Topic: help
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Fri 08/29/08 04:17 PM
if u have been with a someone for 9 years and they olny told u that they loved u one time would u stay?

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE's photo
Fri 08/29/08 04:18 PM
well..how do they treat you? they treat you good? cheat on you? ect?

itsmetina's photo
Fri 08/29/08 04:18 PM
goodbyeflowerforyou

irad8you's photo
Fri 08/29/08 04:18 PM
Yep
goodbyeflowerforyou

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Fri 08/29/08 04:19 PM

goodbyeflowerforyou


ditto

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 08/29/08 04:20 PM
smokin Embrace themsmokin

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Fri 08/29/08 04:24 PM
I would rather be with someone who showed his love but didn't speak of it than to be with someone who spoke of his love but didn't show it.

How does he treat you?

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Fri 08/29/08 04:25 PM
he worries more about things he enjoys then me

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Fri 08/29/08 04:26 PM
Nope....byebigsmile flowerforyou

ledi180's photo
Fri 08/29/08 04:27 PM
Time to move on flowerforyou

he worries more about things he enjoys then me

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Fri 08/29/08 04:30 PM
Have you discussed the situation with him?

Does he know you have concerns?

Do you think that with a little extra effort from each of you that this can be worked out?

Do you still care for each other?

briancarr's photo
Fri 08/29/08 04:36 PM

if u have been with a someone for 9 years and they olny told u that they loved u one time would u stay?

Whats the point after nine years? What has changed in your live that makes you want to hear that now? The other person is content with saying it as little as posible. What has changed in you?

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Fri 08/29/08 05:38 PM
Actions speak louder than words. How does he act? Does he treat you well? If it concerns you and you've been together 9 years you should be able to talk to him about it. If you are too afraid to talk to him, then your relationship has more problems than just him only saying he loves you once.

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Sat 08/30/08 02:14 PM
No offense, hon, but how on earth did this last 9 years?

And if you KNOW he worries about stuff he likes instead of you.

And if you KNOW he won't say or show that he loves you.

Well, I think then, you have your answer.....

Good luck to you, sweets! flowerforyou

papersmile's photo
Sat 08/30/08 02:16 PM

I would rather be with someone who showed his love but didn't speak of it than to be with someone who spoke of his love but didn't show it.




i would rather be with someone who both showed his love and spoke of it.

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Sat 08/30/08 02:18 PM

if u have been with a someone for 9 years and they olny told u that they loved u one time would u stay?

yes cause that means alot to someone when they say they love you once in a relationship,means they told you what you already knew once and didnt have to keep saying it over and over trying to make themselves believe they do.

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Tue 09/02/08 05:38 AM

Time to move on flowerforyou

he worries more about things he enjoys then me