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Topic: Why do some men...
Amagurl Joined Tue 08/19/08 Posts: 752	Tue 08/19/08 11:09 AM
Let's be honest, even some women do this. It's just a matter of preferance. No more and no less. You just move on and let them look for who they want.

Mrtap Joined Thu 03/27/08 Posts: 1737	Tue 08/19/08 11:10 AM
think that a woman is out of their league by how she looks? Because Generally men know themselves better than ANY woman can. We know how we are, what we're interested in, and what we don't like. honestly when i look at a woman and say shes out of my league, its because I can pretty much read a person just by the way they act over a course of five minutes. We know which ones will give us the time of day, and which ones won't. What time is it Lily Are you out of my league . Wait I didnt know I had one, I just call them stuck up B##tchs I'm not out of your league per say, but I don't like some of your politics, so I wouldn't date you... but you'd make a great friend... Politics?, man I blew it I accept you as a friend. Guys can also be stuck up a##holes to.

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Tue 08/19/08 11:11 AM
Politics?, man I blew it I accept you as a friend. Guys can also be stuck up a##holes to. It's not gender specific trust me.....

Mrtap Joined Thu 03/27/08 Posts: 1737	Tue 08/19/08 11:13 AM
Politics?, man I blew it I accept you as a friend. Guys can also be stuck up a##holes to. It's not gender specific trust me..... fair enough.

lcjw Joined Thu 10/11/07 Posts: 8594	Tue 08/19/08 11:13 AM
think that a woman is out of their league by how she looks? Because Generally men know themselves better than ANY woman can. We know how we are, what we're interested in, and what we don't like. honestly when i look at a woman and say shes out of my league, its because I can pretty much read a person just by the way they act over a course of five minutes. We know which ones will give us the time of day, and which ones won't. which ones will give you the time of the day?

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Tue 08/19/08 11:15 AM
they are reincarnations of Nostradamus?

challengingmind Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 563	Tue 08/19/08 11:21 AM
how do you know if a woman won't give you the time of day if you don't go up and say hi

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Tue 08/19/08 11:23 AM
takes 7 seconds to make a first impression, so, pretty much sums it up,

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Tue 08/19/08 11:23 AM
how do you know if a woman won't give you the time of day if you don't go up and say hi What if you already know your shot down, ????

Mrtap Joined Thu 03/27/08 Posts: 1737	Tue 08/19/08 11:24 AM Edited by Mrtap on Tue 08/19/08 11:25 AM
We should not put poeple in leagues because you might miss out making a new friend at the worst you know alittle about that person. Hi what time is it?

challengingmind Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 563	Tue 08/19/08 11:29 AM
here's a scenerio....you see a pretty woman walking down the street with her kids...she looks up and sees you then turns her head towards her kids Just because a woman does this...doesnt mean she's giving you a brush off, it means she is paying attention to the kids incase they want to play in traffic.lol

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Tue 08/19/08 11:30 AM Edited by littleredhen on Tue 08/19/08 11:32 AM
I have observed that in a given social group, most men want the same few females, & they know that the competition for the "beautiful" women is going to be high, so the insecure men don't try, the think "she's out of my leauge". Instead they "settle" for someone they are not as attracted to & are forever dissatisfied with what they have, always hoping to "upgrade". They often whine that woman don't want a "niceguy" but they are referring to the few beautiful women that they are attracted to, not the average women. They don't notice "nice" either. The beautiful women are also very aware of the competion for them, & they don't have to be nice to men. They can hold out for the one that has the confidence to approach them & is willing to accept thier spoiled behavior in order to parade thier trophy around & keep the other men jealous. These beautiful women seem to be looking for upgrades also, the know thier beauty has a value. So to me the question is, do you want a life partner who values you, or do you want to compete forever to catch & hold a trophy?

kojack Joined Mon 12/25/06 Posts: 16382	Tue 08/19/08 11:30 AM
Because they have more money then Donald Trump

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Tue 08/19/08 11:33 AM
What snobs...only dating women in their league. I would not play on their league if they begged me to now. harrumph

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Tue 08/19/08 11:35 AM
What snobs...only dating women in their league. I would not play on their league if they begged me to now. harrumph I play in the "special" league, we paly ping pong and wear helmets....

