i'm getting married in 3 weeks and i'm happy but for some reason i keep having bad dreams every night that my fiance is hurt and killed...what's up with that

what you fear the most is often what you dream about, just your subconcious mind working through your fear.

stress

you are very anxious about committing to him
worried that it won't work out. you are a little scared.
his injury or death symbolizes your concern for the
relationship.

a little premarital counseling will likely ease
your fears. but it is normal to be a little anxious
before taking such a big step.

mirror that pic is too funny

sounds like dream life mimics the frets of waking time.
If so: Rethink positively. Procreate your dreams by positive feedback to yourself thru the waking time. Neural impulses travel the path of least resistance, where neurochemical synapses have the strongest or most frequent usage. Keep at it. See him in a rainbow, a wedding tux, or whatever, but control your mind as you like.
If not: Ignore this post.

it might represent how you feel about the opposite sex, perhaps you're afraid that he will hurt you not physically you know but mentally or maybe you're worried about having your heart crushed.

Then again maybe you've had someone die in your life and you're afraid of losing someone that may be that close to you again

or maybe you want to kill and hurt him ( its what freud would say)

or maybe you just seen a movie that had something to do with a dead guy and its coming in through your dreams... only you know about your dream and why you had it and the way you felt about the death.

damn...you're better then dr. phill

Deep down inside you have doubts, but you know the only way you cant do it is for him to die. Good luck. Please remember, you asked. Good Luck.

We want pre nub

with the divorce rate today people can't help but have doubts when it comes to marriage no matter how much you love the other person

i tottaly agree, i am madly in love with my beau but i'm worried i mean you really never know and with divorce rates being like they are the only thing you can do is hope so my advice is if you have money and or valuable possessions to get a pre nump. if not just go by your heart, and his... cause you know killah it takes 2 to stay married so make sure you go thim in line...

don't underestimate the power of the enemy

one of the best deceptive tricks he's ever pulled off

was to make others think he doesn't exist ...

he does exist...

but he doesn't have as much power
as he'd like us to believe he does...

I think that sometimes the enemy

uses our dreams to try and freak us out...

I don't like to give energy to bad dreams...

i refuse to think about them or talk about them...


there is power in words and in thought...

so don't give those sad thoughts or bad dreams any energy

maybe hes just looking for an easy way out?

that's not very nice

Consider the path you've chosen over the last year or so..... Perhaps it has proven arduous at times, maybe the fear of the road ahead produces anxiety. Also consider speed at which you travel it might lead to some answers. If the speed is enough to give you whiplash think about down shifting. Good luck.

I think it's natural to fear losing that which we love the most. But it can turn into a crippling anxiety if you've lost someone in your past that gives your fear legs. I would seek counseling to sound it out it that is the case. Some things are too big for us to deal with on our own and there is nothing wrong with talking to a professional about it.

True that!

I'd be having nightmares to, if i was getting married,