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Topic: Who should pay on a dinner date?
franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Fri 09/05/08 12:42 PM
rara good for you

Dan99 Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 14941	Fri 09/05/08 12:44 PM
I would pay if I offered....if it was a mutual agreement, we split...if he offered, then i would expect him to pay. My guy is a believer in the man paying for the meal, i guess that makes things easy for me! lol! Then again, when we stay in, I cook, so it balances out! Ummmm... Do you wanna tell them why you always cook?? Im not sure either i necessary believe in the man paying ALL the time! But yeah sometimes the man should be a man! Especially on the first few dates.

sgtpepper Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 192	Fri 09/05/08 01:00 PM
I like to pay because I have nothing better to do with my money. I don't go out on many dates (locked inside) so when I do I want to make sure its a great time, and the only way to really do that is make sure Im comfortable (especially if the date is not so great)

Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507	Fri 09/05/08 01:06 PM
I would pay if I offered....if it was a mutual agreement, we split...if he offered, then i would expect him to pay. My guy is a believer in the man paying for the meal, i guess that makes things easy for me! lol! Then again, when we stay in, I cook, so it balances out! Ummmm... Do you wanna tell them why you always cook?? Im not sure either i necessary believe in the man paying ALL the time! But yeah sometimes the man should be a man! Especially on the first few dates. LOL!! hey!! i split my winnings with ya didnt i?!!

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76455	Fri 09/05/08 01:08 PM
I know everyone will probably say man, but if he asked you to pay, would you go out with him again girls? Well the correct way is who ever ask the other to go out to eat pays for the meal does not matter if it is the Woman or the Man. Heck at times now there are women that make more then some of the men do. So it is not wrong now days for the Women to pay.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76455	Fri 09/05/08 01:10 PM
I would pay if I offered....if it was a mutual agreement, we split...if he offered, then i would expect him to pay. My guy is a believer in the man paying for the meal, i guess that makes things easy for me! lol! Then again, when we stay in, I cook, so it balances out! Ummmm... Do you wanna tell them why you always cook?? Im not sure either i necessary believe in the man paying ALL the time! But yeah sometimes the man should be a man! Especially on the first few dates. LOL!! hey!! i split my winnings with ya didnt i?!! Hummmm tell him someone had to buy those grocerys lmao shshshsh and then you slaved over a stove for him men just don't get it sometimes

mcattygarnett Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 3527	Fri 09/05/08 01:14 PM
I dont mind paying for dinner, equal rights for all.

Dan99 Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 14941	Fri 09/05/08 01:26 PM
I would pay if I offered....if it was a mutual agreement, we split...if he offered, then i would expect him to pay. My guy is a believer in the man paying for the meal, i guess that makes things easy for me! lol! Then again, when we stay in, I cook, so it balances out! Ummmm... Do you wanna tell them why you always cook?? Im not sure either i necessary believe in the man paying ALL the time! But yeah sometimes the man should be a man! Especially on the first few dates. LOL!! hey!! i split my winnings with ya didnt i?!! Well yeah. You split OUR winnings anyway, since we had an agreement! lol!

sgtpepper Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 192	Fri 09/05/08 01:34 PM
I would pay if I offered....if it was a mutual agreement, we split...if he offered, then i would expect him to pay. My guy is a believer in the man paying for the meal, i guess that makes things easy for me! lol! Then again, when we stay in, I cook, so it balances out! Ummmm... Do you wanna tell them why you always cook?? Im not sure either i necessary believe in the man paying ALL the time! But yeah sometimes the man should be a man! Especially on the first few dates. LOL!! hey!! i split my winnings with ya didnt i?!! Well yeah. You split OUR winnings anyway, since we had an agreement! lol! You two are adorable.

papersmile Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 5148	Fri 09/05/08 01:34 PM
I would pay if I offered....if it was a mutual agreement, we split...if he offered, then i would expect him to pay. My guy is a believer in the man paying for the meal, i guess that makes things easy for me! lol! Then again, when we stay in, I cook, so it balances out! Ummmm... Do you wanna tell them why you always cook?? Im not sure either i necessary believe in the man paying ALL the time! But yeah sometimes the man should be a man! Especially on the first few dates. LOL!! hey!! i split my winnings with ya didnt i?!! Well yeah. You split OUR winnings anyway, since we had an agreement! lol! You two are adorable. well lisa is anyway

Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507	Fri 09/05/08 01:36 PM
I would pay if I offered....if it was a mutual agreement, we split...if he offered, then i would expect him to pay. My guy is a believer in the man paying for the meal, i guess that makes things easy for me! lol! Then again, when we stay in, I cook, so it balances out! Ummmm... Do you wanna tell them why you always cook?? Im not sure either i necessary believe in the man paying ALL the time! But yeah sometimes the man should be a man! Especially on the first few dates. LOL!! hey!! i split my winnings with ya didnt i?!! Well yeah. You split OUR winnings anyway, since we had an agreement! lol! You two are adorable. well lisa is anyway Haha!! Thank you!!

justme659 Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 6144	Fri 09/05/08 01:45 PM
If I remember way back to the last time I was in the presence of a real date, I asked the guy to come to my volleyball game and offered to get him coffee or something afterwards. He was real nice and insisted on paying for the both of us. I always carry my own cash to pay my way every time. Even though I was raised to believe that who ever askes, pays.