Well....i dont want them to lose all the weight. I like thick women.

Well I was waiting for the little dude to say something, but I gotta hit the sack.....

I tell you what, little man...

It's arrogant people like you that really chap my a$$. People that sit on their high horse proclaiming that they have other people all figured out and they know it all. You somehow think you are better...but I really should tell you something....




come closer......















Your arrogance and your loftiness makes you very ugly on the inside....which happens to be the place where any truly good woman is going to look. If you think you look good....just remember that your so-called beauty can be gone in an instant. So you better hope that there are people in your life who don't look at you the way you look at others.



Night everyone!!

And thick women like you

Woo hoo.....got me all excited now.

Is that what you call a beautiful personality? Belittling me? Calling me names? Making false allegations? You're no better than the very thing you are scolding me for.

We are talking about big girls and their ability to lose those extra pounds by working them off. The proof? There is no such thing as a fat marathon runner. Why? because it burns more fat than can ever be stored on a human body. This is why marathon runners are pure muscle.

If you aren't losing weight, you aren't running far enough. Like I said, unless you have a medical condition that would kill you, you have no excuse for being a big girl if you don't want to be. I will make an addendum to my initial statement and say that I am perfectly fine with big girls being big as long as they are happy with who they are. I am not fine with them complaining that nobody likes them because they are fat although they have a 'good' personality. Good is not a definitive term; it is abstract and its meaning is different relative to every viewer. What's good for you, could be bad for me.


The intentions of the opening poster are clear to me. They are the same intentions I would possess if I were to create a thread with contents such as "would you rather date a skinny man with a great personality or a big guy with a fake personality"


Just my honest opinion of course

I'll take Fake Personality!!

Why don't I find them on Mutual Match? I wouldn't have to pretend to be real, and I'd finally find something in common that matters.

I dunno, there was a day when I would have given a PC answer but having dated both, the thick girls seemed more whiny or militant on average.
(Afterthought, I have thick friends who aren't like that, so it's -not- universal.)

Personally, there are medical reasons keeping me thin and I wouldn't wish them on anyone. Last thing I'm putting up with is someone b*tching me out for being underweight.

...And sorry, the last few female posters are average or curvy by today's medical standards, not fat.

Personality is the key, who wants a stick-in-the-mud

I'm not belittling you or making false allegations, darlin'. You clearly stated your opinion of overweight persons and I was just simply calling it like it is. It's a very hurtful and narrowminded view to take that causes another person to feel inadequate because they don't measure up to YOUR standards.

I personally dislike people who think they are better than others. So you are right if you say I'm no better than you...because I also believe you don't have to be the way you are. You can choose to be accepting of other people despite their appearance.......and you CHOOSE to be critical. In this process you hurt people...and THAT I don't tolerate and will speak out against every time I hear it. (or read it as the case may be)

I'm sorry, but you don't get to decide how other people should look.

Dazzle me with brilliance and I'm interested.

I'd go for a lil of both!

He's just speaking his opinion... and i agree with him completely... you have to care about yourself great person or not... however i'm not willing to turn the other cheek on someone just because they are over weight i beleive true love can be found no matter what your shape or size may be... but there are limits.

I can't stand when guys ignore me just because i'm not pencil thin, but my self-esteem is really high, i do take care of my body... i excersize, i eat healthy for the most part, i mean i've been vegetarian for almost 8 years now.. but i still have a bit of chub to me and i'm happy with it. I'm more than willing to accept people for who they are and not what they look like

How do you know they're just sitting on their ass?

They don't stand and type messages on computers hehe

Not quite what I mean, but ok.

Bet all the girls want to date you! You're certainly entitled to state what you're attracted to, but I'm reasonably confident that you aren't speaking for the majority when you generalize how happy or unhappy "big" people are. Personality is more important to me than someone's body size.

Did you read the whole thread...

He has no respect for "big" people and thinks they aren't doing anything about it, I guess.

I'd like to cite the 3rd paragraph, 5th post down, 3rd page of this thread



it'd help if i get my citation correct

Yes, I did. I was trying to find a diplomatic way to reply to your initial post while you were making your "addendum".