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Topic: your significant others phone
Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Tue 08/12/08 01:19 PM
Is laying on the counter beeping due to a missed text, Do you read it, ?! do you hit end so it will quit beeping ? or what do you do ?

becca777 Joined Tue 08/05/08 Posts: 2161	Tue 08/12/08 01:21 PM
i...tell him if he's not around i'd just stop it from beeping trust is a big thing in a relationship

Mayhem_J Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 14265	Tue 08/12/08 01:21 PM
You leave it be....thats an invasion of privacy. If you want to look at your sig others phone, ask them. If they have nothing to hide, they will show you.

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Tue 08/12/08 01:21 PM
throw it in the toilet

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Tue 08/12/08 01:21 PM
I hand him the phone and tell him that he has a text message.

plk1966 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 31042	Tue 08/12/08 01:21 PM
Ok I would ignore it. It is not my phone and therefore none of my business. Reading it would not only be dishonest but not very trustworthy either.

merlin2525 Joined Sun 06/17/07 Posts: 2819	Tue 08/12/08 01:21 PM
She could read mine. So I should be able to read hers

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 08/12/08 01:22 PM
Is laying on the counter beeping due to a missed text, Do you read it, ?! do you hit end so it will quit beeping ? or what do you do ? I take notice of it but I dont look at least not where she will know about it.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 08/12/08 01:23 PM
I would have no need to read it.

izzie Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 31834	Tue 08/12/08 01:23 PM
She could read mine. So I should be able to read hers

SuzinVA Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 28730	Tue 08/12/08 01:23 PM
Have had that happen, I either give it to him if he's around or let him know when he gets back that he has a message (it does stop beeping on its own, you know). I would NEVER check his messages without his express say so, and I expect the same courtesy.

moonlight_ride62 Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 4414	Tue 08/12/08 01:24 PM
I don't even read my kids messages or go through their room or book bags or emails...they have done nothing to make me distrust them so therefor there is no reason for me to do so if I had someone...

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Tue 08/12/08 01:25 PM
Is laying on the counter beeping due to a missed text, Do you read it, ?! do you hit end so it will quit beeping ? or what do you do ? Wait until after they check it, then look, and see who it was

Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4485	Tue 08/12/08 01:26 PM Edited by Jules0565 on Tue 08/12/08 01:30 PM
I'd have nothing to hide, so he could read it and tell me what it said .. perhaps let me know I had to call someone back right away.. it's no biggy to me if he reads it. His I would ignore.... he'll see he has a message soon enough.

Dragoness Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 23320	Tue 08/12/08 01:27 PM
Ignore it and let them know that the thing is beeping after they are unbusy or whatever caused them to not answer it.

bgeorge Joined Fri 09/14/07 Posts: 7850	Tue 08/12/08 01:29 PM
throw it against the wall, cuz he has an annoying tone

goofyyankee06 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 93	Tue 08/12/08 01:29 PM
i would ignore it and take care of the beep.

LadyOfMagic Joined Fri 09/29/06 Posts: 4957	Tue 08/12/08 01:32 PM
I had a boyfriend that flat-out handed me his phone to check it for numbers,txts etc. I didn't do it because I loved him and wanted to show him I trusted him..not a month later he was gone..The next time I'm checkin that sucker.

faithfullguy31 Joined Sat 06/21/08 Posts: 217	Tue 08/12/08 01:40 PM
I would ignor it. If it was my phone I wouldn't care if some one looked or not. I have nothing to hide and i get some pretty good jokes from friends..

BeautifulMommaOf3 Joined Sat 08/09/08 Posts: 158	Tue 08/12/08 01:50 PM
If there hadn't already have been any violations of trust - I would just ignore it.