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Topic: Cheating on her husband.
MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 07/29/08 04:00 AM
:smile: If a married woman cheats on her husband, how much accountability should rest with the husband?:smile:

no photo
Tue 07/29/08 04:02 AM
There might be problems within the marriage, maybe (just playing devil's advocate) the problems really are all his fault. But, the decision to cheat rests with her, it's her responsibility, her decision and it's just wrong, no matter how you try to justify it. flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 07/29/08 04:04 AM

There might be problems within the marriage, maybe (just playing devil's advocate) the problems really are all his fault. But, the decision to cheat rests with her, it's her responsibility, her decision and it's just wrong, no matter how you try to justify it. flowerforyou
flowerforyou I agreeflowerforyou

nekred's photo
Tue 07/29/08 04:36 AM
look, you absolutley can't blame your spouse. If your not happy get out of relationship.

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 07/29/08 04:37 AM

look, you absolutley can't blame your spouse. If your not happy get out of relationship.
drinker I think your rightdrinker

missy51970's photo
Tue 07/29/08 04:39 AM
You cant place any of the accountablility on her husband...None . If she cheats its completely her fault !!!

ChefBadger's photo
Tue 07/29/08 04:41 AM
Cheating is for cowardly, selfish assholes (both genders) that choose personal gratification over confrontation and communication.

sparkleplenty424's photo
Tue 07/29/08 04:49 AM
I think that people cheat because they are not happy. If they are not happy, it is on both of them. It takes two to make a bad relationship. People who get cheated on are rarely innocent victims.

no photo
Tue 07/29/08 05:05 AM
The onus is hers, just like it would be his, if either took steps to cheat on the other. Cheating is a behaviour spurred by a symptom of a bad marriage usually, but it's an individual's free will that takes that leap, so it's the individual's responsibility to deal with.

mssilverfox's photo
Tue 07/29/08 05:07 AM
Welcome back mirror flowerforyou flowerforyou

MyrtleBeachDude's photo
Tue 07/29/08 05:23 AM
Edited by MyrtleBeachDude on Tue 07/29/08 05:24 AM
If she looks like Roseanne Barr then it's her fault. If she looks like Pamela Anderson then it's a gift! Do I sound like I pig? bigsmile

no photo
Tue 07/29/08 05:43 AM
The decision to cheat is all her, so accountability rests on her. Doesn't matter if there are problems in the marriage.

TreeTeal's photo
Tue 07/29/08 09:28 AM
About 50% is his fault, maximum. The other 50% is her fault. I cannot understand why some married people have such a tough time just talking to each other, and communicating what they need/want.

buttons's photo
Tue 07/29/08 11:18 AM
none..... you can only blame your own actions on yourself that was your choice

kk35695's photo
Tue 07/29/08 11:38 AM

If she looks like Roseanne Barr then it's her fault. If she looks like Pamela Anderson then it's a gift! Do I sound like I pig? bigsmile


.....laugh laugh laugh laugh

Dragoness's photo
Tue 07/29/08 11:42 AM
The cheater is fully responsible for making that choice. If there are problems in the relationship and it is that bad, leave. One should not take advantage of another person at that level.

auburngirl's photo
Tue 07/29/08 12:26 PM

I think that people cheat because they are not happy. If they are not happy, it is on both of them. It takes two to make a bad relationship. People who get cheated on are rarely innocent victims.


I agree

itsmetina's photo
Tue 07/29/08 12:27 PM
gas em

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 07/29/08 12:28 PM


I think that people cheat because they are not happy. If they are not happy, it is on both of them. It takes two to make a bad relationship. People who get cheated on are rarely innocent victims.


I agree
happy me2flowerforyou

kk35695sgirl's photo
Tue 07/29/08 12:28 PM
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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