Thanks... uhhh... o wait... that is a complement, right???

Dam artificial boob JOBS... before sillycones Fluffy women had the corner on the market of big boobs. Now look what's happening, skinny model with size DD and older women without sagging boobs. The world is going to hell. HAHA!!!

I think this works both ways...its not only men judging the women its always women judging the men. I myself, I prefer a guy who has some weight on him and he has to be taller then I am. Its all about what we prefer and each one of us prefer something different.
I will say that I lost 125lbs and if a guy wouldn't date me before I lost my weight...I won't date him after I lost my weight!! I am still the same person just a different package. I carry myself the same way and I still have the same feelings..I have a good heart!!
So keep in mind that who you call "fluffy" can drop that weight and then you might be missing out on one hell of a person!!

most of the skinny ones are dumb as hell too, I want someone with a personality, size don't matter to me

I love my woman skinny.

My wife was a size 8 when we met, than up to a size 14 and now a size 4. No diets, just Organic Foods and walking. I like being able to lift her to whatever position I want her to be.

Weigh really didn't matter if you look at the whole 16 years marriage. With age, you just love the person whatever and however they look. I am a Photographer, I am very critical on how someone looks. My mind and eyes automatically goes to the imperfection/problem areas. I am already formulating how I am going to cover that up, in my mind. With that said, Even models have problem areas.

BTW, I believe Clothing are great and being over 30 something and having 2 kids... every sags and stretched out. So, yes.. you bet you have to learn how to love someone beyond skin deep and their mental issues and sins against you.

Im sorry........you have a a phd in WHAT???

Ahhh, that must mean I'm a whole lotta woman. I have a whole lotta boobs. Sigh.

Even when I was a tinny. My grandma looked at me, my mom and sister and then announced I was bigger than the three of them put together.

Grandmother's can get away with saying thing like that.

I prefer a thicker girl over a thin girl.

Lordy, I can so relate to that. My grandma told me EVERY time I came to the nursing home to see her that I was still fat....lol. Then she'd say something like "when you gonna lose some weight?" I wasn't really offended because it was true.....

this is whats wrong with alot of people, they are so caught up on looks that they miss out on some of the best things life has to offer. you can never tell by someones outsides what kind of person they really are. they could have a drop dead sexy banging body, and be the most arrogant, self centered spoiled assholish brat you have ever met. or they can be large and be one of the sweetest people you would ever care to meet. you have to get to know someone before you can make any kind of informed decision about what their personality is.

Of course there are people out there with open minds about these things - ironically though they are probably not people that you are interested in! If someone like Rocky Dennis from the movie Mask was to show interest in you, would you reciprocate?

I've never met a bbw with self esteem issues! On the contrary, they have been strong, and aggressive. I consider myself fortunate, for the conversation is always live and relaxing. There have been smaller women that almost made me run out the room screaming!!! They have a heart as big as Texas, with feelings running deeper than the Grand Canyon; stay strong, babies...

He's a little young for me don't ya think?.....lol.

I'm not sure where your going with this question.....but if your trying to say that I wouldn't date someone with a disability, I'd have to agree that I would be weighing all my options before making a decision. Considering you don't know my background I'll tell you that I have a severely disabled child and her twin sister to take care of and yes, I would prefer to date someone healthy like myself so we can make it to the golden years together. Although IMO love is a fickle thing, and sometimes it jumps out at you when you least expect it and with the person you least expected, so I'm not ruling out anything. Just planning to take one day at a time and allow people in to my life that make me happy. No matter what they look like!

If your speaking only to the facial deformity and not the other serious health conditions that went along with it, then I can also tell you that it's a person's soul I'm interested in, not what surrounds it.

I never said in any of my posts that people were wrong for having preferences. It's life and I've got my big girl panties on! If I came across as whiny about it, then I apologize.

(((((passionart)))))

I didn't quite mean it as an attack so shields down! lol I tend to use extreme examples, my point simply put, is that there are people out there that no doubt love the look of you and you might not even think twice about them!

its up to the person doing the looking to what they like. beauty is in the eye of the beholder. never were truer words uttered

I think the truer words are "beauty is in the eye of the beer holder"

nah thats if your looking for a coyote date

Do you mean a two-bagger?