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Topic: Start as friends...
Lily0923's photo
Fri 08/01/08 10:51 AM
I've seen this in a thousand profiles, doesn't everyone start as friends? I mean I hardly meet someone and start as enemies, or meet someone and start as lovers.

What does that mean?

lilangel2's photo
Fri 08/01/08 10:52 AM
means Sllllllllloooooooooooooooow Goooooooooooooooooo! :wink:

Etrain's photo
Fri 08/01/08 10:53 AM
yes...friends first...enemies laterlaugh laugh laugh

lionsbrew's photo
Fri 08/01/08 10:53 AM
i think i means they just want to take their time and really gt to know someone first with being judgemental.

Kleisto's photo
Fri 08/01/08 10:54 AM
what angel said. :wink:

Lily0923's photo
Fri 08/01/08 10:54 AM

means Sllllllllloooooooooooooooow Goooooooooooooooooo! :wink:


Who doesn't do that though is my question? who meets after one date and are "in a relationship"?? Or send 3 emails and are "in a relationship" ???

Jules0565's photo
Fri 08/01/08 10:54 AM

yes...friends first...enemies laterlaugh laugh laugh


laugh laugh
You're so bad!

ReconParty19's photo
Fri 08/01/08 10:55 AM
Sounds like you answered your own question...

lilangel2's photo
Fri 08/01/08 10:55 AM


means Sllllllllloooooooooooooooow Goooooooooooooooooo! :wink:


Who doesn't do that though is my question? who meets after one date and are "in a relationship"?? Or send 3 emails and are "in a relationship" ???


You'd be suprised...or maybe you wouldn't HA! bigsmile

itsmetina's photo
Fri 08/01/08 10:56 AM
i'm thinking it means take things slow and hands off

Lily0923's photo
Fri 08/01/08 10:56 AM

Sounds like you answered your own question...


Uhm, no, because I don't understand why it has to be stated... It's the way it's supposed to be, it's the normal and natural progression of things, so why make a point in saying it?

itsmetina's photo
Fri 08/01/08 10:58 AM
I've come across men on here that think you need to put out after 3 dates

OrangeCat's photo
Fri 08/01/08 10:59 AM
I am talking to someone and the only reason we have the rock solid friendship and bond that we do now is because she is longdistance,but because of that we have been able to grow.now we are moving forward.

lilangel2's photo
Fri 08/01/08 10:59 AM


Sounds like you answered your own question...


Uhm, no, because I don't understand why it has to be stated... It's the way it's supposed to be, it's the normal and natural progression of things, so why make a point in saying it?


Maybe cos they're tired of getting a marriage proposal after the first couple emails! HA!bigsmile Yup it does happen! huh

Etrain's photo
Fri 08/01/08 10:59 AM


Sounds like you answered your own question...


Uhm, no, because I don't understand why it has to be stated... It's the way it's supposed to be, it's the normal and natural progression of things, so why make a point in saying it?

because many don't go by that normal and natural progression...they try to marry you after the first date??? Is that a good answer???

ReconParty19's photo
Fri 08/01/08 11:00 AM


Sounds like you answered your own question...


Uhm, no, because I don't understand why it has to be stated... It's the way it's supposed to be, it's the normal and natural progression of things, so why make a point in saying it?


Maybe in your world? I have seen all side of it plus I don't have that line in mind.

Jules0565's photo
Fri 08/01/08 11:01 AM
It's a different meaning of "friends" ..... I believe.

I have male friends.. but I'm looking for that true "friendship
" in my potential mate..::shrug:::smile:


Lily0923's photo
Fri 08/01/08 11:01 AM

I've come across men on here that think you need to put out after 3 dates


I've also met those guys... and it's usually the last date.

It just seems like a defense mechinism to say that, and then if things do get heated, they have the fall back, "I said I just wanted to be friends"

no photo
Fri 08/01/08 11:01 AM


Sounds like you answered your own question...


Uhm, no, because I don't understand why it has to be stated... It's the way it's supposed to be, it's the normal and natural progression of things, so why make a point in saying it?


Well, I also have to state I'm not into cybersex, etc., too.... because some people actually think OTHERWISE!!! laugh laugh laugh

lilangel2's photo
Fri 08/01/08 11:05 AM
It probably don't matter what you state in your profile anyway...alot do't even read your profile. I have stated my LOVE for Peccy all over my profile...even have his pic on there and I still emails hitting on me, wanting me to yahoo, even giving me phone numbers! Some as young as 18! whoa

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