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Topic: How could an @$$ head break my heart...
FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 07/29/08 11:58 PM

liar.. you dont lack emotions!!! ppfft.... you just think you do!!!!! flowerforyou :wink: smitten


kinda down...
had been seein a guy for a while...grew rather fond of him...let down my walls...just to have what always happens repeat itself...AHHH!!! there are 5 stages of grief...you must go thru all 5 to be healed...i'm stuck at 4....could use a little confidence booster here....



Can't speak on grief, I lack the emotions...however you are a very attractive person, and I'm sure a personality to match. Maybe start going places you could see yourself finding a good person, myself not much of a bar type of guy...just an example.flowers



Well then I think pretty well.:tongue:

izzie's photo
Tue 07/29/08 11:58 PM
((((((((((((F&L))))))))))))))))smooched smooched smooched smooched smooched smooched smooched

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 07/30/08 12:02 AM
((((((Izzie))))))smooched flowerforyou love

izzie's photo
Wed 07/30/08 12:04 AM
hows the night tonite sweets?
smooched

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 07/30/08 12:06 AM

hows the night tonite sweets?
smooched


Content as always, and your's cutie?flowers

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 07/30/08 12:06 AM
By the way, where'd your friend go...I was getting interested, but I'm afraid of emailing her...blushing

izzie's photo
Wed 07/30/08 12:07 AM


hows the night tonite sweets?
smooched


Content as always, and your's cutie?flowers
OP is on my couch.. and we finaly got my internet fixed so we teaze eachother without sayin a word. lol


its a good day..
:wink: flowerforyou

izzie's photo
Wed 07/30/08 12:08 AM

By the way, where'd your friend go...I was getting interested, but I'm afraid of emailing her...blushing
drop her a line.. shes a sweetie!
:heart:

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 07/30/08 12:09 AM


By the way, where'd your friend go...I was getting interested, but I'm afraid of emailing her...blushing
drop her a line.. shes a sweetie!
:heart:


But I'm an anarchist! Maybe she is too right-wing or left-wing.:tongue:

Already sent her one...:tongue:

Amathyst2's photo
Wed 07/30/08 12:09 AM



I have always found that stage 5 is just get mad...anger usually does it...and then it's done...and don't be down sweety...just means better things are in store for you. I have come to realize we go through all the bad so we are able to fully see the good...a lesson in what we don't want so to speak...keep your head up, shoulders back, a smile on your face...and believe that you are better than what they had to offer you...Good Luckbigsmile


I agree! flowerforyou

You're very pretty. Your profile seems to give off your sense of anger. If you're looking for a man for a relationship my suggestion would be to be positive in your essay. You're well within your right to be angry. But there are lots of great guys out there.

Or perhaps this would be a good time to meet friends and work on yourself if you do not feel ready to move on. You definitely do not want a rebound situation. Unless you're just looking for a fling to help you get over this guy.

It's your call.. Good luck flowerforyou


no....no flings here....just walls...inpenetrable walls....im scared to get close to anyone ever again...this will probably change but for right now the walls remain....As far as your advice about my profile, it has been changed.....thank you so much for pointing that out....i didnt even remember wtf i wrote....lol....


No worries! Glad to help a sista out! :smile:

JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 07/30/08 12:25 AM

it just really sucks right now...all the memories are on constant rewind in my head...i dunno what kind of music everyone listens to but I myself like to listen to lyrics and see how they relate to my life and i was listening to the radio today and heard the song thunder by boys like girls and i cried...its an AWESOME song and its so close to home right now...


Here's an idea. Turn off the radio...go to your local music store...and pick up a Slayer cd...any one of them will do.

The lyrics on that cd will definitely not remind you of the dipsh*t that broke up with you.

Unless of course you buy God Hates Us All and listen to the song Payback....lol

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 07/30/08 12:26 AM


it just really sucks right now...all the memories are on constant rewind in my head...i dunno what kind of music everyone listens to but I myself like to listen to lyrics and see how they relate to my life and i was listening to the radio today and heard the song thunder by boys like girls and i cried...its an AWESOME song and its so close to home right now...


Here's an idea. Turn off the radio...go to your local music store...and pick up a Slayer cd...any one of them will do.

The lyrics on that cd will definitely not remind you of the dipsh*t that broke up with you.

Unless of course you buy God Hates Us All and listen to the song Payback....lol


Or any Rammstein...cause I bet you don't know German.smokin

izzie's photo
Wed 07/30/08 12:39 AM
but she does know some german.
bigsmile

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 07/30/08 12:45 AM

but she does know some german.
bigsmile


Not near as much or as quick of tongue to pick up most of what is sang.laugh

Hell, I know German fairly well and still get thrown off with Rammstein.rofl

izzie's photo
Wed 07/30/08 12:47 AM
thats why i have a german echange brother !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



teeheehee...

Goofball73's photo
Wed 07/30/08 01:03 AM

kinda down...
had been seein a guy for a while...grew rather fond of him...let down my walls...just to have what always happens repeat itself...AHHH!!! there are 5 stages of grief...you must go thru all 5 to be healed...i'm stuck at 4....could use a little confidence booster here....



Seems to me that you project this vibe that all the guys you date will eventually break your heart. So, walls come up and when you believe that you have a guy who won't break your heart, you let those walls down...only to see this act come back to bite you on the arse. This happens so much in relationships to both sexes.

When you let someone in close to you, you put so much trust into that person. And, it stings when they take that trust and just crap on it. But that is the risk you have to take if you truly want a relationship to work. I've never seen a relationship work where someone always kept those walls up, refusing to let the other in because of past disappointments. Going by your comment of "just to have happen what always happens" says alot to me. Means you have experienced this alot (which you are 21, so to go through this alot is a shame).

Know this. No matter what has happened in the past, tomorrow is a new day. And out their, somewhere, is a dude that will break your walls down and prove he deserved to do so.

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