I guess he didnt know that cuddle buddies do ALOT of peanut butter toast!!

Wait...RULES???

Rules yeah rules all relationships have rules spoken or unspoken so while you are doing this I don't get and within the rules we all have our own rules.

Booty call rules are far less than that of cuddle buddy rules.

Booty call rules are far more disrespectful, any time you are striking out at the bar you show up unannounced and see what you can get there.

Cuddle buddy rules are are far more respectful and have order, you know when you are going to be together and if one needs the other you can talk about it but right of refusal excite for both and there a few more.

The rule I speak of is I keep finding that women want to interject themselves in to my day life. My work, my family, my time with my friends and my alone time.

If I have one more woman ask me "What are you thinking about?" I am jumping off the nearest bridge and yes woman in their 40s still ask this question?????????? By 40 you would think you would know the answer to this question.

To be clear, we think about nothing and if we are thinking about something it's boobs or a sandwich. OK so we have never ask a guy this question again.....

I'm quite amazed that you're even thinking finding a "cuddle buddy" is possible.. Obviously it hasn't worked to this point, which tells me that you don't get women at all...

So now your just going to mean and nasty....good for you

That wasn't mean and nasty at all.. I was just making a statement... It's going to be a RARE case that you find what you're looking for... Most women want relationships, very few don't that is why they keep trying to interject theirselves into your life...

Hummmmmmmmm sounds like to me your trying to steal Mikey's Blow up doll for the only thing you did not mention is that it did not talk.

But you might have a hard time getting it away from Mikey

Definition of insanity: Doing the same thing over and over expecting different results.
Bless your heart, you really did try to educate, but this may be a lost cause.

And to the OP: You want her to take care of your emotional needs but you don't want her in your life? How's that going to work?

See that is intelligent and real, thank you. And it is what I keep finding.......The issue not about women here its about me. I have a great life and hope to find someone some day to share it with. I can get women but they just keep doing what you said, wanting a relationship.

A lot of this comes for protection of my children. I have custody of daughters and about a month I had this lady go out of her way to meet my children against my wishes. Since then I do not a relationship...and that is where all this is coming form.

My girls are 16 and 17 they will be off to college soon I guess I will just wait till then

Okay on a more serious note here for I do understand what your saying. For in reality I had what your looking for while my kids were growing up. I posted this today in another thread just to show you I really do understand and yes that is more or less what I wanted at the time also. So here it is:

SUCH a GREAT deal!

Thank you1!!!!! I maybe crazy and want too much or something that only happens to a few. When comes to my children who I have raised for the last 15 years on my own they are my priority..

But I am just to damn good in the bedroom to let that go to waste

I am a parent and that has always taken priority but but I am a man, a human and letting all this go to waste is just wrong

Peace all

I do understand I felt the same way I did love the guy and he loved me maybe it was a wierd love but neither less it satisfied what we were both looking for.

I raised my kids for 16 years on my own. Yes I paid my own bills ect.. Him and I went out and did things together and we went at times as a group. But he had his place I had mine sure he helped me with repairs ect... But then I did the same for him heck even helped him do his yard work.

But we were not together 24/7 he did his thing I did mine no asking can I go we did what we wanted to. The only difference we did not date anyone else at all. But we did not clinge to each other either.

Some nights we stayed at my place sometimes at his all depended on where my kids were. My kids respected him and he was good to them as I got along with his.

But due to the fact we did not live with each other the kids did not feel as if they were being put second for they came first on both of our parts.

It might have been strange to some but if you have ever been raised with a step parent or just a live in that was not pleasant it would be hard for one to understand why I went the route I did.

It was tough but... would I do it all over again sure I would. Maybe in the long run I lost out and maybe that is why I'm alone now. But I felt that was best for my kids.

They are grown now 23 & 25 both are doing good with good jobs and both are very stable and happy and on top of that we are very close. That in its self is worth giving up some of my time for.

Now I have all the time I need to be with someone just have to find them first lol

Seriously?

iRon.....I think you have been so seriously screwed over that this is what you are allowing yourself. If you find someone like that who will put up with it, then fine but I doubt it very much.

Why not just buy a hooker? No emotional ties and you get what you want and she can go home!