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Insecure beyond contempt. Neurotic bordering on bi- polar. Sociopsychotic bordering on passive aggressive. Reckless, irresponsible, self centered, dishonest, destructive attitude, mood swings like a revolving door. Analytical, defensive, physically aggressive. More baggage than jfk airport. More hidden hopes than GOD can fathom. Arsonist. Convicted criminal. Complete five star freak. Oh, I thought you were talking about the dating gene pool I've had the displeasure of dating from. Oh but they all seemed soooooo nice on that first date. That's because the background check had not finished printing out those 12 pages yet. Ha ha ha ha ha! Anything, anything, but no psychos please. sheesh, you had be up to the 'no psychos' part... |
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 I prefer to have preferences
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I prefer to have preferences
You my friend, are a RIOT!  
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Sure, I have some preferences. That doesn't mean I wouldn't go for someone outside of those preferences, though. They're just a guideline... not must haves.
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I was just thinking about this..... Yes, everyone has preferences.........but IF you refuse to date someone because they do not fit in line with ur "preference" then it isn't a preference it is a requirement. I have a lot of preferences.....and they aren't worth mentioning because they mean lil in the big scheme of things. Most people will not fit a set guide of preferences. My REQUIREMENTS are: Compassionate Intelligent Responsible Adaptable Wise Etc........but only I can define what these things mean to me. People are people, and should be treated as such........not like they are a commodity you can order out of a magazine. You are right most people won't and "part" of the reason why so many of us are single... The point is you have a right to want what you listed and everyone else has a right to want what they list.. No one can make us feel for someone that we're not attracted too... I have my "preferences" and they are quite numerous, some small, some silly, some I will not budge from... I do not date the same kind of men but I'm attracted to the same types if I'm "looking"... I know some are attracted to me and some aren't... Some like blonde, some red and some brunette.. I'm a brunette with blonde hair.. WHY b/c I like it.. The guys I've been attracted to have preferred brunette, did I change my hair color no.. would I NO, would I be upset if they didn't want to date me b/c of hair color??? I would have thought "silly, your loss" but also "your loss and your CHOICE" maybe I'm not the one... has anyone ever thought that if one that has preferences met the one that knocked them off their feet the preferences wouldn't matter??? And it can happen so who really cares, especially if it's not hurting you personally... You rock  Maybe I will have you speak for me on my thread topics from now on
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I prefer to have preferences
You my friend, are a RIOT!
Thank you, it's natural for me
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I was just thinking about this..... Yes, everyone has preferences.........but IF you refuse to date someone because they do not fit in line with ur "preference" then it isn't a preference it is a requirement. I have a lot of preferences.....and they aren't worth mentioning because they mean lil in the big scheme of things. Most people will not fit a set guide of preferences. My REQUIREMENTS are: Compassionate Intelligent Responsible Adaptable Wise Etc........but only I can define what these things mean to me. People are people, and should be treated as such........not like they are a commodity you can order out of a magazine. You are right most people won't and "part" of the reason why so many of us are single... The point is you have a right to want what you listed and everyone else has a right to want what they list.. No one can make us feel for someone that we're not attracted too... I have my "preferences" and they are quite numerous, some small, some silly, some I will not budge from... I do not date the same kind of men but I'm attracted to the same types if I'm "looking"... I know some are attracted to me and some aren't... Some like blonde, some red and some brunette.. I'm a brunette with blonde hair.. WHY b/c I like it.. The guys I've been attracted to have preferred brunette, did I change my hair color no.. would I NO, would I be upset if they didn't want to date me b/c of hair color??? I would have thought "silly, your loss" but also "your loss and your CHOICE" maybe I'm not the one... has anyone ever thought that if one that has preferences met the one that knocked them off their feet the preferences wouldn't matter??? And it can happen so who really cares, especially if it's not hurting you personally... You rock Maybe I will have you speak for me on my thread topics from now on
[/quote Um I do enough to keep myself out of trouble.. LOL |
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I'm just going to run amuck and randomly shoot people in the ass with cupid's arrow....
My personal challenge today help other's think outside their box!!! |
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Heres my preferences
1.Indian 2.Princess |
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Sure, I have some preferences. That doesn't mean I wouldn't go for someone outside of those preferences, though. They're just a guideline... not must haves. I agree some are guidelines for me as well, but there are quite a few that I will not budge on... |
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I don't really have a 'preference' for how a person should look, but...
