Topic: Baggage
MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 08/10/08 01:39 PM
:smile: Do you bring baggage into your new relationships or do you try to get your life in order before you get together with someone else?:smile:

no photo
Sun 08/10/08 01:42 PM
what life? laugh

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Sun 08/10/08 01:43 PM
laugh What baggage???

dawnyhi's photo
Sun 08/10/08 01:43 PM
i dunno i have tons of counselors working on me and doctors and a team of psycologists and some witch doctors hired specifically to draw out demons...

but my dating life seems ok so far...

SweetDonnita's photo
Sun 08/10/08 01:44 PM
You should always have your life in order even before you get into a relationship. We have some baggage on us, but the best thing to do is leave that baggage out of your relationship and just learn from the past and those mistakes.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 08/10/08 01:44 PM

You should always have your life in order even before you get into a relationship. We have some baggage on us, but the best thing to do is leave that baggage out of your relationship and just learn from the past and those mistakes.
flowerforyou good adviceflowerforyou

missy51970's photo
Sun 08/10/08 01:45 PM
I try to keep the baggage at a minimum,,,

iRon's photo
Sun 08/10/08 01:45 PM
Life in order


but WARNING Baggage has a way of unpacking itself no matter how much order you have applied to it.....

mcattygarnett's photo
Sun 08/10/08 01:47 PM

Life in order


but WARNING Baggage has a way of unpacking itself no matter how much order you have applied to it.....

I would like to think I have my life in order, but I do agree with you on this.

dawnyhi's photo
Sun 08/10/08 01:54 PM


Life in order


but WARNING Baggage has a way of unpacking itself no matter how much order you have applied to it.....

I would like to think I have my life in order, but I do agree with you on this.



yeah how can ya think you have to be perfect to be able to date...i mean you'd be waiting for ever no one is perfect

and what a boring person that would be eh???

Queene123's photo
Sun 08/10/08 01:56 PM

:smile: Do you bring baggage into your new relationships or do you try to get your life in order before you get together with someone else?:smile:


would some of the baggage have anything to do with your health, and if so you cant change that really..

littleike's photo
Sun 08/10/08 02:05 PM


Life in order


but WARNING Baggage has a way of unpacking itself no matter how much order you have applied to it.....

I would like to think I have my life in order, but I do agree with you on this.
yes it does

iRon's photo
Sun 08/10/08 02:13 PM



Life in order


but WARNING Baggage has a way of unpacking itself no matter how much order you have applied to it.....

I would like to think I have my life in order, but I do agree with you on this.



yeah how can ya think you have to be perfect to be able to date...i mean you'd be waiting for ever no one is perfect

and what a boring person that would be eh???



Dating and being around someone can and has brought out that which I thought was packed away......

There are things that happen in all relationships and our past determines how we will act......For me I was fortunate to see that it was my past making act and feel the way I was and not the present.....Once I realize why I was acting the way I was, I was then able to repack it way for some other day...... hehhhhehehehee

galendgirl's photo
Sun 08/10/08 02:15 PM
At a certain point in life EVERYONE has baggage...whether you've dealt with it or not, please check it at the relationship door as best as you can!

justme659's photo
Sun 08/10/08 02:18 PM
I have samsonite bags, i need them to haul my clothes. Other than that they are neatly arranged in a closet nestled together. slaphead laugh

In other words, I have lived life and will continue to do so. I also have learned from life, so it goes with me.