I been on this site for some time now,I have met a lot of wonderful
people that keep things real. Some of them are here just to make friends
and some are here to find someone to share there life with, but then
again you get the people that just like to flirt,some for fun and some
for sex. The list can go on but what has got me curious is the people
that come on these sites are the ones that have not solved there past
relationship issues or at least come to an understanding with it and
move on

My opinion on the unsloved issues is if your not ready for a
relationship why are you going to bring another person into your life
knowning the fact that you still feel for someone else would it be fair
to say your being selfish and using the other person to get over the one
you have not let go? and why would you come to a site knowing that you
are not ready and can end up hurting that othere person?

Yes this has happen to me but I see things befor they get out of hand So
those who know me on here Don't worry this is just a topic K

That's a good question Shadow. When I came to this site, I was still in
love with my ex, now I love her, but not in love with her. Comming to
this site has helped me to get over her, and I have made more friends on
this site in 6 months than I can make here in Cookeville in 7 years!
Okay, not physical friends, but cyber friends. I still call them
friends. Someday, maybe I will have another soulmate. Don't know what
I'm looking for, guess I'll know when it happens.

Well, that's my story and I'm sticking to it.

Shadow, sorry about your short fall there. Keep your head up!!

It's not really a short fall to me as i'm looking at it now But what I
do think being able to see this before it gets to far at least with me
Is that I understand where I'm at and able to let the person be
themselves But I don't have to wait around to see if this will work or
not It's knowing that I can let the person go free if you were to say
and if they come back and ready to give themselves to that one person
then it is worth trying

Shadow i came here just to make friends. Ice raved about it so i decided
to check it out. I am a flirt but i dont lead anyone on. I dont know why
ppl come on here when they arent ready. Maybe they dont know they arent
ready or maybe they think this will get them over their prev
relationship.

I don't see any problem flirting and haveing a little fun I mean we all
do it But to use someone to get over someone else is just not right Your
not being honest and you not giving who you are to the person you are
alowing to get close to you I say dind a friend first then go from there

Absolutely shadow. I agree.
btw... Do u know that i an the one that was grilling u on the fone the
other nite when u were talkin to ice

Hey Shadow..I know what you mean.I am in a similiar boat. I am looking
into installing a toilet to make it easier to flush out the games...Lol.

Yeah in some situations that would be nice But then there are the others
that I look at that just need a little direction

Tameka I don't remember Sorry

Always follow your Guy Bro. If a lady wants to be your one and only she
will be sure to communicate that feeling. I have been in the same spot.
I just take a breath and remember the Life I have and had before all
this meltin pot has to offer.

OMG you don't remember talking to me baby.LOL i'm so crushed.

OOPs I meant follow your GUT. See what happens when your old and blind?
Lol

Hm interesting Boom but true I'm on the outside of things looking in and
what I see today is a world of difference


Ice that I do, Just seeing what comes of this topic You know
getting the opinions

Well now shadow if u remember talkin to ice then surely u must remember
that i had to get on the phone to check u out...lol

Your a good man ...I think thats Obvious. Go w it !!!! If a gal doesnt
see it maybe she will when its too late and you go to the next level.
Just dont let anyone stress you in this place. For most its a game. If
she aint under your roof then forget all pain!!! Right?

lol You got it boom

Ahh now I remember Tameka lmao Girls will be girls lol

Now you remember talking to me baby.LOL i'm so hurt that i'm so
forgettable

No Ice lol it's just for a min i thought Tameka was talking about
somewher on the forum that that happen

I only wanted u 2 know who i was so that u would know that u got to talk
to someone sooo cute... Will i be in ur dreams tonight.lol

I wonder how Much a friend tomeka is to ice. Sounds kinda...I
dunno..lol