But why when somone ask a question, most are really quick to jump on the negative aspect of the question. Knowing you don't know the whole story and knowing there is 3 parts to it.


Yours, there's and the truth.

I was just readin a post and everyone just about that responed to it. had it in there head, there cheating, i' mean wth is most people on this site that messed up that they think what ever happens, it has to be cheating?

yup...theres no reason for a man to be sitting on the computer talking to a woman when hes got one living with him

We like to be negative

I agree with you on this one

What do you think he would be talking about with this other woman anyhow??? When to plant flowers???

Sorry, but i have all kinds of women friends on this site. Am i going to stop talking to them because of one woman in my life. Hell No! my friends were here first and if they can't except that. Move on. Don't have time for people that are stuck in there past relationships.

I agree with you . We don't know the whole story, we don't even know their relationship. She said they're close, not a couple...she needs to clarify that first of all to see if she even has a right to be angry..know what i mean?

hmmm...then I guess your in the wrong place

If it has a tongue and tail that wag. If it has four legs, paws and barks. It just might be a dog! One calls then as they see them.

Hows that?

So shadow...you have a woman/girlfriend who you live with???

My ex that had my son, that lived with me for a few months new and seen me talking to my lady friends. I have nothing to hide, so whats the big deal?

Shadow...that is why I asked a very general question when I posted the topic. I didn't say it happened to me...I left it open even as if it was me who did it. And specifically said that I didn't know what the conversation was...again, helping people to honestly determine how they might feel. I wanted to hear honest opinions...knowing that everyones might be different. But I was interested to see how the majority would "feel". You are entitled to your opinion and so is everyone else. I wouldn't trouble yourself in getting upset about it. Life is too short, really.

bro...I like ya and all but wow If your in a relationship with someone and there living with you...you shouldn't be on the computer talking to others...its never right...99% of the time, its no good

Thank you I know it was a general question, but what i was triping on, is how many are so quick to say there cheatin.


Oh, one thing you will get to know about me if you get to know me. I don't get mad on here when asking questions. They may seem really serious and most will take it that way, but there not. I just like to explore people and see what there opinions might be and how they express it.

So I'm suppose to tell everyone that is my friend, i can't talk to you anymore because i'm in a relationship? Thats like saying you have to get rid of all your friends that live in your area that you hang out with. That to me sounds kinda NUTS!

he might want her to plant tulips

Wow, I have to totally disagree with you on that one E. Any person that expects their SO to give up their friends because they are together has either got some control issues or jealousy issues. And if a guy told me to do that, he'd be gone in a heartbeat. I don't give up my friends for anyone.