I’ve a Question . . . will Someone please talk to Me? Or am I being ignored? ? ?


I’m a 33-year-old Straight/Hetersexual Male; and . . . almost wished I was born a Female because of [‘dating’ ‘game(s)’] problems and no one has cared to answer my question below . . . anyways . . .


What is the step-by-step, the ‘How-to-do’ Process on: “how to approach/attract a peer-aged female”-- from this Method/Procedure/Concept? ? ?


The Concept:
"How to Approach Me! → How to Date Me! → How to Sexually Seduce Me!"


What a r e the Sub-steps for each of the three Main Steps, please???

“How to approach Me!”
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“How to ‘Date’ Me!”
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“How to ‘Sexually’ Seduce Me!”
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Thank-you for n o t ignoring me.

<--------- crazy b!tch

i think you need a psychiatrist

and by the way your not being ignored bluebox

Heres what my dad taught me...The 4 F's

1. Find

2. Feel

3. F*ck

4. Forget

P.S. Sadly it never worked for me

Unfortunately.... Most on here have a predjudice towards profiles with noo pictures. The reason?... Most profiles on here without... aren't serious. They just create cheap profiles to mess with the majority. For the best result... I confide... Put up a few pics. You will notice an immediate difference.

B.T.W. You're not the normal type of individual on here... Because of your unique situation... You might be better suited for a gay-oriented site.

its deactivation time

1. Go here: www.google.com
2. In the blank box enter your question one at a time.
3. Click the search button.
4. Go to the various results until you are satisfied you have your answer.

We also could care less about your personal info we can see it with your profile. No need to keep saying it. Get a recent picture of yourself for your profile or most will ignore you.

So, because he might be/is gay, he's "not normal"? Am I reading that right? There's a LOT of gay people on this site... and there's gay searches, for men and women. I'm hoping this is not how you meant that...

Ssssssssssssssssssshhhhhhhhh..........k where are your meds.......

This is a 'mingle' site. Not all of us think it's a 'cyber on-screen and hook-up NOW' site.

IMO

I think it was a joke referring to his wanting to become a woman.

OH WOW!!! i'LL take Lawn mowers for $5000 alex!!!

Can you repeat that question....i was ignoring what you said....

Oh, have you tried begging....or pretending you are rich....maybe you can raffle yourself....as long as it doesn't cost you too much money...

Bot?

Holly Crap!!! Some body left the cage door open...Hey what the hell is bluebox ,is that code for a horny girl or somthin????

Yep, it was that forget part for me. A mans Penis has a long memory and some times a women will even leave you with a reminder ...so rap your Jimmy Timmy!!!!!!!!!

JustSayHi.com has a blue box when the person does not have a picture.

Okiee Dokiee

I'm going to do you the favor of assuming you're not a troll. First step in attracting someone: don't be a whiner. Seriously--it takes most of us some time to find someone compatible, and you're no exception. Suck it up.

First, put up some pictures. I imagine most of us skate right past profiles with no pics; I know I do. You really won't receive much in the way of responses until you do this.

Next: Put up a profile. No, a REAL profile. Put up some information about what you do, what's important to you, what you enjoy eating, what your hobbies are. If you don't have any actual hobbies outside of searching for a relationship, go get some and try again in a year. I see a lot of men on here with profiles telling me they're looking for X sort of relationship. That's nice and all, but I'm not going to go out with someone based solely on the fact that they might be looking for a similar type of relationship that I am, without knowing anything about who they are.

So, you've got a real profile with photos, and you've found a woman whose profile interests you. What now?

The opening message: This is important. Someone with a mediocre profile can hook me from this; someone with a good profile can turn any interest away by doing really badly at it. Here are some examples:

BAD: "I like your profile. Let me know if you'd like to talk."

Why it's bad: It says NOTHING about who you are, what you liked, etc. For all she knows, you didn't even read her profile and are spamming multitudes of women with the same lousy five-second message.

GOOD: "Your profile really peeked my interest. I'm especially wondering about your interest in under-water basket-weaving. How did you get started with that?"

Why it's good: It shows you've actually read her profile. Further, you've asked her a question, to which she will have a response should she care to correspond with you. Giving a good conversation starter is important. I ALWAYS ignore "let me know if you'd like to talk" messages. Why?--there's nothing to respond to. If you'd really like to get to know me, show some interest in what I've said and start an actual conversation. I'm sure some people will disagree, but I feel it's up to the person who intiates contact to start a conversation, and you're certainly not going to go wrong by going with that tactic.

BAD: "You're pretty."

Clearly you think so or you wouldn't contact her on a dating site.

ALSO BAD: "Hi cutie."

I'm sure some women disagree, but I get irked at the use of pet names before I know someone. Talk to me like a grownup.

GOOD: "You have really pretty eyes/a really pretty smile/the best teeth I've ever seen."

Much more specific (especially something like teeth; bet she doesn't hear that all the time, so you've just made yourself stand out). Just make sure you follow this up with someone more substantial. Also note that it's not necessary to complement her looks at all in an opening message; she knows you think she's cute or you wouldn't have bothered.

ALWAYS BAD: Any solicitation of sex in an opening e-mail, use of the term "sexy" in all but a very few circumstances, references to breasts, asking for threesomes or details of past sexual encounters, sending penis photos (or asking if she'd like to see some). It makes you a sleazy creep. Don't do it.

ALSO BAD: l33t speak. It's funny in certain contexts, but if u rite leik dis, I'm going to assume you have an IQ to match and/or no grasp of the English language.

So you've sent her a message. Now it's up to her. If she doesn't respond, you can safely assume she isn't interested. She's under no obligation to send you a message just because you sent her one; find it rude if you want to, but let it go and move on.

She sends you a message back indicating interest in friendship only: Don't argue with her. I've gotten this recently. I'm personally searching for someone in my little city or just outside; hour drives are too far as far as I'm concerned. Lots of men seem to disagree. That's fine, but telling me that my deal-breaker is prematurely ruling something out (isn't that the point of discovering deal-breakers early in the first place?) shows a disrespect of my stated wishes. If you can't hear what I'm saying now, how could you possibly in a relationship? Friendship could also mean she simply finds you unattractive but otherwise interesting. If you aren't interested in just friends, politely tell her so and move along; if you want to attempt friendship, then be respectful of her stated wishes and don't try to get in her pants unless she expresses interest.

She writes back and is gung-ho: Great! Be respectful; you can offer your number, but many of us like talking online first (hey, there are some creeps out there). You're pretty much on your own from here. Listen to what she says, meet in a public place first, etc. Be sane and sensible, and if something feels "off" about her, it probably is.

Dating and seducing are horrendously personal, so any advice would correspond to that particular woman and not to women in general since we are all, you know, actual live individual people with different preferences. Take it by feel and be attentive.