I have a question for ya'll to answer... How do u say u love someone and they dont believe u!!!!!!!!! And then u find out that they doubted u from the beginning..How would u react, here is the story and any feedback would be great...OK here it goes.

My girlfriend was on the computer today, she found that i had put another profile up on POF,Plenty of Fish.com. I didn't change the password, but i came into find her pulling it back up and asking me why i opened another account. I had already closed it just a week before. I had not really believed her when she said she loved me. So lets just say that i broke her heart and it was written all over her face. Behind the tears and madness the only thing she was mad about was the title and it said "LOOKING FOR WOMEN FOR LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP" I should have never doubted her but because of past relationships i have been blind or just plain stupid to see that she cares and loves me for me!!!!!!!!! So to make a plain statement it would say I SCREWED UP BIG! Would anyone like to comment on my behavior over fallin in love and afraid of the feelings i have for her.....Ok so to be real,I like to know ,How should I fix the FFFUUUCCCKKK Up I did,,It hurts me to know I broke Her Heart The Way I Did,I never want her nor I to feel this way again...So is there anyway to feel or to forgive the one that did the wrong,it's the fact I messed up bad,and I want her as my only lady in my life,and to beable to see her as my wife.She means the world to me,,and I have a problem letting go her know really how much I DO LOVE HER. SHE IS MY HEART TO MY DIEING DAYS.......LOVE TO ALL HERE...PLEASE GIVE ME INFO ON MY FFFUUUCCCKKK UP.......

Bro Im sorry but you Fawked up bad. I dont blame her for being hurt. Are you really sorry for her or are you sorry you just got caught.

Exactly, would you keep getting on there if she didn't know? the respectable thing would to delete the account in front of her, but the trust might not be that easy to fix

just fcked up bad there.

your dont ever go lookign for someone else no matter what,that was just a stupid move

this aint something you can just fix,u screwed up.the trust is gone, you best to just go on.

have her read me plz ive had alot of bad realionships ive been used ive been cheated on ive had just about it all happen and some times its hard to belive some one truly does love you its easy to not belive where its much hard to just accept something some times it takes time especialy for a man were stupid and simple some times and were not to forth comeing with our feeling and when we are we do it hard and if we get hurt we dont get over it for a long as hell timecause its not easy for all men to open up and accept it yeah he is a moron but at the same time if he is will to talk it out step back and try and fix it maybe its worth a try cause he would be a prity stupid moron to put this up after all that and expect us to save him lets face it alot of people one here are looking for something they want not want some one else needs they arnt gonna cover his ass and im not either but what im saying just think about it its up to you and what you realy want and if you truly do love him then think what is best for you and him but keep the thing on a shor leash lol its good and make him delete the stupid account lol.

You seem pretty mellow and a good Bro but Orange cat I think is right. Move on...Just my 2cents

What was your intention for making another profile?

CAUSE I TRUELY THOUGHT SHE DIDNT LOVE ME!!!!!!!! AND WAS JUST SAYING IT TO PLEASE ME, BUT I HAVE FAILED TO OPEN MY EYES AND THAT SHE IS THE ONE FOR ME

First of all..when you were on there talking to other weman and LIEING to them you were cheating on your girl! You do dont love your girl when you are trying to find something diferent..you guys only think with my penis and maybe next time you will think with your head and stop just thinking about your self and think how it effects the only you "LOVE"! I hate fake people and that is what you are!

all I can say bro is learn from this mistake,never never misuse a womans trust.dont ever throw a womans love away just because u dont think she loved you.or thought she was saying it to please you.you messed up bad.

your best bet is to move on,and truly learn from this.

I HAD IT UP FOR A COUPLE OF DAYS WHEN SHE FOUND IT, BUT I DIDNT CHEAT ON HER NOR DID I TALK TO ANYONE ON THERE.

you should not of had it up that was your mistake it was there,and she found it rather you did any thing or not,its the point it was made.

See Bro. Girls take this ****e serious. Krimp doesnt even know you and look how pissed off she is . Its ok sweety, not all of us are dogs

gypsy

The facts stand, I was a ffuucckk up,,I love the hell out of her,,I was scared to let her into my heart,,I was scared to let her into my mind,,it was the way of my past..I lived this life for 10 years,,and I dont or did not know how to let go,,she and I talked abot it for a while,,and to say the least I was wrong,,and she knows it,,but at the same time,,I feel so damn bad about what i did,to not trust her,I feel like I owe her more then what she can give,,,,SHE IS TRULY MY HEART,,AND SHE MAKE MY LIFE COMPLETE..........LOVE TO ALL HERE .....

and now youre on another dating site???? ha ha ha this just keeps getting better!!!

I DONT USE THIS AS A DATING SITE, I USE THIS AS A WAY TO SEEK INSIGHT FROM PEOPLE WHO HAD OR IS HAVEING THE SAME PROBLEMS AS ME....

Sounds like you had a communication issue to do what you did. I would apologize to her and tell her how I truly felt before this incident occured but don't forget to emphasize on how much I love her. Ask her what she wants to happen now and respect her wishes. If she leaves, she'll be back if she loves me. After I give her a few days to cool off it's time to talk to her to see if I can reconcile. But that's just me, good luck on what you decide.