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Topic: HAS THIS SITE MADE A DIFFERENCE IN YOUR LIFE?
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 08/31/08 11:44 PM
yes

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 08/31/08 11:44 PM
Has it made a difference in my life? ...I learned a few things and that make a difference in the way I see these sites..I learned that the majority of folks behind keyboards belong there..The amount of censorship is unreal ..constructive criticism is better relayed in person. .vulgarity is rampant..and sadly the moral conduct among adults is appalling..If the censors took out all references to sexual organs and ways to use them the forums would be a great place to visit however that is not the style here..so we get stuck reading through trash to find readable content.... Dollar value is perfect however ...after all we get what we pay for....you asked... ... I learned that this is not my place to be and I would urge every one here looking for a relationship to leave the comfort of your home and keyboard and go find one...My logic there is that the more we exersice the longer we live ,hence more time to make friends.... ...and yes I will be deleting my profile... gosh

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Mon 09/01/08 10:23 AM
Has it made a difference in my life? ...I learned a few things and that make a difference in the way I see these sites..I learned that the majority of folks behind keyboards belong there..The amount of censorship is unreal ..constructive criticism is better relayed in person. .vulgarity is rampant..and sadly the moral conduct among adults is appalling..If the censors took out all references to sexual organs and ways to use them the forums would be a great place to visit however that is not the style here..so we get stuck reading through trash to find readable content.... Dollar value is perfect however ...after all we get what we pay for....you asked... ... I learned that this is not my place to be and I would urge every one here looking for a relationship to leave the comfort of your home and keyboard and go find one...My logic there is that the more we exersice the longer we live ,hence more time to make friends.... ...and yes I will be deleting my profile... gosh he's still here

Rapunzel Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 16246	Mon 09/01/08 11:04 AM Edited by Rapunzel on Mon 09/01/08 11:09 AM
Has it made a difference in my life? ...I learned a few things and that make a difference in the way I see these sites.. I learned that the majority of folks behind keyboards belong there.. The amount of censorship is unreal .. constructive criticism is better relayed in person. .vulgarity is rampant.. and sadly the moral conduct among adults is appalling.. <<< truly >>> If the censors took out all references to sexual organs and ways to use them the forums would be a great place to visit however that is not the style here.. yes, i am sick of the adolescent romper room gansta gutter mentality < absolutely > so we get stuck reading through trash to find readable content.... yes, it is really bad at times..., Dollar value is perfect however ...after all we get what we pay for....you asked... ... I learned that this is not my place to be and I would urge every one here looking for a relationship to leave the comfort of your home and keyboard and go find one...My logic there is that the more we exersice the longer we live ,hence more time to make friends.... ...and yes I will be deleting my profile... gosh Mirror Mirror... i looked through the posts to see who made this one you replied to, but I could not find it,... i was wondering who made this post please send me an email, if you know... thanks...

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 09/01/08 11:12 AM
Has it made a difference in my life? ...I learned a few things and that make a difference in the way I see these sites.. I learned that the majority of folks behind keyboards belong there.. The amount of censorship is unreal .. constructive criticism is better relayed in person. .vulgarity is rampant.. and sadly the moral conduct among adults is appalling.. <<< truly >>> If the censors took out all references to sexual organs and ways to use them the forums would be a great place to visit however that is not the style here.. yes, i am sick of the adolescent romper room gansta gutter mentality < absolutely > so we get stuck reading through trash to find readable content.... yes, it is really bad at times..., Dollar value is perfect however ...after all we get what we pay for....you asked... ... I learned that this is not my place to be and I would urge every one here looking for a relationship to leave the comfort of your home and keyboard and go find one...My logic there is that the more we exersice the longer we live ,hence more time to make friends.... ...and yes I will be deleting my profile... gosh Mirror Mirror... i looked through the posts to see who made this one you replied to, but I could not find it,... i was wondering who made this post please send me an email, if you know... thanks... I sent it to you Nessa

mandyatl81 Joined Wed 10/10/07 Posts: 4267	Mon 09/01/08 11:14 AM
this site has made a big difference for me for sure....i've moved completely across the country, i'm getting married to the man i met on here this saturday, and i've made some really good friends along the way

shadowdog Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 12773	Mon 09/01/08 11:17 AM
jsh wasthe only site that taught me some good stuff to the point where i became a better person and yet i have found the love of my life on jsh--i'm still contacting her as we speak-- mingle2 is a different stories--lots of new people--avoidance of some former jsh'ers--it doesn't matter tho--

