thought we could be friends but i can't do it.

he says he loves me misses me i found out a few things that really make him full of ****...

and well you know its not helping me move on.

i don't want to talk to him about anything i know coz he'll just feed me more words that aren't worth my time and i'm not lookig to fight im just over it..

ive tried ignoring him it doesn't work he keeps at me and i always end up giving in...

so any suggestions on how to tell him not to contact me anymore???

You need to talk to your therapist.

look him in the eye, I just dont want to talk to you anymore.

Tell him once more and then don't give in.

here's the irony - things will continue as they are until you stop yourself, make the decision to part ways and follow through with it


goodluck, as it's not easy but may be necessary

It really doesn't matter what you tell him if you're not going to follow through with actions.

I you keep doing what you did, You keep getting what you got.

Simple.

Exactly!!

Let him know...."When the phone ain't ringing...that's me not calling....take the hint".

I swear, that line has worked.

hey..heres a radical idea..stop answering the phone...

"Hey look, my phone is ringing...oh, it is my ex...I don't want to talk to him/her/it/that/thing/dotey/lug/muppet/tick/bloke...I won't answer the phone"?

1-800-THERAPIST

...can I help you?

Tell him you were abducted by aliens and will be a guest of the federal government for the next several months.

have sex with his....brother, best friend, father...oh you get the point....and Im sure he would too!!!

Ignoring seems to work on me - when someone ignores me, I take the hint and move on.
Closure would be nice, but nothing's ever perfect