MOST WOMEN! I can tell you that I was married before and had gotten taken to the cleaners. It is not just the woman anymore that get alimony and all that. My ex really did a number on me financially and I am still in recovery. I however do not look at marriage as a bad thing. I still have hope that not all men are bad and there is another marriage in store for me one day. People tend to back out of commitment too easily now days. There are just too many choices out there, which in turn has become a bad thing. What happened to "until death do us part" anyways? I have an idea, but it is too harsh to explain. I respect the fact that people can live together and not marry but it is not for me. I don't just want to play house with someone. Where is the commitment there? If you don't walk the line then your gone. Nothing unconditional there for me and that is what I am looking for.