Rapunzel Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 16246	Mon 09/01/08 11:19 AM
this site has made a big difference for me for sure....i've moved completely across the country, i'm getting married to the man i met on here this saturday, and i've made some really good friends along the way [[[[<<<<< Congratulations Mandy >>>>> ]]]]] love and light to you and your Man...

Rapunzel Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 16246	Mon 09/01/08 11:20 AM
Has it made a difference in my life? ...I learned a few things and that make a difference in the way I see these sites.. I learned that the majority of folks behind keyboards belong there.. The amount of censorship is unreal .. constructive criticism is better relayed in person. .vulgarity is rampant.. and sadly the moral conduct among adults is appalling.. <<< truly >>> If the censors took out all references to sexual organs and ways to use them the forums would be a great place to visit however that is not the style here.. yes, i am sick of the adolescent romper room gansta gutter mentality < absolutely > so we get stuck reading through trash to find readable content.... yes, it is really bad at times..., Dollar value is perfect however ...after all we get what we pay for....you asked... ... I learned that this is not my place to be and I would urge every one here looking for a relationship to leave the comfort of your home and keyboard and go find one...My logic there is that the more we exersice the longer we live ,hence more time to make friends.... ...and yes I will be deleting my profile... gosh Mirror Mirror... i looked through the posts to see who made this one you replied to, but I could not find it,... i was wondering who made this post please send me an email, if you know... thanks... I sent it to you Nessa Thank you Lee... I Love you lots...

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 09/01/08 11:28 AM Edited by MirrorMirror on Mon 09/01/08 11:29 AM
Has it made a difference in my life? ...I learned a few things and that make a difference in the way I see these sites.. I learned that the majority of folks behind keyboards belong there.. The amount of censorship is unreal .. constructive criticism is better relayed in person. .vulgarity is rampant.. and sadly the moral conduct among adults is appalling.. <<< truly >>> If the censors took out all references to sexual organs and ways to use them the forums would be a great place to visit however that is not the style here.. yes, i am sick of the adolescent romper room gansta gutter mentality < absolutely > so we get stuck reading through trash to find readable content.... yes, it is really bad at times..., Dollar value is perfect however ...after all we get what we pay for....you asked... ... I learned that this is not my place to be and I would urge every one here looking for a relationship to leave the comfort of your home and keyboard and go find one...My logic there is that the more we exersice the longer we live ,hence more time to make friends.... ...and yes I will be deleting my profile... gosh Mirror Mirror... i looked through the posts to see who made this one you replied to, but I could not find it,... i was wondering who made this post please send me an email, if you know... thanks... I sent it to you Nessa Thank you Lee... I Love you lots... I love you too Nessa

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Mon 09/01/08 12:02 PM
OMG...NEED YOU ASK??? I have managed to get drug free, and stay drug free ....largely due to the tremendous amount of support that I have recieved here at mingle. MINGLERS SO ROCK!!! I have found the love of my life here ...a few times... had a gizillion laughs, and made the best friends a girl could ever hope to have. NOT TO MENTION!!!WHO IN THE HELL ELSE WOULD PUT UP WITH ME, IF I DIDNT HAVE MINGLE2???? THIS PLACE IS MY.."HOME SWEET HOME".

Sweetnshy47 Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 1261	Mon 09/01/08 12:04 PM
Its my only social life....sad!

