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Is this young lady going to college, if so maybe the mother doesn't want her to get attached to you only to get heartbroken when she leaves for school.
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For 1.Seriously A WEEK, it takes me about a week to get a special cake order, can u really be that IN LOVE in a week? And 2.She's only 19, she needs to be dating and seeing whats out there not being in a committed relartionship, shes too young for that, especially still living with mom and dad. She should get a chance to be an adult, live on her own while single, not going from mom and dad house to living with a man. Too much too soon, but ur young too, u should be doing the same & that is the reason her mom doesnt want her dating u. Good Luck. we have both been there done that and ended up back home so that doesnt work.... |
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I went through some what the same thing with my ex and her parents, we ended up getting married and 23 yrs later she walks out on me. BTW her parents think im TOPS and I miss them dearly. Might be her mom thinks your rushing in to it, or your driving a Van lol nope i drive a scion xb(i know im nerdy) |
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Is this young lady going to college, if so maybe the mother doesn't want her to get attached to you only to get heartbroken when she leaves for school. yea she is going to colege but its in the area. and i wouldnt break her heart she is too sweet |
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For 1.Seriously A WEEK, it takes me about a week to get a special cake order, can u really be that IN LOVE in a week? And 2.She's only 19, she needs to be dating and seeing whats out there not being in a committed relartionship, shes too young for that, especially still living with mom and dad. She should get a chance to be an adult, live on her own while single, not going from mom and dad house to living with a man. Too much too soon, but ur young too, u should be doing the same & that is the reason her mom doesnt want her dating u. Good Luck. we have both been there done that and ended up back home so that doesnt work.... Well, sounds like you've got your mind set on trying to keep it going, even though odds are against you. Good lucks, I guess. |
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Look , if she was in to you like you are in to her she would find a way to see you. Sounds like she is using her mom as an excuse.
Do they have money and you don't-do you have a job? It could be a lot of things. Hell just ask her mother why. Its best to get it out in the open. What ever the reason do not..I repeat do not obsess about this girl!!!!There are a lot of women in the world looking for good descent men ...just go to PLENTY OF FISH.COM and you will see. |
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For 1.Seriously A WEEK, it takes me about a week to get a special cake order, can u really be that IN LOVE in a week? And 2.She's only 19, she needs to be dating and seeing whats out there not being in a committed relartionship, shes too young for that, especially still living with mom and dad. She should get a chance to be an adult, live on her own while single, not going from mom and dad house to living with a man. Too much too soon, but ur young too, u should be doing the same & that is the reason her mom doesnt want her dating u. Good Luck. we have both been there done that and ended up back home so that doesnt work.... Well, sounds like you've got your mind set on trying to keep it going, even though odds are against you. Good lucks, I guess. well i have fought worse odds and won. thanks for the luck i may need it |
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Look , if she was in to you like you are in to her she would find a way to see you. Sounds like she is using her mom as an excuse. Do they have money and you don't-do you have a job? It could be a lot of things. Hell just ask her mother why. Its best to get it out in the open. What ever the reason do not..I repeat do not obsess about this girl!!!!There are a lot of women in the world looking for good descent men ...just go to PLENTY OF FISH.COM and you will see. actually it seems like the oposite... i have a good paying job and i come from money.... and i cant talk to her mom she wont talk to me.... i didnt think i was obsessing i do want things to work between me and her tho |
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I DIDN'T SAY YOU WERE OBSESSING BUT IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU GOT REALLY ATTACHED IN A SHORT PERIOD OF TIME. If her mom wont talk then the hell with it all. Do yourself a favor and hang out with other girls. Go on a few dates my man..Keep it friendly. I know you will be thinking of her but try to enjoy the company of other ladies. If you do date around do not bring up this girl. Its disrespectful and it makes you look weak to women.
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I DIDN'T SAY YOU WERE OBSESSING BUT IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU GOT REALLY ATTACHED IN A SHORT PERIOD OF TIME. If her mom wont talk then the hell with it all. Do yourself a favor and hang out with other girls. Go on a few dates my man..Keep it friendly. I know you will be thinking of her but try to enjoy the company of other ladies. If you do date around do not bring up this girl. Its disrespectful and it makes you look weak to women. yea i got realy attached quickly. so your just saying that i should keep my options open? ill think about it. i only mention my past girlfriends when im asked about them which seems to be all the time. why do women always ask "why are you single?" |
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I would be extremely leery of a guy that got emotionally attached to my daughter in a week. Can you say "future stalker"?
