When is it appropriate to say you love someone? Thoughts, concerns or idle gossip welcome

You know you love him...say it already!

when nipples present themselves :D

never ! that way you dont get hurt in the end !

I don't have rules for that sort of thing -- it just happens when it happens, and then someone throws a phone at me or something....

When you know you love someone, say it. You'll regret if you never get the chance to.

It's not a question of when it's appropriate. Time means nothing when one falls in love. The best time to tell the person is when you realize that you have fallen for the person.

when you feel it

Never

When you feel it is there

But but, I love you enough to stalk you!

when it feels right.

And u can say it with out thinkin, of what ur saying.

here we go again there is a fine line between love and hate so just hump and dump,and forget about love.

You will know in yur heart when the time is right, just let it happen and do not over think it.

The time is right when.... you just blurt it out one day!

As a woman.. I know I have always been afraid to say it first, though I had felt it... being afraid of what'd he think, say or NOT say after the fact.

Tell them you love them when you feel it. Except once you tell someone things can change so be ready. I mean the person could retreat, or approach or just say "that's nice". Either way you are putting it out there and will be in a vulnerable position.

I met a woman who told me she could not love. She was right. She could not get close to someone allowing herself to fall in love. She could only get so far and then slammed on the brakes. I feel sorry for her, she is out there interested only in sex not love. She is a very nice woman but she has issues I'm afraid.

I heard a rumor some girl is going to meet some guy very soon(no it's not me). She is madly in love. I hope things work out for her. I heard another rumor that a couple here never met but told others they had. I don't know why or if true. One woman I know fell for this other guy and fell in love, she was going to move out there and everything. Then she got a pic of his local girlfriend giving felatio. The two women fought through text messages for some time. All for love....love does goofy things.

I can see that questions stirs people a bit and appreciate that a lot of you were honest in your opinions. It's a tough thing to think about in any case, not an easy thing to swallow given all the variables. But then they wouldn't call it falling if there was not the possibility of burning, right?

After the first time she does your laundry.

You'll feel like your on a cloud and won't want to come down, that's a dead give away

in THAT case: i love you