Maybe a woman can answer this. I fell in love with Amy the moment I laid eyes on her but after 4 tumultuous months it was over. Sometimes it was wonderful when she was acting normal, but when her borderline personality disorder manifested itself our relationship was a symphony of dysfunction. Regardless, I'd always felt that she had more intelligence and more potential (as well as more beauty) than any other woman I had ever been with. During the relationship I was admittedly more in love with her than she was with me; in fact, I don't think she "loved" me at all but she definitely did like me in that way and we had a some passionate moments. The thing is a year or so ago I saw a friend of mine who I hadn't seen in a while and he said "I saw your girl Amy the other day. She said she wasn't your girlfriend; you guys were just friends." Ouch!! Then I wont get into it but my mom is best friends with her daughter's father's mom and she more or less said the same sort of thing to him recently but refused to talk about me with him!!?? I'm really hurt and confused. I still consider her the girl I loved the most. Why would she deny that we were ever a couple? I mean, there was no doubt at the time that we were at all. ??

she just wasn't into you

borderline personality disorder...need i say more?

You got uses for a booty call my friend.

You'll be alright.

my guess is that she now regrets or is embarrassed about the relationship.

quite possibly there is a great difference between you regarding how you each view(ed) the relationship.

Don't try to figure out someone else's head wnen they can't figure out their own.

i'm confused. what does tumultuous mean?

seek counseling for yourself.......not meant to be mean, but most people that look at the issues of others....are blinded by their own.
get yourself right ,if you truely wanna be happy!!!

WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT MAN????

Oh. No, I'm not perfect by a long shot lol but that had little to do with the drama; I tried to work with her because I really wanted it to work out. look up the characteristics of a person with bpd and you'll get it

I lived with her for 9 yrs.....
the counseling was referred to......as a means to help you......not fix you!!

shes Borderline and youre impulsive (fell in love the moment I laid eyes on her)....sounds like a winning combo to me...

If train wreck A leaves the station at 1pm and train wreck B leaves at 1:15, what time will the relationship explode?????

Sorry Guy.

..hey man..i read and re-read your blog..i was trying to look for something positive to say..unfortunately, i can't find anything in there that's at all positive...your pathetic..your talking about something that has already happened..dude, what difference does it make now if she said you were her boyfriend or not..


roco

hey at least she didn't do what some of my ex's did, completely deny that you ever existed. high five

Take time to heal. Move on. Leave her behind. Its the past. Let her find what she's looking for through trial and error, one failed relationship after another. One child after another. When you're 40 and successful you will see her fat ass and f*cked up life and say to yourself "What the f*ck did I ever see in her?" Its ok. You can thank me in 20 years.

ditto

Just don't laugh hysterically in her face when she asks you out in 20 years after 4 kids, 3 divorces, and 245 pounds. That didn't go over well in my situation.

lol, awesome. high five

itll take 4 months?