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Women can fake an orgasm, but men can fake a whole relationship.... I can only fake the sounds....but if I do that than the loser is me. 
And the second part of that, how RIGHT you are. |
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Ok guys out there... This issue seems to be more prevalent about your sex then mine.. How or why would you date...become involved with a woman if you NEVER had any intention of really getting a serious relationship started with her? Why waste your time? Now, by that I DON'T MEAN that things happen, and feelings change, etc... But why become emotionally and physically involved with someone that you KNOW IN YOUR GUT, FROM THE START you will NOT STAY with??? Why do that? I never understood this about men.. I've only done that with one woman and she knew about it before we hopped in the sack. It was our prescrew agreement. I didn't want a relationship, and her boyfriend was a really, REALLY bad lover. Worked out pretty well for both parties. Well, maybe not the boyfriend, but he can go to hell for all I care. |
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Edited by
Jules0565
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Ok guys out there... This issue seems to be more prevalent about your sex then mine.. How or why would you date...become involved with a woman if you NEVER had any intention of really getting a serious relationship started with her? Why waste your time? Now, by that I DON'T MEAN that things happen, and feelings change, etc... But why become emotionally and physically involved with someone that you KNOW IN YOUR GUT, FROM THE START you will NOT STAY with??? Why do that? I never understood this about men.. I've only done that with one woman and she knew about it before we hopped in the sack. It was our prescrew agreement. I didn't want a relationship, and her boyfriend was a really, REALLY bad lover. Worked out pretty well for both parties. Well, maybe not the boyfriend, but he can go to hell for all I care. Hmm.. wondering how you know this? 
And if he were so bad she should have ended the relationship. People will use that excuse to sugarcoat their reasons for cheating, when in reality there are NO excuses.  No matter WHAT the reason being..if you are that UNHAPPY, LEAVE!
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Women can fake an orgasm, but men can fake a whole relationship.... I can only fake the sounds....but if I do that than the loser is me.
And the second part of that, how RIGHT you are. I don't think that men intentionally fake relationships, though it may often seem that way. Men are usually less emotional and have more difficulty expressing themselves and how they feel. So, as time goes on, they become more distant giving the impression that they are faking it. Anytime a relationship gets to the point where two can no longer communicate, it's time for outside counseling. Unfortunately, most men view relationship counseling as someone pointing the finger solely at them, so they are more reluctant to go. |
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Women can fake an orgasm, but men can fake a whole relationship.... I can only fake the sounds....but if I do that than the loser is me.
And the second part of that, how RIGHT you are. I don't think that men intentionally fake relationships, though it may often seem that way. Men are usually less emotional and have more difficulty expressing themselves and how they feel. So, as time goes on, they become more distant giving the impression that they are faking it. Anytime a relationship gets to the point where two can no longer communicate, it's time for outside counseling. Unfortunately, most men view relationship counseling as someone pointing the finger solely at them, so they are more reluctant to go. Wow, that's such a great excuse, can I use it for other things??? |
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Dedede.....duh.... to get u naked and find out if your good in bed.. sorry if this offends you but, its the truth . although , to some men its about the power , to tohes its about the pure need for sex . either way we(guys ) want and need sex!! Yep... and the better head you give the longer you stay around... or if you don't talk too much, or call too much. Being freaky counts extra too. Thanks for being honest, guy.  
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Dedede.....duh.... to get u naked and find out if your good in bed.. sorry if this offends you but, its the truth . although , to some men its about the power , to tohes its about the pure need for sex . either way we(guys ) want and need sex!! Yep... and the better head you give the longer you stay around... or if you don't talk too much, or call too much. Being freaky counts extra too. Thanks for being honest, guy.
But, but, but..... it's true! 
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Dedede.....duh.... to get u naked and find out if your good in bed.. sorry if this offends you but, its the truth . although , to some men its about the power , to tohes its about the pure need for sex . either way we(guys ) want and need sex!! Yep... and the better head you give the longer you stay around... or if you don't talk too much, or call too much. Being freaky counts extra too. Thanks for being honest, guy. I've never had a complaint in that area
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if a guy has a good anwser to that i want to know.
my ex did that. and i would love to understand why guys have to be an a** like that |
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Ok guys out there... This issue seems to be more prevalent about your sex then mine.. How or why would you date...become involved with a woman if you NEVER had any intention of really getting a serious relationship started with her? Why waste your time? Now, by that I DON'T MEAN that things happen, and feelings change, etc... But why become emotionally and physically involved with someone that you KNOW IN YOUR GUT, FROM THE START you will NOT STAY with??? Why do that? I never understood this about men.. Personally I don't think I would do that. Actually, truth be told, I've actually never been on a date so for personal experiences I have nothing to go off off. But, I have seen many of my friends who were in relationships that did that. From what I saw it was either the sex, fear of not getting into another relationship or simply because it was comfortable. Which sucks for both parties. |
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your relationship goals may be different than mine.....
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your relationship goals may be different than mine..... Isn't that discussed in the course of begining the relationship? Maybe it's me, but I ask alot of questions...maybe that's why I'm single... |
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Edited by
ddn122
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yes, it is ...usually...
but many women and men will not speak truthfully to each other and then wonder why it doesn't work out they way the "IMAGINED".... be authentic from the beginning and this scenario will be avoided.... for example; "You will not meet my kids and i will not marry you and make babies with you".... was the beginning of a 2 year rock solid relationship...... your relationship goals may be different than mine..... Isn't that discussed in the course of begining the relationship? Maybe it's me, but I ask alot of questions...maybe that's why I'm single... |
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Well if someone lies then there's not much you can do if you believe them. but if someone says "I don't want a serious relationship" then I have to decide if that is acceptable to me or not, and if it's not, then I say "thanks for your time" and hit the road. If it is, then I have to say to myself "this is what this is, and don't go getting any notions in your head about it being anything else."
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That's it exactly....
the truth will set you free........ Well if someone lies then there's not much you can do if you believe them. but if someone says "I don't want a serious relationship" then I have to decide if that is acceptable to me or not, and if it's not, then I say "thanks for your time" and hit the road. If it is, then I have to say to myself "this is what this is, and don't go getting any notions in your head about it being anything else." |
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this thread seems to be making me wish to join the convent.
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this thread seems to be making me wish to join the convent.
Really? You could brush up on freaky techniques instead!  
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this thread seems to be making me wish to join the convent.
Really? You could brush up on freaky techniques instead!
ill take all the advice i can get.. |
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i think this thread can enlighten people on the importance of honest communication with a potential mate or partner....
this thread seems to be making me wish to join the convent.
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Ok guys out there... This issue seems to be more prevalent about your sex then mine.. How or why would you date...become involved with a woman if you NEVER had any intention of really getting a serious relationship started with her? Why waste your time? Now, by that I DON'T MEAN that things happen, and feelings change, etc... But why become emotionally and physically involved with someone that you KNOW IN YOUR GUT, FROM THE START you will NOT STAY with??? Why do that? I never understood this about men.. thats easy many men just want to have sex so thats what they go for and they dont care for long term. that doesnt fit me but it fits most of my guy friends |
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