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Topic: Tell me something????
adirtygirl's photo
Fri 09/12/08 04:36 PM
Why is that people men or women go to all the trouble to get into whatever kind of relationship whether it be friends, friends with benefits or relationship, and tell you things that would make the other person feel like you are being honest and sincere and that there is hope for something and then just cut it off....... Dying for feedback

ljcc1964's photo
Fri 09/12/08 04:38 PM
I've heard that too much cheese can do that.

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Fri 09/12/08 04:38 PM
Edited by 1956deluxe on Fri 09/12/08 04:38 PM
Are you talking about Lorena Bobbit?

phirequest's photo
Fri 09/12/08 04:38 PM

Sounds to me like they are insecure within themselvesohwell

adirtygirl's photo
Fri 09/12/08 04:38 PM

Are you talking about Lorena Bobbit?




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jimmy99005's photo
Fri 09/12/08 04:39 PM
I don't know?
Snakes in the grass!

ReconParty19's photo
Fri 09/12/08 04:39 PM

Why is that people men or women go to all the trouble to get into whatever kind of relationship whether it be friends, friends with benefits or relationship, and tell you things that would make the other person feel like you are being honest and sincere and that there is hope for something and then just cut it off....... Dying for feedback


Please if you get an answer well you let me know?

My 2 cents is they found someone else...

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Fri 09/12/08 04:41 PM
Personally I feel that people get wrapped up in the romance...in love with being in love so to speak and then when it comes down to brass tacks...the reality hits them and fear sets in...just an observation

Puffins1958's photo
Fri 09/12/08 04:43 PM
I would say a definate....fear of commitment!!!!

adirtygirl's photo
Fri 09/12/08 04:44 PM

Personally I feel that people get wrapped up in the romance...in love with being in love so to speak and then when it comes down to brass tacks...the reality hits them and fear sets in...just an observation



O.k. you make a very good point. But if you have gone to all the trouble to say and do things for someone and make the other think it's all wonderful, and then just POOF..... gone with no explanation and cuts all ties...

Why bother in the 1st place

Moondark's photo
Fri 09/12/08 04:46 PM


Why is that people men or women go to all the trouble to get into whatever kind of relationship whether it be friends, friends with benefits or relationship, and tell you things that would make the other person feel like you are being honest and sincere and that there is hope for something and then just cut it off....... Dying for feedback


Please if you get an answer well you let me know?

My 2 cents is they found someone else...


This is what I suspect.

adirtygirl's photo
Fri 09/12/08 04:48 PM



Why is that people men or women go to all the trouble to get into whatever kind of relationship whether it be friends, friends with benefits or relationship, and tell you things that would make the other person feel like you are being honest and sincere and that there is hope for something and then just cut it off....... Dying for feedback


Please if you get an answer well you let me know?

My 2 cents is they found someone else...


This is what I suspect.



O.k. but can the person not be honest like they claimed to be in the beginning and talk to the person and at least let them know why they are OUT, instead of just bailing like a coward

adirtygirl's photo
Fri 09/12/08 04:50 PM
Too many people I know are going through this and it makes me sick to know people have no morals, backbone, or respect to let the other person down easy rather then being a coward..

Moondark's photo
Fri 09/12/08 04:52 PM




Why is that people men or women go to all the trouble to get into whatever kind of relationship whether it be friends, friends with benefits or relationship, and tell you things that would make the other person feel like you are being honest and sincere and that there is hope for something and then just cut it off....... Dying for feedback


Please if you get an answer well you let me know?

My 2 cents is they found someone else...


This is what I suspect.



O.k. but can the person not be honest like they claimed to be in the beginning and talk to the person and at least let them know why they are OUT, instead of just bailing like a coward


From what I've heard from male friends. They think they will hurt your feeling less by doing it that way. But it doesn't work that way at all. In reality, I think it is just easier for them and they don't want to deal with letting a person know what is going on, so they just bail.

Etrain's photo
Fri 09/12/08 04:52 PM
I don't know...but this thread has me quite arousedblushing blushing blushing

adirtygirl's photo
Fri 09/12/08 04:53 PM

I don't know...but this thread has me quite arousedblushing blushing blushing




finally you are back I really need to ride you>>>>laugh laugh laugh laugh

adirtygirl's photo
Fri 09/12/08 04:53 PM
oops oops oops oops oops oops


I mean I really need a ride

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Fri 09/12/08 04:54 PM


Personally I feel that people get wrapped up in the romance...in love with being in love so to speak and then when it comes down to brass tacks...the reality hits them and fear sets in...just an observation



O.k. you make a very good point. But if you have gone to all the trouble to say and do things for someone and make the other think it's all wonderful, and then just POOF..... gone with no explanation and cuts all ties...

Why bother in the 1st place
Because sometimes people just want to play a game and hurting others is how they get their jollies...so sad...for they will be the ones that will be alone in the end

Moondark's photo
Fri 09/12/08 04:54 PM
rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

Etrain's photo
Fri 09/12/08 04:55 PM


I don't know...but this thread has me quite arousedblushing blushing blushing




finally you are back I really need to ride you>>>>laugh laugh laugh laugh

ok...now I'm really arouseddevil devil devil

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