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My ex wanted me to change, but his was more of a control thing. That's why he's my ex, lol. You shouldn't have to change for anyone, but I will say that if they were to make suggestions on how to better my life, like maybe quitting a bad habit like smoking (I don't smoke, just using it as an example), or eating healthier, things like that, I don't think I would be offended by them asking that kind of change. |
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Edited by
ArtGurl
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Sun 08/10/08 09:11 AM
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oh gawd .... ummmm .... if it feels like work - it is ....
and yeah .... what s1ow said .... except the bikini part ... just say no to speedos 
Morning (((s1ow))) 
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Edited by
MsTeddyBear2u
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Sun 08/10/08 09:13 AM
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No one should have to change themselves for anyone. 
They should love you for who you are. 
Does'nt sound like perfection to me... 
{{{LOM}}}
(((((((((((((((MsTeddy))))))))))) How you doin' darlin' What did I do now? 
I'm over here LMAO at some of these posts!
Hope you are enjoying your day! 
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Edited by
Krimsa
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Sun 08/10/08 09:15 AM
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It depends what they are asking you to change exactly? Is it something that is within your ability to change? Say you smoke cigarettes or weed and they want you to give that up because it’s bad for your health and illegal (in the case of the drug.)
This is one thing. It seems they care about you and want to pursue the relationship and have you around a little longer and not dead, suffering from lung cancer, or in prison. If it’s just a bunch of nonsense and things you can’t change, seeya. |
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i'm who i am--and any disagrees, then let's just move on--
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if they were the PERFECT girl for me than they wouldn't be asking for any changes...obviously not so perfect.... |
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It depends what they are asking you to change exactly? Is it something that is within your ability to change? Say you smoke cigarettes or weed and they want you to give that up because it’s bad for your health and illegal (in the case of the drug.) This is one thing. It seems they care about you want to pursue the relationship and have you around a little longer and not dead, suffering from lung cancer, or in prison. If it’s just a bunch of nonsense and things you can’t change, seeya. Well..I have friends that lived a certain lifestyle until they married their hubbys..Their way of life isn't hurting anyone..matter of fact it was helping many until their fool hubbys stepped in. |
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obviously the word perfect has several meanings if perfect isnt perfect that that would make it imperfect..jmo
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oh gawd .... ummmm .... if it feels like work - it is .... and yeah .... what s1ow said .... except the bikini part ... just say no to speedos
Morning (((s1ow)))
haven't you been watching the olympics?
interact, meet people, loosen up...you know all the unusual stuff. if that doesn't work, become a pool guy, cabana boy, or international financier. hey what happened to my Zen?!! (((AG)))
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It depends what they are asking you to change exactly? Is it something that is within your ability to change? Say you smoke cigarettes or weed and they want you to give that up because it’s bad for your health and illegal (in the case of the drug.) This is one thing. It seems they care about you want to pursue the relationship and have you around a little longer and not dead, suffering from lung cancer, or in prison. If it’s just a bunch of nonsense and things you can’t change, seeya. Well..I have friends that lived a certain lifestyle until they married their hubbys..Their way of life isn't hurting anyone..matter of fact it was helping many until their fool hubbys stepped in. Yes but my point was I can UNDERSTAND why someone may want you to make a change like that and it may not necessarily be for a bad reason. It could be to actually help and create a better environment or situation for the future. |
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It depends what they are asking you to change exactly? Is it something that is within your ability to change? Say you smoke cigarettes or weed and they want you to give that up because it’s bad for your health and illegal (in the case of the drug.) This is one thing. It seems they care about you want to pursue the relationship and have you around a little longer and not dead, suffering from lung cancer, or in prison. If it’s just a bunch of nonsense and things you can’t change, seeya. Well..I have friends that lived a certain lifestyle until they married their hubbys..Their way of life isn't hurting anyone..matter of fact it was helping many until their fool hubbys stepped in. |
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obviously the word perfect has several meanings if perfect isnt perfect that that would make it imperfect..jmo Well thats kinda why I said perfect for YOU..each person has their own version of perfect.. |
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Nope
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It depends what they are asking you to change exactly? Is it something that is within your ability to change? Say you smoke cigarettes or weed and they want you to give that up because it’s bad for your health and illegal (in the case of the drug.) This is one thing. It seems they care about you want to pursue the relationship and have you around a little longer and not dead, suffering from lung cancer, or in prison. If it’s just a bunch of nonsense and things you can’t change, seeya. Well..I have friends that lived a certain lifestyle until they married their hubbys..Their way of life isn't hurting anyone..matter of fact it was helping many until their fool hubbys stepped in. Any person that tells another "I love you but if you would just change this or that for me I'd love you more"..IS a fool. |
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oh gawd .... ummmm .... if it feels like work - it is .... and yeah .... what s1ow said .... except the bikini part ... just say no to speedos
Morning (((s1ow)))
haven't you been watching the olympics?
interact, meet people, loosen up...you know all the unusual stuff. if that doesn't work, become a pool guy, cabana boy, or international financier. hey what happened to my Zen?!! (((AG)))
I don't own a television so no I've been missing all the speedos
I am far too busy anyway ... packing and re-packing the same suitcase you know
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I would be willing to change some things. I've never met anyone perfect for me: we would both have to be perfect and that's . . . well, you know. However, if change made the fit better, it's certainly a consideration. Of course, if one were to tell me I HAD to change, that would be the end of that. Change as my choice for a more effective (pleasurable) relationship - fine. Change for you? Probably not.
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i take the word love as a whole in itself how can you love some one more ...a quandry i suppose..
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people underestimate the necessity to change yourself and overestimate the importance of never changing for anything/anyone
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Guys have asked me to change the most stupid things..or asked me when I expect them to change themselves..I've always said.."well I'm bout to get a big change in my life right now..I wasn't single before this conversation but I will be by the end of it"
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people underestimate the necessity to change yourself and overestimate the importance of never changing for anything/anyone |
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