You obviously don't trust one another, so it's a bad match anyway...move on and let her do the same. IMO

Our cause is a secret within a secret, a secret that only another secret can explain; it is a secret about a secret veiled by a secret.

Obviously you have no trust and you don't have much communication. You said that you had to read that she is single from her myspace? What is up with that? I honestly think that your so called gf sees things differently then you do.
If you don't think she should be on a dating site talking to anyone...then log off of this site and take a step back. Why are you on this site? Sure, some people just want friends...BUT I truly believe that if you weren't looking, you would not be here.
I think maybe you need to talk to you "friend" and find out exactly how things stand. With out trust in a relationship, you might as well end things now!! Good luck

My question is this...I read your profile and it says that you are seperated. Then I am assuming that you and your "gf" broke up because it states that you are looking for a special girl. Obviously you are here for dating purposes, SO you really have no reason to be upset at her!!
If I was her, I would run very fast from you. You are still married and dating. In my opinion, you need to clean up one messy relationship before you jump into another one!! I think you need time to figure out whats going on with you...you might have some issues with jealousy and control? There is only one person that you will ever be able to control, and that my friend is yourself!!

whenever I meet that special guy
I plan on coming on here to chat in the forums and keep up with my friends

no one could come between me and my guy

Xactly! My fella and I are both here chatting with friends and there have never been any issues with it...we trust each and enjoy watching each other interact with friends...it's a nice hobby for us whether we're doing it together or killing time we can't share.

You can never trust a woman; she may be true to you.

(((Mirror)))

Well from the looks of it...you were wrong with your based assumption. Personally I wouldn't care if they were on a dating site, perhaps they have friends or keeping their options open...I wouldn't feel threatened and would continue treating her the same as I did from day one, if she enjoyed it she would stay with me...if not, she would leave but it would be for the better of both of us.

only if she clarifies in her profile she's taken, puts pics up of you .. AND is there for the forums

she can talk to a girl on email or yahoo .. comeon dude .. really

Nothing wrong with being on here if you two are committed as long as she is honest with you and lets people know that you two are together.

Its exclusive as soon as you talk about it being exclusive.

If I had a girlfriend I would still come on here and post in the forums. So its definitely possible.
I wouldnt allow myself to get jealous over my girl logging into a dating site. I mean, think how ridiciolous that is.

You cant put your partner in a glassed case and not allow her to choose free will. She will do what she wants and you'll do what you want.
Hell- I wouldnt even care if my partner was having cybersex or watching porn with a dude online - its all in good fun.