Topic: I get notes.......
LadyOfMagic's photo
Mon 10/20/08 08:47 PM
Asking me if I would mind getting to know someone of a different race..ALL the time..Correct me if I'm wrong but aren't we all here for the same general purpose?..To meet someone?..Why is race such a big deal..The last time I checked my calendar it said 2008 on it.

grneyedldy1967's photo
Mon 10/20/08 08:49 PM
Well magic remember we are from the south and you know how it is here.. not everyone is open to that and they probably just want to make sure that they don't offend you. BTW are you feeling better tonight? flowerforyou

Dangerous_Kitchen's photo
Mon 10/20/08 08:49 PM
check their pics to see if they have thumbs :wink:

galendgirl's photo
Mon 10/20/08 08:51 PM
Crazy!

LadyOfMagic's photo
Mon 10/20/08 08:54 PM

Well magic remember we are from the south and you know how it is here.. not everyone is open to that and they probably just want to make sure that they don't offend you. BTW are you feeling better tonight? flowerforyou

Well yeah you're right..No matter what year it is we will always be stuck in the 40s-50s in one way or another..it's just so far beyond stupid that theres no word for it!

Jill298's photo
Mon 10/20/08 08:54 PM
Some people do not date out of their own race. Tho it's 2008, some people still don't do it. I agree it's irriating however, I wouldn't pay much attention. They are just asking to see if you're interested or not.

wraithme66's photo
Mon 10/20/08 08:56 PM
To me... All that matters, is that they're in the same species... Human. Lol!

LadyOfMagic's photo
Mon 10/20/08 08:57 PM

To me... All that matters, is that they're in the same species... Human. Lol!

Exactly!

tngxl65's photo
Mon 10/20/08 09:03 PM

To me... All that matters, is that they're in the same species... Human. Lol!


Sometimes even that is in question

LadyOfMagic's photo
Mon 10/20/08 09:04 PM


To me... All that matters, is that they're in the same species... Human. Lol!


Sometimes even that is in question

LOL..agreed

galendgirl's photo
Mon 10/20/08 09:05 PM
Are you sure they are asking because THEY have a problem or concern or are they checking to see if YOU have an issue???

It shouldn't even come up, IMO, but just thinking...

LadyOfMagic's photo
Mon 10/20/08 09:09 PM

Are you sure they are asking because THEY have a problem or concern or are they checking to see if YOU have an issue???

It shouldn't even come up, IMO, but just thinking...

I don't know..it's just a weird question to ask since most of this never gets offline anyway..and I swear to you I once had a GROWN man say to me that we could be ONLINE bf/gf but not RL because his parents wouldn't like it..Y'all he was 34!

galendgirl's photo
Mon 10/20/08 09:15 PM


Are you sure they are asking because THEY have a problem or concern or are they checking to see if YOU have an issue???

It shouldn't even come up, IMO, but just thinking...

I don't know..it's just a weird question to ask since most of this never gets offline anyway..and I swear to you I once had a GROWN man say to me that we could be ONLINE bf/gf but not RL because his parents wouldn't like it..Y'all he was 34!


Oh geez...I'm quite a bit older than that guy and I'm not stuck in the dark ages! What is up with people???

LadyOfMagic's photo
Mon 10/20/08 09:17 PM



Are you sure they are asking because THEY have a problem or concern or are they checking to see if YOU have an issue???

It shouldn't even come up, IMO, but just thinking...

I don't know..it's just a weird question to ask since most of this never gets offline anyway..and I swear to you I once had a GROWN man say to me that we could be ONLINE bf/gf but not RL because his parents wouldn't like it..Y'all he was 34!

Oh geez...I'm quite a bit older than that guy and I'm not stuck in the dark ages! What is up with people???

He was a mommy's boy..had to please mommy

galendgirl's photo
Mon 10/20/08 09:35 PM
I'd be flip about that but I only quit trying to be "good enough" for my mom since last Nov. Not trying to be "good enough" for anyone else either... (and guess what...99%of the people I ws trying to be good enough for already had no doubt!)

The result is amazing and my life is SO much better, but I do sort of get it...just not as it relates to race or such things...that is SO beyond my scope of understanding!