Positive energy!!! No bigotry, racism, or fundamentalism. No staunch, far right-wing conservatives - they have a right to their opinions. I just don't want to spend my time debating issues. Gotta love animals, kids and old people...or at least be able to tolerate them. Funny men are very attractive. Intelligent...not necessarily highly-educated. Honest. Kind, compassionate and generous (not necessarily generous with money, but with what they have - especially themselves. |
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Edited by
symbelmyne
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Wed 09/24/08 07:05 PM
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My preference is fat and naked....
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If I may.........having a thread that asks about preferences is going to get you BOTH sides of the equilibrium. You will have people call others "shallow" and "superficial" and others who claim it isn't "shallow" or "superficial" to have preferences.
Judgements made based on your preferences or lack thereof..... Some people do actually have more/less than others. Anyhoo, it is indeed superficial to judge whether or not you will date someone based on their looks. Though everyone does it. It is impossible for you to have sexual feelings for someone who you find to be ugly. However, for someone you find to be "ok" their personality may boost their looks and make them beautiful to you. What I'm saying, is yes, everyone has preferences and even requirements (as I choose to define them differently, as is my right).......but it really doesn't do much to list them on a forum, except to separate and divide....but that is me, and this isn't the Philosophy forum. Anyhoo........I'm done. It seems to me these kinds of threads are designed to boost certain people's egos, while possibly harming others...... |
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Well here's a picture of me with lindsay lohan on my left and her girlfreind on my far right. I'd have to say for preference- bi, naked, and famous.
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I like that! Add funny and you've got it absolutely right
 
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A preference(s) for the type you're attracted to? Are you willing/daring enough to share? Tall/Short Short hair/Long hair Eye color Income Music Homeowner Sense of humor Intelligence Occupation Car Kids/No kids Older/Younger Age Limits Kindness Compassion Sexual abilities Romantic I'm sure I'm forgetting some.... SENSE OF HUMOR. Non-negotiable. Too serious? keep it movin. And I doooooooo like my men younger .. it's a weakness. *swoons* .. I just move with the chemistry and I always find when there's chemistry they happen to be younger. Usually MUCH younger 
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A preference(s) for the type you're attracted to? Are you willing/daring enough to share? Tall/Short Short hair/Long hair Eye color Income Music Homeowner Sense of humor Intelligence Occupation Car Kids/No kids Older/Younger Age Limits Kindness Compassion Sexual abilities Romantic I'm sure I'm forgetting some.... SENSE OF HUMOR. Non-negotiable. Too serious? keep it movin. And I doooooooo like my men younger .. it's a weakness. *swoons* .. I just move with the chemistry and I always find when there's chemistry they happen to be younger. Usually MUCH younger
I think thats awesome
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My preference is fat and naked....
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Edited by
WildEnglishRose
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Wed 09/24/08 08:52 PM
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If I may.........having a thread that asks about preferences is going to get you BOTH sides of the equilibrium. You will have people call others "shallow" and "superficial" and others who claim it isn't "shallow" or "superficial" to have preferences. Judgements made based on your preferences or lack thereof..... Some people do actually have more/less than others. Anyhoo, it is indeed superficial to judge whether or not you will date someone based on their looks. Though everyone does it. It is impossible for you to have sexual feelings for someone who you find to be ugly. However, for someone you find to be "ok" their personality may boost their looks and make them beautiful to you. What I'm saying, is yes, everyone has preferences and even requirements (as I choose to define them differently, as is my right).......but it really doesn't do much to list them on a forum, except to separate and divide....but that is me, and this isn't the Philosophy forum. Anyhoo........I'm done. It seems to me these kinds of threads are designed to boost certain people's egos, while possibly harming others...... Hmm..  ...Seems like you have a judgmental streak running through your response tonight--"as is your right". I'll take a wild guess and say perhaps you don't approve of some of the responses to the topic? But that's OK, we are all just sharing thoughts here and one of the common traits throughout is the preference or requirement for someone with a sense of humor! I consider that a great thing, and one of the most attractive qualitities in a man.
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(((Lex))) love your honesty.. thank you... You're welcome. I love these "survey" posts because you can really get to know something about what matters to people -- the ones who will actually respond, anyway. |
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