I have come to the conclusion I am not wanting a deep, meaningful long term relationship what I want is a cuddle buddy and not a booty call.

I am the kind of guy that likes/needs to have feelings for the girl I am sleeping with and having sexual relationship with, hence negating a booty call.

See I like being signal but when it comes to bed time it sucks.

A cuddle buddy is some you care about, be exclusive with but they are just there at night.

Day time lives don't really intertwine. I don't care what she does for a living, how many hours she works, how much money she has, how much she travels or to meet your kids and I don't want her meeting mine.

I don't want anybody tell me how to live my life, judging me, inflecting her insecurities on me or trying to be my mom.

Cuddle buddy is someone you respect, know and feel safe with and if you are lucky maybe even like.

A booty call has none of these qualites...

So Am I crazy, I am in some illusion and just fooling myself or is this a possibility?

Uhh.. let me know what pops "up" after that first "cuddle"

Hmm not sure I could sleep with somebody that I did not have feelings for. Maybe a friend to cuddle with while watching a movie or something, Or to cuddle with while just shooting the sh1t. But do not think I could do the whole night thing. But hey that is just me.

I think something might pop up right before the cuddle

That's why I have a dog.

Well then here comes the blue balls.

Huuhuhuhhuhhu He said Booty Huhuhuhu

You just haven't met the right one! What if she was hella cool & just let you be you no nagging & she made you happy all the time?

I have a great life but every time I try a relationship they inject themselves to far, too deep and too quick into my life.

Again the difference between a cuddle buddy and booty call is a booty call really don't work for me. A cuddle buddy you care about, your exclusive with and you even like...You spend time getting to know each other first but you don't let them into you day life.

Well to me that's just lik a Booty call & it would not work for mE then it would be your loss! Sometimes someone can add to your LIFE

That would be way cool but I have not found that or anything close.


i guess I want my cake and eat it too. However this is beneficial for both parties as she does not have to answer to a man. She lives her day life with out interference and has someone there at night....

I have not found that in anyway but that may say more about me than any women I have been with.

A booty call is just sex. A cuddle buddy is someone you are safe with, you are exclusively sexually involved with and you hold each other and meet more emotional needs than just sexual ones......Big difference between a Booty call and a cuddle buddy.

deff not crazy...sounds like a good idea to me

Well if that works for you........that's a good thing! However my Man will look forward to coming home to mE ...he will miss my smell, my touch, my cooking, he won't be able to survive without mE! Haven't found him yet but, i'm working on iT!

iRon if you care and you're exclusive right there "sh^t" is gonna start.. Caring and exclusive do not go with "no committment and no bs" I mean maybe 1 in every 100 but banking on booty calls having less committment... jmho

ah see a man who knows what a women wants lol. I dont want to answer to a man, just want him more as a friend that has sum "special" things that a reg friend does not get. you have a great idea

Hmmmmmmmmm a cuddle buddy???? I dont know about you but if Im lying in bed cuddling.....I think the clothes would come off eventually and all sorts of dirty bad things could happen

Thanks.......



See a A booty call as condition's of disrespect. Some guy or girl who is drunk and just failed at bar and as a last ditch effort come knocking on your door after bar time looking to get laid.

A cuddle buddies would know when they are going to get together, it would be done sober unless you two got drunk together. Cuddle Buddies have conditions of respect and even caring. But the next day their life is their life without interference form anybody.

Good luck asking someone to be exclusive with you and and also telling them that they can't meet your kids, and you don't want to meet theirs...

Of course clothes would come off....I am a guy cuddling involves sex and lots of it.....Unless she just needs to be held....