Topic: When Harry met Sally....
Lily0923's photo
Sat 08/30/08 10:59 PM
When your guy best friend tells you he is jealous when other guys talk to you, and then proceed to tell you that they love you and not in a brother/sister way as it has been for over 4 years....how do you deal with that?

Granted done while under the influence, but not someone who usually does that sort of thing.

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dawnyhi's photo
Sat 08/30/08 11:01 PM
Edited by dawnyhi on Sat 08/30/08 11:02 PM
never mind... i dont like drunks

seahawks's photo
Sat 08/30/08 11:01 PM
get another tacky tattoo.!!laugh laugh laugh

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Sat 08/30/08 11:01 PM
i'd start runnin' like mad, as there might be some deliverance-style mountain-man-on-ned-beatty action goin' on. scared

Lily0923's photo
Sat 08/30/08 11:02 PM
Edited by Lily0923 on Sat 08/30/08 11:03 PM

get another tacky tattoo.!!laugh laugh laugh


Working on my fourth one now thanks..... It tends to keep the azzholes with no balls away... I love my tats.

but how does that apply to this situation again?

countryboy23461's photo
Sat 08/30/08 11:06 PM
i would consider the situation, look within yourself and ask yourself if you COULD share the same feelings in anyway at all, and if so then tell him, if not tell him also

Lily0923's photo
Sat 08/30/08 11:06 PM

i'd start runnin' like mad, as there might be some deliverance-style mountain-man-on-ned-beatty action goin' on. scared


Your so silly...:banana: :banana:

PATSFAN's photo
Sat 08/30/08 11:08 PM
Please, why is it the women I'm friends with won't let me near other women when I express interest in, they get all defensive, it's the weirdest thing!!

Lily0923's photo
Sat 08/30/08 11:09 PM

Please, why is it the women I'm friends with won't let me near other women when I express interest in, they get all defensive, it's the weirdest thing!!


because one of two things....1.) They love you and see that the other women are trashy b*tches or 2.) They have feelings for you.

Cinderella75's photo
Sat 08/30/08 11:14 PM
Edited by Cinderella75 on Sat 08/30/08 11:17 PM

When your guy best friend tells you he is jealous when other guys talk to you, and then proceed to tell you that they love you and not in a brother/sister way as it has been for over 4 years....how do you deal with that?

Granted done while under the influence, but not someone who usually does that sort of thing.

scared shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked surprised surprised surprised surprised slaphead slaphead slaphead slaphead


Well, guys say the darnest things when they are plastered. But when they are just a little intoxicated, they usually will tell u whats on their mind.:tongue: Just in my experience.
I just pray at that moment when I don't have feelings for them, that they will forget that they told me that, so I don't have to deal w/ it.

Lily0923's photo
Sat 08/30/08 11:34 PM
So besides Cinderella, no sound advise?

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Sat 08/30/08 11:39 PM
Hmmm...dare I be the first to ask, Lily?

How do YOU feel about this "friend"? Are the feelings reciprocated?

Kinda vital info to know before I could respond honestly and effectively. :wink:

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Sat 08/30/08 11:42 PM
Uhhhhhhhh Ive had this....it was my son's dad's best friend.......great guy.......great friend but there was just no mojo in it for me.....noway

My parents wanted me to marry him......ohwell

Lily0923's photo
Sat 08/30/08 11:45 PM

Hmmm...dare I be the first to ask, Lily?

How do YOU feel about this "friend"? Are the feelings reciprocated?

Kinda vital info to know before I could respond honestly and effectively. :wink:


about the comments: overwhelmed, stunned, amazed, disconcerned, shocked, bewildered, confused.

about him: love, respect... like a best friend. like a brother, like a soul mate but not a romantic kind.... I just don't know if I could or would ever see him like that.

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Sat 08/30/08 11:48 PM
dont sleep with them!!! It messes things up......noway noway noway noway

Lily0923's photo
Sat 08/30/08 11:50 PM

dont sleep with them!!! It messes things up......noway noway noway noway


Oh no, I never do that.... (well not anymore) those stay seperate.... ALWAYS.