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76436	Mon 09/01/08 12:29 PM
Meh. For better or worse..I am who I am. With or without this site, I would be me. Am I a better person because of this place....honest answer???....not really. Every day that I am here....I get a little more discouraged about my prospects of finding someone. Don't get me wrong...I love the people here. That's why I am still hanging around. Awww just admit this place is addicting and ya love it

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76436	Mon 09/01/08 12:30 PM
You know, when you jump into a big body of waters that you cannot tell the depth and direction of things all over, all at once. It's like that, being new here. So I flail and flounder and don't accomplish much except learning to swim. It frustrates the assumptions and illusions of coming in here. It's not relaxing unless I relax and let it be. I cannot swim against the tide...but I am learning a little with time. That's the hardest thing: To let go of what I expected and to deal with what is here. There are tons of profiles to Mutual Match, and people to meet, and the distance is not a problem. "The distance is nothing; it is only the first step that is difficult." ~ Madame du Deffand~ Aww but........ you learned to swim in the end did't ya

Sweetnshy47 Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 1261	Mon 09/01/08 12:32 PM
OMG...NEED YOU ASK??? I have managed to get drug free, and stay drug free ....largely due to the tremendous amount of support that I have recieved here at mingle. MINGLERS SO ROCK!!! I have found the love of my life here ...a few times... had a gizillion laughs, and made the best friends a girl could ever hope to have. NOT TO MENTION!!!WHO IN THE HELL ELSE WOULD PUT UP WITH ME, IF I DIDNT HAVE MINGLE2???? THIS PLACE IS MY.."HOME SWEET HOME". Your awsome!

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76436	Mon 09/01/08 12:36 PM
Thank u Clark...I appreciate u..more than words can say.. Venessa...I love you..U are awesome..and ur support for our military ant he families... are bigger than this Earth.. Suzanne.. Awww many of us here support The Troops kuddos to your son and the many more men and women that have taken the task first hand.

star1972 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 2323	Mon 09/01/08 12:37 PM
I found a lovely guy on here and had a wonderful 5 month relationship with him. I dropped the site. But recently he changed his mind and I'm single again............................. so i came back here to find some friends, pass some time, have some laughs, share my pain.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76436	Mon 09/01/08 12:42 PM
Has it made a difference in my life? ...I learned a few things and that make a difference in the way I see these sites..I learned that the majority of folks behind keyboards belong there..The amount of censorship is unreal ..constructive criticism is better relayed in person. .vulgarity is rampant..and sadly the moral conduct among adults is appalling..If the censors took out all references to sexual organs and ways to use them the forums would be a great place to visit however that is not the style here..so we get stuck reading through trash to find readable content.... Dollar value is perfect however ...after all we get what we pay for....you asked... ... I learned that this is not my place to be and I would urge every one here looking for a relationship to leave the comfort of your home and keyboard and go find one...My logic there is that the more we exersice the longer we live ,hence more time to make friends.... ...and yes I will be deleting my profile... Sorry you feel that way but it is not up to a site to find the one for you. All they do is create a place for others to join then it is up to each to do the handy work and learn to reach out to the others. If one chooses not to then that is up to them not the site. And at times when others complain about readable materiel and can not find it then it is up to those individuals to pitch in and create readable materiel. You know like take the first step and make a difference. But if your one that chooses to leave instead then I wish you all the luck in the world on your journey ahead.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76436	Mon 09/01/08 12:44 PM
It has a bit, could I of lived without the site...yes. Do I enjoy the friends I've made...yes...all in all the site is fun, but the fact remains that most of the people I have met are out of state...seems all the locals disappear as soon as one signs on. Humm we could all live without the site in reality. But it must have made some type of impact on your thinking and everyday life or you would not still be here. Whether it is the friends you have meet or more in reality it has made a impact within your life.

Rapunzel Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 16246	Mon 09/01/08 12:46 PM Edited by Rapunzel on Mon 09/01/08 12:47 PM