.

msmyka's photo
Wed 08/03/11 11:02 AM
Edited by msmyka on Wed 08/03/11 11:02 AM
I want a guy who is well rounded. To me a nice guy is one who tries to be nice all the time. What if the situation calls for something other than nice? How will he handle it? Will he let himself be walked all over to preserve his nice title?

I need a little naughty and a little nice. I am personally not "nice" enough to date a "nice" guy.

Smile2chidex's photo
Wed 08/03/11 11:04 AM
A nice guy is who would b caring 2 his lady at all tymz not relating wit her attitude & alwayz tolorate wat eva she does

damnitscloudy's photo
Wed 08/03/11 11:10 AM
I play with kittens at the animal shelter everyday. How much nicer do I have to be to get women's attention!? :tongue:

msmyka's photo
Wed 08/03/11 11:11 AM

A nice guy is who would b caring 2 his lady at all tymz not relating wit her attitude & alwayz tolorate wat eva she does


So even if she's being a raging biotch, he should be nice and understanding?

I would never expect anyone to allow themselves to be treated like that. If that's what a nice guy is supposed to do then no wonder they are so jaded.

oldhippie1952's photo
Wed 08/03/11 01:03 PM


A nice guy is who would b caring 2 his lady at all tymz not relating wit her attitude & alwayz tolorate wat eva she does


So even if she's being a raging biotch, he should be nice and understanding?

I would never expect anyone to allow themselves to be treated like that. If that's what a nice guy is supposed to do then no wonder they are so jaded.


If they are raging he is supposed to do his best to defuse the situation. Maybe give her chocolate? (j/k)

no photo
Wed 08/03/11 01:14 PM
A nice guy is gay :)

oldhippie1952's photo
Wed 08/03/11 01:17 PM

A nice guy is gay :)


That is gay in its original meaning: happy!


FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 08/03/11 02:15 PM


You people fail to realize there is no "nice" or "bad" guy. It is all relative to the observer, but generally "nice" guys are pansies.smokin


We're pansies??? So since I went through fiery hell and faced death without backing down (Vietnam) I'm a pansy? What does that make a "bad" guy who wasn't there, below the muck I scrapped off my pansy combat boots?

See, you got me started now. RRRRrrrrRRRRRRrrrrrrr


Generally, but that's okay, usually people don't like my blunt honesty so they only hook one part of the conversation...I forgive you, though.smokin

Phuque2's photo
Wed 08/03/11 02:20 PM
Edited by Phuque2 on Wed 08/03/11 02:22 PM



You people fail to realize there is no "nice" or "bad" guy. It is all relative to the observer, but generally "nice" guys are pansies.smokin


We're pansies??? So since I went through fiery hell and faced death without backing down (Vietnam) I'm a pansy? What does that make a "bad" guy who wasn't there, below the muck I scrapped off my pansy combat boots?

See, you got me started now. RRRRrrrrRRRRRRrrrrrrr


Generally, but that's okay, usually people don't like my blunt honesty so they only hook one part of the conversation...I forgive you, though.smokin



Edited to say....MMMMmmmmmmmmyka



Blunt honesty just sounds so cool. Thats all I have to say....I've been away so long I forgot how to Mingle.

msmyka's photo
Wed 08/03/11 02:20 PM



A nice guy is who would b caring 2 his lady at all tymz not relating wit her attitude & alwayz tolorate wat eva she does


So even if she's being a raging biotch, he should be nice and understanding?

I would never expect anyone to allow themselves to be treated like that. If that's what a nice guy is supposed to do then no wonder they are so jaded.


If they are raging he is supposed to do his best to defuse the situation. Maybe give her chocolate? (j/k)


Ok I'll give you an LOL for the chocolate remark but aside from that if someone is raging it is my general opinion that you should sit there and look at them like they are an idiot. I'm not saying there aren't good reasons to be that upset, just that most people do not have a good enough reason to be that upset and are therefor just throwing a temper tantrum. Condoning such behavior does less good for the one throwing the fit than it does for the one trying to defuse it.

oldhippie1952's photo
Wed 08/03/11 03:31 PM




A nice guy is who would b caring 2 his lady at all tymz not relating wit her attitude & alwayz tolorate wat eva she does


So even if she's being a raging biotch, he should be nice and understanding?

