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i usually find a boyfriend before i break up with the one im dating haha jk True that. w/ out the joking cause that's the way you chicks roll! Bullsh*t I agree, Bullsh*t.... In MY experiences.. women need time to heal.. men need another body to forget! after 2 major breakups.. I didn't date for 1yr and then 1.5yrs. |
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i usually find a boyfriend before i break up with the one im dating haha jk True that. w/ out the joking cause that's the way you chicks roll! Bullsh*t I agree, Bullsh*t.... In MY experiences.. women need time to heal.. men need another body to forget! after 2 major breakups.. I didn't date for 1yr and then 1.5yrs. You have a valid point.. although, I've seen both sexes set up a new one before they leave the old one.. I have a problem with that... I don't want anyone that isn't ok with who they are... |
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when im ready again who knows might be awhile . i ust got out of a relationship recently that i gave my all in so probobly might be about a yr.
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iT IS NOT SOMETHING I WILL SET....MAYBE YOU MEET THE RIGHT PERSON THE SAME DAY, MAYBE SITUATIONS ARE CARRYING YOU STRAIGHT TO THAT PERSON, LIFE CAN BE UNPREDICTABLE.
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i usually find a boyfriend before i break up with the one im dating haha jk True that. w/ out the joking cause that's the way you chicks roll! i know im baaad 
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however fast speed-dial works...
Nahhhh, J/K!! Ciao! L |
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  however long it takes you to down a six pack
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It depends on the length of the relationship that was broken. If it was a short relationship then the next day if it was for several years then I'd say at least a year.
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Well, it was about 8 months after my marriage ended to start putting myself out there.
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With me personally it took at least 6 months before I would allow myself to be open to the possibility of being in a relationship again. But "dating" is another thing entirely. I would go on dates. Meet new people, etc. It was something to fill up my time too.
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 After a break-up, how long do you wait before dating again?
Depends...Am I in the bar/niteclub when this happens? |
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Well, it was about 8 months after my marriage ended to start putting myself out there. It's been about 10 months for me and even though I've put myself out there, I'm still a little gun shy.... 
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i usually find a boyfriend before i break up with the one im dating haha jk True that. w/ out the joking cause that's the way you chicks roll! Bullsh*t I agree, Bullsh*t.... In MY experiences.. women need time to heal.. men need another body to forget! after 2 major breakups.. I didn't date for 1yr and then 1.5yrs. AMEN to that... It's the men that can't seem to be alone. I was with my ex husband for almost 10 years, I waited about a year after we split, he had a new gf in about 3 months. I dated a guy for a year and a half, I waited about a year. He had a new gf in 2 weeks. I dated a guy for 6 months, I've been single for about a year, he started dating someone in about a week. The funny part is all these guys have come crawling back at one time or another, and because they jumped so quickly I wouldn't take them back.... If they hadn't done that I probably would have taken them back. (Well 2 of the 3 at least) |
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I will start again once I am TRULY apathetic about the ex. No sooner....
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I waited 15 months after my divorce to throw myself to the wolves again...My ex husband had a girlfriend and was married in the span of 10 months after our divorce...
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I waited 15 months after my divorce to throw myself to the wolves again...My ex husband had a girlfriend and was married in the span of 10 months after our divorce... Yep... mine started with her while we were married, impregnated her three weeks after he left me, and they were married a month after our divorce was final. Stupid thing is still with him, too. Five years later.... 
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there is no specific amount of time, we all do things as we see fit. It all depends on the individual not the circumstance.
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i usually find a boyfriend before i break up with the one im dating haha jk True that. w/ out the joking cause that's the way you chicks roll! Bullsh*t I agree, Bullsh*t.... In MY experiences.. women need time to heal.. men need another body to forget! after 2 major breakups.. I didn't date for 1yr and then 1.5yrs. AMEN to that... It's the men that can't seem to be alone. I was with my ex husband for almost 10 years, I waited about a year after we split, he had a new gf in about 3 months. I dated a guy for a year and a half, I waited about a year. He had a new gf in 2 weeks. I dated a guy for 6 months, I've been single for about a year, he started dating someone in about a week. The funny part is all these guys have come crawling back at one time or another, and because they jumped so quickly I wouldn't take them back.... If they hadn't done that I probably would have taken them back. (Well 2 of the 3 at least) well sorry BUT I must voice my humble opinion on this one ... I disagree that GUYS cannot be alone ..after MY EX kicked me to the curb SHE already had a replacement unit on the hook AND I had no idea , thats how much I trusted her ... So to say that one sex cannot be alone with out another " in the wings " , is kinda unfair ya know ??.. 
JMO, and thanks for listening .. we now return to our regular men-bashing station  
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Humm no set time it has been from 1 month to 2 years so all depends what happens how it happens and whom I meet.
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 seems 2 discussions are going on.
How soon to date for fun after breaking up? How soon to search for a new mate? I think that socializing is good for healing. There are always people waiting for a chance to just scr*w your brains out as soon as you're available, but that isn't dating. |
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