I believe you too

Love is in the air

I sent the first email to my boyfriend, I don't have a problem with that at all.

By the way, he's very happy I did!

Do i really have to answer your question

I know some of you do and when it comes down to you fade. You don't miss much

Well, like a few other ladies have said I email someone if I find them interesting, if I don't I don't. If they email me and I don't find them interesting I don't return the email. If I do I do. I don't think this is brain surgery.

I do think women are more discerning than men though hence the lack of emails for the guys. I'm a people watcher, I like to see what people are like before I email them.... I'm usually right about them.

Hm, he better be

This is the net. We usually right about most

Me too, but most of the time I don't get an answer back.

Exactly. LOL That's why I picked up on you thinkin we didn't .. ha ha

(((( shadow ))))

LMAO. WOMEN! i tell ya

yea they look at your file or do the match thing and they never email.they can try to be a friend and then see what happens.

I mailed first, glad I did.

I'm new here. I e-mailed the first two guys that I found interesting. All the while I'm wondering, why don't they e-mail first? These two guys stood out. Well, I know that they read the messages and they didn't reply. I myself am (was) the kind of person who would reply, and if I'm not interested, I would let them know. This thing isn't working for me, and I'm not even sure I will stay here through the week. I'm really not fishing for e-mails or sympathy, it's just how I feel.

Well first of all welcome. Just my opinion and i'm sure many others. Your new and i would give it time and besides that. You could make some really good friends on here if that is kinda what your interested on here too. one thing i have learned out of life. nuthing comes easy that worth working for. So stick around and give it a little time. You never know what might happen...

Shadow -- you know what I find kind of funny? When I first signed up here, I sent out some e-mails and NEVER got a reply.

Now, after 11,000 posts and a year and a half on the site, I get all kinds of e-mails from women, total strangers, almost always people who have NEVER posted in the forums but who read one of my posts or my profile.

And they either want to congratulate me for being so honest and long-winded (after all, my profile is over 1500 pages long) or they want to argue with me about my relationship deal-breakers.

And they are ALWAYS 897,000 miles away.

Thank God, Mr. Scott, the shields are holding....

Welcome, stick around and talk to some of the people, they really are nice on here, give them time to know you, make some friends and go from there, you never know what will happen.

I do get emails. Hell if i didn't after two your of being on here. I would think there is somethng wrong with me lol. I'm sure this happens to most, but once in a while it will be like no one will email me and then the next week they just don't stop coming in. Since i changed my headline is when i was wondering how many would reply to it or shell we say, make the fist move. It happen tonight though and knowing the person has a good sence of humor. I made another friend.

I haven't had much luck making the first move lately, so for self-esteem purposes I'm hanging back a little bit.

I AGREE..

I don't look for people to email but if in a thread I find a reason to email someone from that thread I do... I forget this is a dating site b/c I've made so many friends...