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Topic: Sugar pie Honey bun
moofooga Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 25515	Wed 10/15/08 02:26 PM
I like to refrain from using the cutesy-cutesy language, as it's just creepy beyond belief. That goes double if that sort of stuff is used in public, too.

KarlaMay Joined Fri 10/10/08 Posts: 122	Wed 10/15/08 02:28 PM
Are these things you'd be ok hearing from your date on a 1st date? I had a 1st date the other night and he called me all of the above along with a few others. Personally, it made me a little uncomfortable. i call people Honey and Sweetie often to hear that kind of thing on a first date only would bother me... if ..... i really didn't care for him or if he was making inappropriate advances I think you're right. If I were totally gushing for this guy, it might have been endearing. So, it's all in my own attitude toward him really. Makes perfect sense.

Rapunzel Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 16246	Wed 10/15/08 02:30 PM
i get so tired of so many people out there acting like zombies or robots with no warmth or affection.... I think that in the Light or < Darkness i should say > of the really bad things that go on... A little sweetness & kindness goes a long way

Rapunzel Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 16246	Wed 10/15/08 02:33 PM
Are these things you'd be ok hearing from your date on a 1st date? I had a 1st date the other night and he called me all of the above along with a few others. Personally, it made me a little uncomfortable. i call people Honey and Sweetie often to hear that kind of thing on a first date only would bother me... if ..... i really didn't care for him or if he was making inappropriate advances I think you're right. If I were totally gushing for this guy, it might have been endearing. So, it's all in my own attitude toward him really. Makes perfect sense. ohhh..that is very sweet of you ... thank you so much i think that attitude is huge and putting things in proper perspective is also huge

Rapunzel Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 16246	Wed 10/15/08 02:47 PM
oh and by the way <<< Karla May >>>> I have three kids close in age to you , in their early thirties... & it took me quite a while to learn & to come into the fullness of who i really am

KarlaMay Joined Fri 10/10/08 Posts: 122	Wed 10/15/08 02:49 PM
oh and by the way <<< Karla May >>>> I have three kids close in age to you , in their early thirties... & it took me quite a while to learn & to come into the fullness of who i really am It's so not fair that you look my age!

Rapunzel Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 16246	Wed 10/15/08 02:53 PM Edited by Rapunzel on Wed 10/15/08 02:53 PM
no, i don't look your age Sweetheart.... You are twenty years younger than i am and you have the whole world ahead of you

KarlaMay Joined Fri 10/10/08 Posts: 122	Wed 10/15/08 02:55 PM
no, i don't look your age Sweetheart.... You are twenty years younger than i am and you have the whole world ahead of you I was shocked to see that. You DO look very young for your age IMO. I hope I look so good in 20 years.

meanmarthajean Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 2266	Wed 10/15/08 02:57 PM
~ where the Temptations playing/singing on the radio?.....he might be a comedian!

Rapunzel Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 16246	Wed 10/15/08 03:27 PM
no, i don't look your age Sweetheart.... You are twenty years younger than i am and you have the whole world ahead of you I was shocked to see that. You DO look very young for your age IMO. I hope I look so good in 20 years. oh thank you Karla ... you are very very sweet & very kind I am so glad to make your acquaintance... Healthy attitudes, actions & thoughts and eating foods as close to the garden as possible and exercise like bicycling helps sooo much

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 10/15/08 03:29 PM
J'apprécie la parole et entendant de beaux mots d'amour sur mes dates

Rapunzel Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 16246	Wed 10/15/08 03:49 PM
J'apprécie la parole et entendant de beaux mots d'amour sur mes dates pardon? {{{ Lee }}} what are you saying ??? {{{ <<< Mr. Looking glass >>> }}}}

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 10/15/08 03:55 PM
J'apprécie la parole et entendant de beaux mots d'amour sur mes dates pardon? {{{ Lee }}} what are you saying ??? {{{ <<< Mr. Looking glass >>> }}}} I enjoy speaking and hearing beautiful words of love on my dates.

awolf1010 Joined Sun 03/30/08 Posts: 7251	Wed 10/15/08 04:00 PM
I dont even give my pets, pet names!!! coming from a lady...ok! from a guy...... it wouldnt matter what date it was!!!

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Wed 10/15/08 04:22 PM
I dont even give my pets, pet names!!! coming from a lady...ok! from a guy...... it wouldnt matter what date it was!!! Ah, common sugar bear! Aint there anything you wanna call me?

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Wed 10/15/08 04:23 PM Edited by No1sLove on Wed 10/15/08 04:25 PM
I don't think I would care for a first date calling me a pet name. Unless I'd been talking to him for months already...then there is more comfort with familiar behavior. Was it someone you met here...flirted with online already? He may have just picked up from there in that case and thought you'd like it.

awolf1010 Joined Sun 03/30/08 Posts: 7251	Wed 10/15/08 04:24 PM
I dont even give my pets, pet names!!! coming from a lady...ok! from a guy...... it wouldnt matter what date it was!!! Ah, common sugar bear! Aint there anything you wanna call me? yeah......but we have to wait for that!!!

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Wed 10/15/08 04:26 PM
I dont even give my pets, pet names!!! coming from a lady...ok! from a guy...... it wouldnt matter what date it was!!! Ah, common sugar bear! Aint there anything you wanna call me? yeah......but we have to wait for that!!! You know how I love a surprise baby doll.

Rapunzel Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 16246	Wed 10/15/08 04:31 PM
J'apprécie la parole et entendant de beaux mots d'amour sur mes dates pardon? {{{ Lee }}} what are you saying ??? {{{ <<< Mr. Looking glass >>> }}}} I enjoy speaking and hearing beautiful words of love on my dates. I think some Lady is gonna be lucky to get you cause you are sooooo romantic <<<< Lee >>>>

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 10/15/08 04:33 PM
J'apprécie la parole et entendant de beaux mots d'amour sur mes dates pardon? {{{ Lee }}} what are you saying ??? {{{ <<< Mr. Looking glass >>> }}}} I enjoy speaking and hearing beautiful words of love on my dates. I think some Lady is gonna be lucky to get you cause you are sooooo romantic <<<< Lee >>>> Vous êtes un Nessa de trésor.J'espère que je rencontre une bonne femme comme vous un jour.