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Tue 08/19/08 11:38 AM Edited by littleredhen on Tue 08/19/08 11:38 AM
Let's be honest, even some women do this. It's just a matter of preferance. No more and no less. You just move on and let them look for who they want. Yes women do it too. They seem to broaden the choices a bit more, until they see who the other females want, then the "popular" guy draws even more attention. The more unavailable a guy is the more popular he gets. I understand this even less than men's behavior. I guess I am just wired different.

sandradee1961 Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 1411	Tue 08/19/08 11:38 AM
I have observed that in a given social group, most men want the same few females, & they know that the competition for the "beautiful" women is going to be high, so the insecure men don't try, the think "she's out of my leauge". Instead they "settle" for someone they are not as attracted to & are forever dissatisfied with what they have, always hoping to "upgrade". They often whine that woman don't want a "niceguy" but they are referring to the few beautiful women that they are attracted to, not the average women. They don't notice "nice" either. The beautiful women are also very aware of the competion for them, & they don't have to be nice to men. They can hold out for the one that has the confidence to approach them & is willing to accept thier spoiled behavior in order to parade thier trophy around & keep the other men jealous. These beautiful women seem to be looking for upgrades also, the know thier beauty has a value. So to me the question is, do you want a life partner who values you, or do you want to compete forever to catch & hold a trophy? So, if a woman is considered beautiful, then she is beyond the reach of most men, not nice, and always looking to upgrade?

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Tue 08/19/08 11:42 AM
I have observed that in a given social group, most men want the same few females, & they know that the competition for the "beautiful" women is going to be high, so the insecure men don't try, the think "she's out of my leauge". Instead they "settle" for someone they are not as attracted to & are forever dissatisfied with what they have, always hoping to "upgrade". They often whine that woman don't want a "niceguy" but they are referring to the few beautiful women that they are attracted to, not the average women. They don't notice "nice" either. The beautiful women are also very aware of the competion for them, & they don't have to be nice to men. They can hold out for the one that has the confidence to approach them & is willing to accept thier spoiled behavior in order to parade thier trophy around & keep the other men jealous. These beautiful women seem to be looking for upgrades also, the know thier beauty has a value. So to me the question is, do you want a life partner who values you, or do you want to compete forever to catch & hold a trophy? So, if a woman is considered beautiful, then she is beyond the reach of most men, not nice, and always looking to upgrade? Yes I think so,IN MOST CASES because these women have so many options & been given a sense of entitlement. I think the same is true for the most desired men.

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Tue 08/19/08 11:44 AM
<---------------- has often gone out with the ones everyone else was afraid to ask!!

sandradee1961 Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 1411	Tue 08/19/08 11:47 AM
I have observed that in a given social group, most men want the same few females, & they know that the competition for the "beautiful" women is going to be high, so the insecure men don't try, the think "she's out of my leauge". Instead they "settle" for someone they are not as attracted to & are forever dissatisfied with what they have, always hoping to "upgrade". They often whine that woman don't want a "niceguy" but they are referring to the few beautiful women that they are attracted to, not the average women. They don't notice "nice" either. The beautiful women are also very aware of the competion for them, & they don't have to be nice to men. They can hold out for the one that has the confidence to approach them & is willing to accept thier spoiled behavior in order to parade thier trophy around & keep the other men jealous. These beautiful women seem to be looking for upgrades also, the know thier beauty has a value. So to me the question is, do you want a life partner who values you, or do you want to compete forever to catch & hold a trophy? So, if a woman is considered beautiful, then she is beyond the reach of most men, not nice, and always looking to upgrade? Yes I think so,IN MOST CASES because these women have so many options & been given a sense of entitlement. I think the same is true for the most desired men. I have always been considered beautiful, have been told all my life that I am, I have some beautiful friends as well. NONE of my friends are like that and I have never thought of myself as 'entitled'. I think I have just been insulted.