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Topic: WOW! somone was brave..
TheShadow's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:50 PM
Enough to actually email me with out me having to send the first emaillaugh

Why is is so hard for most women to just say hi.... There are only a feww on this site that actually have no problem doing so. Just my opinion. It shows a lack of personality and that can be boring....

Cinderella75's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:52 PM
I have initiated an e-mail 3 times..its not that I am shy..
But those 3 guys really just stood out for me!!
Soo good for you, you stood out to her!!

Fade2Black's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:52 PM

Enough to actually email me with out me having to send the first emaillaugh

Why is is so hard for most women to just say hi.... There are only a feww on this site that actually have no problem doing so. Just my opinion. It shows a lack of personality and that can be boring....




Meh .. If I am looking & find someone I actually find interesting, I'll email. If not, I don't. :wink:



Marie55's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:53 PM
Maybe they are shy or have been burned in the past. Who knows. Guess some of us get "gutsier" (think I just made up a word) with age. What the heck, I just send out mails and if they respond cool, if not, oh well.

Nice to see you back on. Have a good night.

grneyedldy1967's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:53 PM
Congrats. But I don't think it shows lack of personality or that the person is boring. I don't contact any guys first because 1) I don't want to look stupid in case they are not interested in me and 2) I am kind of old fashioned in thinking that the guy should contact me first. That's JMO.....

no photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:53 PM
Yay!!!! See there are some different people in this world just not worrying about being rejected. How are you doing by the way?? :smile:

mcattygarnett's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:54 PM
Edited by mcattygarnett on Tue 09/09/08 06:55 PM

Enough to actually email me with out me having to send the first emaillaugh

Why is is so hard for most women to just say hi.... There are only a feww on this site that actually have no problem doing so. Just my opinion. It shows a lack of personality and that can be boring....

If memory serves me right I emailed you first, and I enjoy talking to you when we get the chance.biggrin

It doesnt bother me to send the first email.

floh's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:54 PM
no prob to send the 1st e-mail here...i got plenty of other problems though...lol

TheShadow's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:56 PM

Congrats. But I don't think it shows lack of personality or that the person is boring. I don't contact any guys first because 1) I don't want to look stupid in case they are not interested in me and 2) I am kind of old fashioned in thinking that the guy should contact me first. That's JMO.....


Hey! somone that actually read what I said :smile: It don't but it goes to show at times how many people pay attentaion to what somone said. It could be many reasons why. it's just everyone is different and i guess if your a woman. your taking more of a chance then alot of the men on here.

wraithme66's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:57 PM

I have initiated an e-mail 3 times..its not that I am shy..
But those 3 guys really just stood out for me!!
Soo good for you, you stood out to her!!


I forget... Was I one of those that stood out? Lol! J.K.

TheShadow's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:57 PM

no prob to send the 1st e-mail here...i got plenty of other problems though...lol


Take it one at a time and i'm sure things will work out. maybe not the way you want it, but with a little effert things can go a long ways:smile:

RKISIT's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:58 PM

I have initiated an e-mail 3 times..its not that I am shy..
But those 3 guys really just stood out for me!!
Soo good for you, you stood out to her!!
your hot email me with something please,rejection is coolflowerforyou

TheShadow's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:58 PM

Maybe they are shy or have been burned in the past. Who knows. Guess some of us get "gutsier" (think I just made up a word) with age. What the heck, I just send out mails and if they respond cool, if not, oh well.

Nice to see you back on. Have a good night.


Good to see you to Marie:smile:

no photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:59 PM
waving :thumbsup: waving :thumbsup: waving drinks :banana: drinker

Socratease's photo
Tue 09/09/08 06:59 PM
It is nice for a lady that knows what she wants go after it at times,shows confidence and a no nonsense attitude..the timid have nothing to gain male or female alike

TheShadow's photo
Tue 09/09/08 07:00 PM

waving :thumbsup: waving :thumbsup: waving drinks :banana: drinker

drinker

floh's photo
Tue 09/09/08 07:01 PM


no prob to send the 1st e-mail here...i got plenty of other problems though...lol


Take it one at a time and i'm sure things will work out. maybe not the way you want it, but with a little effert things can go a long ways:smile:




thanks for the encouragement...but i'm really not too bothered by my problems...either i'll handle them or if not, then why sweat it...


MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 09/09/08 07:03 PM

Enough to actually email me with out me having to send the first emaillaugh

Why is is so hard for most women to just say hi.... There are only a feww on this site that actually have no problem doing so. Just my opinion. It shows a lack of personality and that can be boring....
pitchfork I stalk them until they email me telling me I better stoppitchfork

TheShadow's photo
Tue 09/09/08 07:04 PM



no prob to send the 1st e-mail here...i got plenty of other problems though...lol


Take it one at a time and i'm sure things will work out. maybe not the way you want it, but with a little effert things can go a long ways:smile:




thanks for the encouragement...but i'm really not too bothered by my problems...either i'll handle them or if not, then why sweat it...




Keeping it simple, i like that:smile: Wish more new how to do that lol

Fade2Black's photo
Tue 09/09/08 07:04 PM


Congrats. But I don't think it shows lack of personality or that the person is boring. I don't contact any guys first because 1) I don't want to look stupid in case they are not interested in me and 2) I am kind of old fashioned in thinking that the guy should contact me first. That's JMO.....


Hey! somone that actually read what I said :smile: It don't but it goes to show at times how many people pay attentaion to what somone said. It could be many reasons why. it's just everyone is different and i guess if your a woman. your taking more of a chance then alot of the men on here.



Who says we didn't read what you said? Where did you get that from our responses babe?

And I do agree that I usually don't write a guy first because I date younger and some guys don't date older so I wait for them to contact me first :wink:

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