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Enough to actually email me with out me having to send the first email
Why is is so hard for most women to just say hi.... There are only a feww on this site that actually have no problem doing so. Just my opinion. It shows a lack of personality and that can be boring.... |
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I have initiated an e-mail 3 times..its not that I am shy..
But those 3 guys really just stood out for me!! Soo good for you, you stood out to her!! |
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Enough to actually email me with out me having to send the first email Why is is so hard for most women to just say hi.... There are only a feww on this site that actually have no problem doing so. Just my opinion. It shows a lack of personality and that can be boring.... Meh .. If I am looking & find someone I actually find interesting, I'll email. If not, I don't. |
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Maybe they are shy or have been burned in the past. Who knows. Guess some of us get "gutsier" (think I just made up a word) with age. What the heck, I just send out mails and if they respond cool, if not, oh well.
Nice to see you back on. Have a good night. |
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Congrats. But I don't think it shows lack of personality or that the person is boring. I don't contact any guys first because 1) I don't want to look stupid in case they are not interested in me and 2) I am kind of old fashioned in thinking that the guy should contact me first. That's JMO.....
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Yay!!!! See there are some different people in this world just not worrying about being rejected. How are you doing by the way??
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Edited by
mcattygarnett
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Tue 09/09/08 06:55 PM
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Enough to actually email me with out me having to send the first email Why is is so hard for most women to just say hi.... There are only a feww on this site that actually have no problem doing so. Just my opinion. It shows a lack of personality and that can be boring.... If memory serves me right I emailed you first, and I enjoy talking to you when we get the chance. It doesnt bother me to send the first email. |
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no prob to send the 1st e-mail here...i got plenty of other problems though...lol
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Congrats. But I don't think it shows lack of personality or that the person is boring. I don't contact any guys first because 1) I don't want to look stupid in case they are not interested in me and 2) I am kind of old fashioned in thinking that the guy should contact me first. That's JMO..... Hey! somone that actually read what I said It don't but it goes to show at times how many people pay attentaion to what somone said. It could be many reasons why. it's just everyone is different and i guess if your a woman. your taking more of a chance then alot of the men on here. |
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I have initiated an e-mail 3 times..its not that I am shy.. But those 3 guys really just stood out for me!! Soo good for you, you stood out to her!! I forget... Was I one of those that stood out? Lol! J.K. |
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no prob to send the 1st e-mail here...i got plenty of other problems though...lol Take it one at a time and i'm sure things will work out. maybe not the way you want it, but with a little effert things can go a long ways |
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I have initiated an e-mail 3 times..its not that I am shy.. But those 3 guys really just stood out for me!! Soo good for you, you stood out to her!! |
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Maybe they are shy or have been burned in the past. Who knows. Guess some of us get "gutsier" (think I just made up a word) with age. What the heck, I just send out mails and if they respond cool, if not, oh well. Nice to see you back on. Have a good night. Good to see you to Marie |
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It is nice for a lady that knows what she wants go after it at times,shows confidence and a no nonsense attitude..the timid have nothing to gain male or female alike
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no prob to send the 1st e-mail here...i got plenty of other problems though...lol Take it one at a time and i'm sure things will work out. maybe not the way you want it, but with a little effert things can go a long ways thanks for the encouragement...but i'm really not too bothered by my problems...either i'll handle them or if not, then why sweat it... |
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Enough to actually email me with out me having to send the first email Why is is so hard for most women to just say hi.... There are only a feww on this site that actually have no problem doing so. Just my opinion. It shows a lack of personality and that can be boring.... |
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no prob to send the 1st e-mail here...i got plenty of other problems though...lol Take it one at a time and i'm sure things will work out. maybe not the way you want it, but with a little effert things can go a long ways thanks for the encouragement...but i'm really not too bothered by my problems...either i'll handle them or if not, then why sweat it... Keeping it simple, i like that Wish more new how to do that lol |
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Congrats. But I don't think it shows lack of personality or that the person is boring. I don't contact any guys first because 1) I don't want to look stupid in case they are not interested in me and 2) I am kind of old fashioned in thinking that the guy should contact me first. That's JMO..... Hey! somone that actually read what I said It don't but it goes to show at times how many people pay attentaion to what somone said. It could be many reasons why. it's just everyone is different and i guess if your a woman. your taking more of a chance then alot of the men on here. Who says we didn't read what you said? Where did you get that from our responses babe? And I do agree that I usually don't write a guy first because I date younger and some guys don't date older so I wait for them to contact me first |
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