I would never expect anyone to allow themselves to be treated like that. If that's what a nice guy is supposed to do then no wonder they are so jaded.


If they are raging he is supposed to do his best to defuse the situation. Maybe give her chocolate? (j/k)


Ok I'll give you an LOL for the chocolate remark but aside from that if someone is raging it is my general opinion that you should sit there and look at them like they are an idiot. I'm not saying there aren't good reasons to be that upset, just that most people do not have a good enough reason to be that upset and are therefor just throwing a temper tantrum. Condoning such behavior does less good for the one throwing the fit than it does for the one trying to defuse it.



Sometimes to defuse it you need to leave so they can rant and rave in private. You have to be flexible in your technique.

msmyka's photo
Wed 08/03/11 03:33 PM





A nice guy is who would b caring 2 his lady at all tymz not relating wit her attitude & alwayz tolorate wat eva she does


So even if she's being a raging biotch, he should be nice and understanding?

I would never expect anyone to allow themselves to be treated like that. If that's what a nice guy is supposed to do then no wonder they are so jaded.


If they are raging he is supposed to do his best to defuse the situation. Maybe give her chocolate? (j/k)


Ok I'll give you an LOL for the chocolate remark but aside from that if someone is raging it is my general opinion that you should sit there and look at them like they are an idiot. I'm not saying there aren't good reasons to be that upset, just that most people do not have a good enough reason to be that upset and are therefor just throwing a temper tantrum. Condoning such behavior does less good for the one throwing the fit than it does for the one trying to defuse it.



Sometimes to defuse it you need to leave so they can rant and rave in private. You have to be flexible in your technique.


My technique usually consists of not dealing with people like this at all LOL

oldhippie1952's photo
Wed 08/03/11 03:36 PM






A nice guy is who would b caring 2 his lady at all tymz not relating wit her attitude & alwayz tolorate wat eva she does


So even if she's being a raging biotch, he should be nice and understanding?

I would never expect anyone to allow themselves to be treated like that. If that's what a nice guy is supposed to do then no wonder they are so jaded.


If they are raging he is supposed to do his best to defuse the situation. Maybe give her chocolate? (j/k)


Ok I'll give you an LOL for the chocolate remark but aside from that if someone is raging it is my general opinion that you should sit there and look at them like they are an idiot. I'm not saying there aren't good reasons to be that upset, just that most people do not have a good enough reason to be that upset and are therefor just throwing a temper tantrum. Condoning such behavior does less good for the one throwing the fit than it does for the one trying to defuse it.



Sometimes to defuse it you need to leave so they can rant and rave in private. You have to be flexible in your technique.


My technique usually consists of not dealing with people like this at all LOL



What if it is your SO doing it? That's what I assumed in my answers. If it was a date, she'd be taken home, date over! Never to come back.

msmyka's photo
Wed 08/03/11 03:38 PM



What if it is your SO doing it? That's what I assumed in my answers. If it was a date, she'd be taken home, date over! Never to come back.


I don't behave like that, I'm not an emotional being. I function on logic.

oldhippie1952's photo
Wed 08/03/11 03:41 PM




What if it is your SO doing it? That's what I assumed in my answers. If it was a date, she'd be taken home, date over! Never to come back.


I don't behave like that, I'm not an emotional being. I function on logic.


I see. I function on irrelevant psychotic illogic myself, makes life interesting.

msmyka's photo
Wed 08/03/11 03:42 PM





What if it is your SO doing it? That's what I assumed in my answers. If it was a date, she'd be taken home, date over! Never to come back.


I don't behave like that, I'm not an emotional being. I function on logic.


I see. I function on irrelevant psychotic illogic myself, makes life interesting.


Hey I like fun or as you called it "irrelevant psychotic illogic" just as much as anyone else. tongue2

oldhippie1952's photo
Wed 08/03/11 03:46 PM
Well I am the anti-Spock, his human side!