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Topic: Tell me something????
adirtygirl Joined Tue 03/11/08 Posts: 4008	Fri 09/12/08 04:55 PM


justme659 Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 6144	Fri 09/12/08 04:56 PM
I think its the cowards way out. And it happens too often on line. I just think of it like this, Its better that they rabbit and poof then sticking around and causing more damage later. And yes, I also concure that they are feeding several people the same lines and just choose someone else.

LIlithsfury Joined Fri 09/05/08 Posts: 6	Fri 09/12/08 04:59 PM
I have had this happen just recently, and also in the past..and i second the motion..when you figure it out, let me know too. I tend to think it is also fear of commitment, or maybe they just didn't care as much as you thought they did.

adirtygirl Joined Tue 03/11/08 Posts: 4008	Fri 09/12/08 04:59 PM
but the worst part is when you have met them in person and spent time together,,,promises made,feelings shared and all the rest that goes along and then "SEE YA" with no answers or regard to how the other person might feel

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Fri 09/12/08 05:00 PM
.....I mean...my nipples are totally hard right now

adirtygirl Joined Tue 03/11/08 Posts: 4008	Fri 09/12/08 05:01 PM
I have had this happen just recently, and also in the past..and i second the motion..when you figure it out, let me know too. I tend to think it is also fear of commitment, or maybe they just didn't care as much as you thought they did. True but why go to all the expense of saying thing that could potentially do damage ...Why not just "SHUT UP" and keep it to your self and take it one day at a time

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Fri 09/12/08 05:01 PM
love hurts but i'll try again

Justuw8nsee Joined Fri 09/05/08 Posts: 79	Fri 09/12/08 05:36 PM
I would defintely say that this happens alot its happened to me and the only reasonable thing I can come up with to make any sense of it is that the person saying, doing, and bouncing, has no root in themselves and is not able to commit to anything they say as a result. They honestly don't know what they want or how they want it. lol! Now that can go a variety of different ways can't it?? Oops! Oh well!

Tazz42 Joined Fri 02/29/08 Posts: 9660	Fri 09/12/08 05:41 PM
I believe that we, as humans, basically want to be good people and in the beginning, are true to what we agree upon, but later, try to save our selves from harm and bad feelings. Hence, the problem of being dumped with out a explanation or treating someone terribly..... JMO

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Fri 09/12/08 05:50 PM
Are they perhap's feeding their ego with the conquer?

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Fri 09/12/08 05:57 PM
Cause they're a jerk, a coward, a liar, a player, a cheater, etc etc. I agree with the person who said some people get their jollies from hurting others. And you have some people who are too fickle or stupid, or whatever, that they don't know what they want. Instead of staying single til they figure it out, they seek out other people so they can spread the misery.

mixie629 Joined Thu 08/21/08 Posts: 134	Fri 09/12/08 06:00 PM
People change their minds. When something isn't fun anymore, they stop doing it. You dont' have to be a rocket scientist to figure this one out.

RandomTandem Joined Thu 09/11/08 Posts: 294	Fri 09/12/08 06:09 PM
Why is that people men or women go to all the trouble to get into whatever kind of relationship whether it be friends, friends with benefits or relationship, and tell you things that would make the other person feel like you are being honest and sincere and that there is hope for something and then just cut it off....... Dying for feedback I couldn't/wouldn't assume for one second, that I could either guess all of the different reasons there might be behind the O.P.'s question, or assign them to a particular person or situation. More details would be required for any of that. It might just be that you had a close shave, and were lucky. Still, nothing ventured nothing gained.

adirtygirl Joined Tue 03/11/08 Posts: 4008	Fri 09/12/08 06:56 PM
sucks that people cant be real anymore...they live in their own world and have no class, or honor..... People say respect those to whom you want respect from....Some people really need to take advice..

beachbum069 Joined Mon 04/07/08 Posts: 14325	Fri 09/12/08 07:06 PM
I believe honesty is the best policy.

adirtygirl Joined Tue 03/11/08 Posts: 4008	Fri 09/12/08 07:12 PM
People change their minds. When something isn't fun anymore, they stop doing it. You dont' have to be a rocket scientist to figure this one out. so does that make it right??????

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Fri 09/12/08 07:13 PM
I mean I really need a ride DOH.!!!! MY BAD.!!!!

t22learner Joined Mon 07/02/07 Posts: 1774	Fri 09/12/08 07:13 PM
People change their minds. When something isn't fun anymore, they stop doing it. You dont' have to be a rocket scientist to figure this one out. so does that make it right?????? It is for them. Some day you'll look back on this and hopefully it will be right for you too.

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Fri 09/12/08 07:15 PM
Personally I feel that people get wrapped up in the romance...in love with being in love so to speak and then when it comes down to brass tacks...the reality hits them and fear sets in...just an observation O.k. you make a very good point. But if you have gone to all the trouble to say and do things for someone and make the other think it's all wonderful, and then just POOF..... gone with no explanation and cuts all ties... Why bother in the 1st place Unfortunately darlin' some just need to feed their ego at the expense of others..

feralcatlady Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 35491	Fri 09/12/08 07:22 PM
Why is that people men or women go to all the trouble to get into whatever kind of relationship whether it be friends, friends with benefits or relationship, and tell you things that would make the other person feel like you are being honest and sincere and that there is hope for something and then just cut it off....... Dying for feedback Because they all are imperfect and just human. I think a lot of people get caught in "moments" and then spend the rest of the time figuring out a way to get out of it.