I think the times they are a changing... aids helped a bit killed of lots of promiscious people...
A one night stand is desperate in most cases, ( Control yourself dammit) we are not alley cats OR STRAY DOGS !! Lets face it. A one nighter is just a 'glorified wank'... why loose a bit of cred and SELF respect because you can't control your self? Then there is the other Question, how many other one nighters has this person had before you came along ? No I say... save it for your special person or spouse... what are you going to say once you do finally settle down with a nice wholsome person, marry or whatever, if they ask you about how many one nighters you have had?? & they will... Tell the truth, and seem like immature sex freak or lie to one you should never lie to ... your partner!! think about it!!

Never judge a man till you have walked a mile in his shoes, 'cuz by then, he's a mile away, you've got his shoes, and you can say whatever the hell you want to.

Big Cool you bring up some valid points, men are we getting this

I have never done asked for a one nighter, but who are you to say they shouldnt? IF you don't want to you tell them no, you can block them for messaging you etc. Sure there are other sites, but this one is free like someone else said.

Live and let live right?

Well depending on the profile...If I was like yeah looking for fun times no strings attached, then yeah ask away. Other than that if the lady doesn't seem to be leading to "I want sex now" comments don't ASK!!!!

a) where is the fun in getting a girl that you know will say yes when you ask for it.
b) if you know they will say yes, how many times have they said yes to other men.
c) we'd technically have sexual relations with any of the men that have given her an std
d) the chances of a person having an std is 1 in 9. That means for every nine people you do, at least one of them has an std.

More reason why you shouldn't be hopping from one person to another without some thought well a lot of thought

Actually it is more like one in four. No glove no love folks.

I agree 100%

Oh yeah. In answer to the question. No. I can't do it.

Just replying without seeing what everyone else has said...because I get sidetracked.

Hitting on a lady is a world away from getting anywhere. Just the same as a lady developing an interest in a gent is a world away from actually fulfilling her needs. If we cut to the chase, in either direction, without allowing expression or interaction, the result is a straightjacket for all concerned.

As a smart lady once had printed on her shirt, "Yes, I do, but not with you."

I'm sure that you can think of an equally quick and clear statement, to fend off unwanted advances.

One night stands is nothing but a game.Just another story to tell the buddys. They're always looking for the chase...since the chase is better than the catch. A girlfriend is who they go to when they couldn't find anyone after the bar closes.

Oh and no I don't do one night stands. I don't like weird things growing or coming out of my pen!s

the quality of women , here, exceeds the other sites..

AIDS did more than "kill off" promisuous people.

I don't know, I can't answer that. I've never looked for a one-night stand. If I ever decided to do so, I wouldn't look here. It's hard to h ave a one-night-stand with someone 897,000 miles away. It takes longer than one night just to get there.



I was on that site for 3 months. Based on the 174 solicitations I got during that time, it wouldn't surprise me at all if a lot of their members DID do it on the first night. Not what I was looking for, though, especially since every single one of them wanted to meet me at a bar! (Never mind that my profile clearly stated I don't drink and won't get involved with anyone who does.)



Unfortunately, this is the internet -- home of the short attention span, immediate gratification, and illiteracy off the charts. Walk into a kennel and you're going to be surrounded by dogs.



I wouldn't say old-fashioned, necessarily -- just unrealistic. One-dimensional people trying to interact in a two-dimensional medium. For those of us who exist in three or more dimensions, it can be difficult terrain.

What I think is funny are the guys who ask for one night of meaningless sex, then get really offended when you turn them down. You'd think by now they'd be used to it and just move on.. .

Are these cute shoes? Heels or flats? And if I've walked a mile...are they comfy??? All very critical considerations!

I suspect they must be successful when they ask at least SOME of the time...