ETrain would say: It's all about boobs.. boobs make the woman!

Well those I have......sigh. Genetics suck. :)

No one should ever be put down because of their size. But, people need to be comfortable with their size as well and not try to deceive anyone. Because that just asks for trouble. If you are "fluffy" as you called it...say it, post pics as you are and be proud of who you are. And look elsewhere, If a man states size matters to him. People do have preferences. But, rudeness is uncalled for.

I think thick chixxx are hawtttt

Skinny people can gain weight and fluffy people can lose it.... shouldnt be that big of a deal. Just sayin.

I agree.......it's all there in black and white and color on my profile......full body shot included. Has always been. I can't imagine trying to lie about something like that.......the first time you meet it would ruin everything!
Oh, and btw.....I use the word fat often, but didn't want to offend any other large gals. Some people don't appreciate the word. It never held much meaning for me, hence was not offensive.

I've dated short and tall, thin and chubby.... it's all good. I did take issue with a heavy guy I dated once as he ate nothing healthy and always had two to three helpings at dinner. Him eating like a pig was a huge turn-off. It was a lifestyle and manners issue mostly.

I'm not thin, not fat either. But we all have body image issues. Thin folk are remarkably sensitive about it. I am particularly sensitive about my stretch marks. I think people all have preferences and we need to respect them. For example, I love tall men. I am tall. But that doesn't mean my preferences are written in stone or that I am a narrow minded person for my preference.

I also like strawberry and chocolate ice cream over vanilla and hate banana flavered foods. Those are also preferences.

It's all about being happy with what you are. I'm on the thicker size, but I'm honest with it. I'd like to be thinner, but I'm still going to have fun while I'm getting there!

* Disclaimer * The following post is an opinion. Being an opinion, it does not necessarily imply that the poster thinks it applies to everyone. Any insinuation made to that effect is strictly in the mind of the reader * End Disclaimer *

I think it's a little easier for a fluffy/chubby/thick/whateverthehell you want to call it, woman to find a man, than it is for a fluffy/chubby/thick/whateverthehell you want to call it guy.

I would rather a guy say he doesn't want a woman with curves if that is his only criteria for a woman I just delete them as a waste of my time. Maybe he will be "lucky" enough to get exactly what he deserves.

you know........these same guys who want the skinny women want the women who can cook too!!!


Catch-22????

ok.........they want the skinny women who can cook up a storm but not get fat!!!!

They want it all and a bag of chips????

how about we all sit down and eat a salad and forget about weight for a minute..........

im a fat kid and well i maybe in the loooooong process of losing weight but i dont give people any acknowledgement if they cant see past my size its a waste of my time

It's all about the personality



No matter who, no matter how sexy and attractive, male or female..... there is at least one person that can't take one more minute of their chit

I want a woman with curves....not edges.

I want a guy with a heart and a brain and a really big


























pack of gum!!!!

ive said it once ill say it again. women should be happy with themselves before trying to make someone else happy. to me a fluffy woman, bbw, or what have you is sexier than a small woman. but thats just me. that means she knows that she can be bigger and still look good, and that makes it easier for me to make them smile.

WOW.........really? I always thought it was the opposite. Good to hear your take on things....thanks.

No problem.

Actually...I was expecting to catch a lot of flack for that one.