There you go guys...
That's why it doesn't happen... when You are in the FRIEND ZONE.

Don't be that NICE Guy that listens to the girl when she is down or need a shoulder to lean on... because you just put yourself in the Friend Zone. Some other guy will come along and become more than friend except for you being the Nice Guy.

Nope, too often feelings get involved and then there are problems

I disagree...every guy I've ever dated started in the friend zone. If they can't be your best friend when you're dating...then how does that work? I would not thing very well.

well if you put it that way ,i would make love to her then...

Hi..

Look at the first few female responses on this thread.
The guy in the Friend Zone does not get to intimacy with the girl.

I think you are very special that you have a Best Friend that you can be intimate with. Congratulations.

Remember Guys.. it is the kiss of death... when she labels you Nice and when you are the one she talks TO about her boyfriend... HAHA!!!

i'd already have the condom in my hand




hell,i might even be putting it on before she's done asking

been there done that ! it didnt work , some one always get's hurt in the end !

no if theyre your good friend then there is some emotional connection

NOPE...to risky...
if im gonna have sex....i want to have lotsa strings..wrapped all around me

Now that I've gotten a little older, I'd say yes. WHy not? Have sex trying to get each other off and try new things.

I might, but it never ends well.

I got out of a bad relationship, and I have a very close male friend comfort me the whole way through... even as close as staying the night with me while I cried myself to sleep. A month later... god I was so attracted to him for some reason. We'd make out and eventually we had sex... and it was akward and uncomfortable right after. We both knew we shouldn't have... and it took months and months after not talking about it, for him to finally break down my door and we talked about it... but now we are more distant from eachother.... which is terrible... because he knows me in a way nobody else does and I need him more than ever sometimes

I have to agree with you on this 1!

Yes, if she is clear that it is NSA.

The alternative: "Do a stranger who might have any number of psycho problems and diseases."

Not my style.

Point 1.
"Guys don't get into the Friend Zone. The one a girl cries to after the 3rd or 4th bad relationship."

You are only setting up Comfort, but there is no attraction.
Attraction has sexual value. Comfort has no sexual value.
This is what she is seeing.

Ladies.. this is what the guy see... if I show her I care and provide her with security and her needs.. she will love me. (as a Friend, a brother)




Point 2...
Don't be the Nice Guy, because you are a *****.
Being the Nice Guy inside is ok, let her find it when she gets to know you and when she is attracted to you. But you will have to learn to wear the "Wolf's clothes" and be confident.

Ladies shouldn't have to go to bed with the Nice Guy.
The Nice Guy is the one who needs to be a man and gain some confidence and some attraction, instead of wheezing into a relationship.

Casual sex is a scary and dangerous thing. It also says a lot about the person(s) involved. Not everyone can do it.

As well..... sex is not merely an activity. It is not a relaxing afternoon.

It would depend on my mood at the time. If I am vulnerable and am not interested in some other girl, then I will be highly tempted to do so. I know my "little head" will be saying "Yes!..Yes!..Yes!" but my mind and my heart will think differently.

Throw in alcohol, and I might make the mistake of doing it. Throw in that I would see it as an opportunity to ease sexual frustrations, then I might do it. You just have to be strong and not give into it.

Casual sex was for when I was younger and much more immature. Not judging anyone that's cool with it, its just not for me anymore.
Nowadays I don't really want my encounters to be casual, I want a GF damnit! I want the romance that leads up to it, and the whole thing. Sex fr sex' sake, nah I'll just go help myself.

The friend thing always has strings attached to it because there is a prior relationship there, and it hardly ever leads to anything good.