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Topic: Who is at fault?
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 10/27/08 01:59 PM Edited by MirrorMirror on Mon 10/27/08 01:59 PM
You told a trusted friend something very personal and private and now it's no longer private.Who is at fault?You for confiding( because had you not told them ,this wouldn't have happened ) or them for telling?

star1972 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 2323	Mon 10/27/08 02:00 PM
them for telling - r they ur friend??

Tazz42 Joined Fri 02/29/08 Posts: 9660	Mon 10/27/08 02:00 PM
You for thinking you could trust anyone with a secret!

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Mon 10/27/08 02:01 PM
You told a trusted friend something very personal and private and now it's no longer private.Who is at fault?You for confiding( because had you not told them ,this wouldn't have happened ) or them for telling? The first time they do it, they're at fault, for violating confidentiality. The second time, you're at fault, for not learning from the first time.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 10/27/08 02:10 PM
You for thinking you could trust anyone with a secret! good point

Cinderella75 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 10049	Mon 10/27/08 02:13 PM
Well u are suppose to be able to confide in your true friends, but again there is a huge difference between an acqaintance (which I do not trust) or true friends( I only have a few of those, but they know my darkest secrets..;))

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Mon 10/27/08 02:16 PM
I don't like to think it's wrong for trusting people...but unfortunately if you tell a thing to ANYONE, you should expect it is no longer a secret. Someone does not have to be dishonest or backstabbing to let a thing slip out either...sometimes people make mistakes and forget that it was not something you wanted known.

IMAGR81 Joined Mon 08/18/08 Posts: 1443	Mon 10/27/08 02:18 PM
I would have to agree with Lex on this one.

catwoman96 Joined Thu 08/14/08 Posts: 5848	Mon 10/27/08 02:19 PM
mirror.....dont be mad.... im sorry I told the whole world u were the sexiest guy online.

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24709	Mon 10/27/08 02:20 PM
There is no "fault". It just got out "sooner".

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Mon 10/27/08 02:22 PM
There is no "fault". It just got out "sooner". HEY YOU! Where you been? What got out? No one tells me anything!

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24709	Mon 10/27/08 02:28 PM
There is no "fault". It just got out "sooner". HEY YOU! Where you been? What got out? No one tells me anything! The secret <----No Secret...been around...are YOU around the midwest at this point Rose?

BonnyMiss Joined Thu 05/10/07 Posts: 15342	Mon 10/27/08 02:30 PM
You

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 10/27/08 02:31 PM
mirror.....dont be mad.... im sorry I told the whole world u were the sexiest guy online.

catwoman96 Joined Thu 08/14/08 Posts: 5848	Mon 10/27/08 02:31 PM
anyhow....... sharing secrets is a thing friends do. if i knew something about you or had a secret you told me....that could help another "friend" out if they knew. or maybe i just kinda thought it could.... then I guess I was in the wrong for sharing the secret.. im not good at keepoing secrets. i hate them. BUT any personal personal info is always safe with me. "secret" must be defined as just general gossip or actual shared secrets about ones life I think it depends on the secret that was shared.

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24709	Mon 10/27/08 02:31 PM
You Me?

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Mon 10/27/08 02:35 PM
There is no "fault". It just got out "sooner". HEY YOU! Where you been? What got out? No one tells me anything! The secret <----No Secret...been around...are YOU around the midwest at this point Rose? I am back in KC for another week and then off to Houston for 2-3 months-ish. How are you guys doing? The hair is crazy! OMG!

BonnyMiss Joined Thu 05/10/07 Posts: 15342	Mon 10/27/08 02:35 PM
You Me? Yes

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 10/27/08 02:39 PM
If you don't anybody to know anything , don't say anything I've already said too much

Tazz42 Joined Fri 02/29/08 Posts: 9660	Mon 10/27/08 02:41 PM
If you don't anybody to know anything , don't say anything "Ve have Vays of making you talk!" Hey, PATS! I've already said too much