But I wouldn't have to tell my daughter to stop seeing him because the instant attachment thing would creep her out and she would kick him to the curb. It takes months to get to know someone long enough to really tell if you have a future together. YOu can't learn much in a week. It's just fantasy. |
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I would be extremely leery of a guy that got emotionally attached to my daughter in a week. Can you say "future stalker"? But I wouldn't have to tell my daughter to stop seeing him because the instant attachment thing would creep her out and she would kick him to the curb. It takes months to get to know someone long enough to really tell if you have a future together. YOu can't learn much in a week. It's just fantasy. we have been talking for months tho we just started dateing in person for a week. i didnt think that i was being attached too soon |
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Because they want to find out if your a mental case that stalks women. Women try to read between our lines. Your response to their questions tells them "emotionally" if you are a danger.
Example: Q. "why are you single?" A. "Because My last girl friend wanted some space" Woman mind:"I need space is code for : He might suck in bed so she started screwing some other guy or He must have done something to drive her away; like maybe emotionally smothering her etc. See women have a series of seemingly innocent questions that they will casually drop into conversation to get a lock on who you might be (they are very good at this). I don't know if you have ever taken a physiological exam or not but the test ask you the same questions over and over again in different ways to see if your lying. Most women do the same thing. |
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Because they want to find out if your a mental case that stalks women. Women try to read between our lines. Your response to their questions tells them "emotionally" if you are a danger. Example: Q. "why are you single?" A. "Because My last girl friend wanted some space" Woman mind:"I need space is code for : He might suck in bed so she started screwing some other guy or He must have done something to drive her away; like maybe emotionally smothering her etc. See women have a series of seemingly innocent questions that they will casually drop into conversation to get a lock on who you might be (they are very good at this). I don't know if you have ever taken a physiological exam or not but the test ask you the same questions over and over again in different ways to see if your lying. Most women do the same thing. oh ok well i dont know what they get out of my stories then because mine are just strange. |
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Ok, what the hell does strange mean? Women do not like strange. Strike that!!!! Some women send love letters to Charlie Manson and use to send them to Jeffrey dullmer in prison...so very few like strange.
What I mean is some women like sexy strange but most do not like missing persons strange. If you like freaky Goth chicks and S&M that's your thing but this girl you like she no like so much strange ..me Thinks. |
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As a mother I would be very concerned if my daughter were to become SO involved SO quickly.
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Ok, what the hell does strange mean? Women do not like strange. Strike that!!!! Some women send love letters to Charlie Manson and use to send them to Jeffrey dullmer in prison...so very few like strange. What I mean is some women like sexy strange but most do not like missing persons strange. If you like freaky Goth chicks and S&M that's your thing but this girl you like she no like so much strange ..me Thinks. 
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Ok, what the hell does strange mean? Women do not like strange. Strike that!!!! Some women send love letters to Charlie Manson and use to send them to Jeffrey dullmer in prison...so very few like strange. What I mean is some women like sexy strange but most do not like missing persons strange. If you like freaky Goth chicks and S&M that's your thing but this girl you like she no like so much strange ..me Thinks. lol by strang i mean like my last ex left me because i was.... well she said that she couldnt date someone who wanted to be in law enforcement. thats what i meant by strange |
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let her go. you can't make someone want to be with you.
if she really decides she has to be with you believe me, it will happen. if not, you cannot happily be with her. |
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Edited by
hinkypoepoe
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Sun 08/10/08 08:10 AM
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Ok, so she was afraid of you getting your a$$ shot off and becoming a widow... Or she had a problem with authority who knows? Cops have a lot of stress , well big city cops do, not small town meter maids.
Some drink ,some beat their wives,I have known a few who have cheated on their husband/wives. Cops have groupies yah know..Its true. Some get indicted by the feds for helping the mayor of Detroit hide dead prostitutes body's. |
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