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Topic: An Ex Problem
izzynavi's photo
Fri 03/16/07 05:50 AM
Just the same as others....take time for yourself. Find yurself again.
Do not go out on the town to wash those hurt away. You are vulnerable at
this time and a rebound is no good for any concerned. Just be by
yourself and find something new to do, away from the crowd, away from
the memories - unitl they are just that - memories -.

As to taking her off MYSPACE, well, it's your space and she no longer
rules in it!

I know that there is a small wish that things may return to the way you
were but when she broke it off, nothing will ever be the same, so that
is something you will have to deal with. And until you do, you will find
yourself wishing and hoping, and in the meantime you life slips on
by......

Tneal's photo
Fri 03/16/07 06:20 AM
Friendship works both ways. It can't be just one sided. I want to thank
you for opening my eyes to a problem I have been having with a friend of
mine.

It seems that it is time for both of us to walk away. I will never
close the door completely and I don't think you should either. But I
will also not spend my life spinning my wheels for someone that does not
work on the relationship as much as I do.

If she needs space... give it to her. In the mean time, do what you need
to do to get over the relationship. If that means taking her off of
your Myspace, then do so. But please, do not change who you are and keep
yourself real k?

1moresleeplessyouth's photo
Fri 03/16/07 07:45 AM
I was recently in a similiar situation to you. Same old, we started
talking again at his request but it was more myself making the effort -
he was cold and distant, impatient and nothing like the friend I thought
he would be. There comes a time when you have to realize that you have
to get over it anyway that you can. I deleted him off my buddy list and
realized the less I saw his SN pop up the less need there was to talk to
him. As far as her being upset about the Myspace thing - it'll blow
over, girls are ridiculous sometimes.

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